Finding out about seddit and actually reading it two weeks ago has helped me in numerous ways. Besides basic confidence, I've gotten myself to the gym, started to lose some weight, and overall just have this whole "You don't think im _____? Fuck you, im a bamf." attitude that doesn't let me get put down.

Anyway, to the story- meet this cute girl (HB7) at my university, shes new. Im putting on a demonstration for one of the sports clubs at my school all while shouting at people rallying them over to come try it out. She signs up, give her a quick lesson, while negging slightly because she is getting destroyed by her equally-newby practice partner. Eye contact, long handshake at the end, go our separate ways knowing I'll run into her again.

I do, and play stupid when she asks where I'm going, I just figure I'll go with her, she thinks shes helping me by showing me where to go. Some light chatting and I say something that intrigues her, I say lets go outside. Talk for an hour or so, light kino escalation, # close and she even asks specifically when she could see me again, asap. Have a date scheduled.

Forward on to the date, I bring her to a block party going on by my university, she wants some chips, w/e, she gets them (free), I steal them. Get some actual food- move on. I say, "I need to go shopping, lets go" and we head to a store, sit a chat a bit at a table, then go back to shopping, and decide to go back to my place to watch a movie. I'll pause for a few seconds, and she will be super nervous that she said something wrong. Ill neg her slightly and she will apologize, it comes down to whatever I do, whatever she does, she wants me.

This is great until she asks about more personal stuff like political affiliation/religion. Im an atheist, shes a hardbound christian. Instant moral dilemma for her, I didn't give a fuck.

Long story short I give her an ultimatum, taking her to a secluded place and make a move, but she resists, gives off the most guilty mumbles I've heard in my life, and goes on. Thanks seddit, because after this part I would have been broken for a few days, nope, 10 minutes later, doing my own thing, not giving a fuck.

This is my favorite part though,

Fast forward two days, yesterday, and she messages me on facebook apologizing like crazy, saying she is so sorry for flirting with me, im one of the most awesome people shes ever met but she just can't stand how im a godless s.o.b.

I never thought I would get validation for the shit I learned here, I never thought I would be able to get a girl to like me so much as to be forced to apologize thinking that she was the one doing everything, while I puppeteer'ed the entire thing. It was great.