[FR] Daygame at a college campus

IntensePancakes · 2013-09-20T02:59:32+00:00

Good job with so many approaches, a lot of people don't have the balls to approach that many in one day. Just keeping doing it though, the more you approach the more comfortable you'll get doing it. Comfort is key to success in these day game approaches. Because of how rarely girls get directly approached like that, you're not going to make a good impression unless you have rock solid confidence. And all it takes to get that is time and experience.

I'd say something that you can work towards right now is actually making some kind of connection with these girls when you approach them. They aren't going to remember/want to hang out with some random guy that just asked where the bookstore was and then asked them what their major and year was, etc. You want something that will make a lasting impression on them that will make them be interested in getting to know you. There's really no way to teach this, you just have to be spontaneous and confident and that only comes with practice.

Once again though good job approaching so many, keep it up.

CaptThack · 2013-09-20T07:54:52+00:00

Great job approaching that many girls, I always try no less than 3 so to me you did well. Daygame can be difficult if you don't find a place with a lot of girls.

What you need to be doing now is focusing on your nonverbal communication a deal then on how to not run out of things to say.

Your nonverbals should always show that you are an extroverted person with a sense of humor. This is firstly done by having a nice smile. Also work on your tonality. What works for me is to imagine that there's another person behind the girl that I'm talking to and speak to that person. Get really used to an "outdoor" voice and use it. Also try for a deep and rapport breaking voice. This can be done by speaking from your diaphragm. That's the spot in your chest that gets real tight when you exhale completely. Always speak from there so it becomes habit.

As for the major sticking point of guys who are new you need to learn how to keep the verbal ball rolling. This will be a great skill in life in general when understood. But what you want to do first is stop asking questions about her and start making assumptions. Instead of "are you new here" say "this must be your first year, you look as lost as I am/was". By doing this you demonstrate that you are willing to take control of the interaction without asking and it gives her the chance to correct you: if you're right you look intuitive and if your wrong you can talk about whatever her correction will be.

Another way is to plant seeds for topics and recognize the ones she does herself. If your talking about classes she takes and the topic moves towards things related like teachers, feel free to move back to classes and then to things like other students or other schools. Every topic has a sub topic like this. If you talk about your town you can then talk about the weather, then the people, then what it was like living there. You need to take control of the flow of the conversation.

And most importantly do not be afraid to talk about things that you like that you think she wouldn't like. In all my sets I mention Captain America and I'm always surprised at how many girls even know who he is. Other girls go on and talk about their nerdy habits too. But most importantly talk about yourself. Topics about yourself will get their attention most.

And last but not least keep approaching. You're doing great!

Title	[FR] Daygame at a college campus
Author	ThePUA_Baddie
Upvotes	8
Comments	3
Date	September 20, 2013 12:35 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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