So I've been reading the advice on seddit and it's really been helping my game. Figure I'd give back a little bit so here goes:
I recently went to out to dinner/drinks with some friends. There where a few chicks I knew and was friends with, and a hb7 I didn't really know. I noticed a lot of IOIs from her, such as sitting across from me and always talking to me. Some of you might not a agree with this, but I didn't # close her, because I believe sometimes it make things awkward. We were in a group with her close friends the whole time at a table, and it would've really put her on the spot if I asked.
Instead, I added her on FB and messaged her. The key is that instead of chit-chat, I just asked her straight up if she wanted to get drinks/food and her number (she agrees).
The whole time I kept contact to a minimal, because we had already built comfort before. I also didn't tell her where we were going to eat, just that I would pick her up, because girls like some mystery and a guy that leads.
I'm not going to bore you with the whole dinner; just some key points. First, I made sure to lead the whole time. We where supposed to get a table so we could eat, but the place was packed and there was a 20 minute wait. Instead of getting flustered (she definitely was), I directed her to the bar so we could drink first.
Also, I kept up kino the whole time; touching her arm for jokes and light hand-to-hand touching. I also directed the convo sexually when I could, like making jokes about her wanting to bang the waiter.
After, I drove her back and asked if she wanted to hang more. She invited me back to watch a movie (BIG IOI). She asked if I wanted to see some Disney movie we joked about or American Horror Story. Of course I picked the one with all the sex in it.
I sat down and she sat on the other side of the couch, but it didn't phase me because I said "why don't you move closer, I don't bite". She sat next to me, legs touching, and I ramped up the kino by moving closer, and putting my arm around her. Now I knew she wanted to kiss, but I built up some anticipation by staring right at her and talking for the whole show. When it ended, I just didn't say anything and kissed her. By that point she was so into it that she jumped on top of me. And the rest you can guess....Hope this helps!
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