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| 1 | Just bumped into Russell Brand picking up a girl on YouTube. I know she's a groupie and he a celebrity, but bravo.This is not seduction. This is not pickup. This is Russel Brand talking to someone on the Internet. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with flakes that keep stringing you along.If a girl flaked that much, I'd just text her saying something along the lines of 'nice meeting you', and leave it at that. She sounds like a girl who just lives in her phone and wants an ego boost. Don't waste your time with women who keep stringing you along. Would any self respecting person put up with someone who treats them like that? No. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 11:37 AM |
| 9 | House party, "Game Illiterate" buddy bangs FOUR women. Perspective shifter.Cool story bro but what is your point? | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 11:35 AM |
| 6 | Sick of flaking! Is it worth getting their numbers?made sure I followed the guide exactly but still nothing! Ok life lesson here about pickup; just because it works with one girl doesn't mean it works with all. This is a guide, it doesn't mean that all girls will follow the same routine. I dont always build that much attraction with some of these girls but I do show my intent You've answered your own question. Sure you've said you think she is hot, but girls don't work on looks and intentions alone, they want to see you are a fun guy and that yo… | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 07:53 AM |
| 2 | How To Seduce The Hottest Girl In The RoomHow to seduce the hottest girl in the room? Let me save you 5 minutes of your time. Go up to her and fucking talk to her. Don't start listening to people spurting out stuff about 'oh man she is a 10 when I'm only a 5!'. The rating scale is bullshit anyway, as Mark Manson points out in Models. You are a '10' if you are improving yourself and trying to better yourself. Just go and talk to her like you would any other girl at day or night. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Extremely scared of approaching girls.OP, the fact that you are here and saying this, getting involved in this subreddit, can only mean one thing; from here on in you are only going to learn more and more, and end up being a real success with women. It's a rocky road to start with, but I got into this stuff when I was 27, about 6 months ago, and now am flying with the ladies. Sure, I have a lot more life experiences which help my confidence, but the fact you are starting so early is very impressive. I recommend Mark Manson's models … | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 07:39 AM |
| 1 | is it too late for a 28 year old with no experience?Will PM you some details on some good resources which particular members of this subreddit disapprove of but which I think will really help you. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How Simple Pickup has helped more than typical mental masturbation materialThis is not up for discussion. Ok chill out dude, this is an online forum for discussion. Don't get so hot headed. I created this thread to discuss with other people about how to help them get over AA. Is this not the point of this subreddit? Shame I see you also removed this from the queue. SP is a comedy troupe that exploits the pickup community for publicity. So not like RSD Nation or any other guys who charge $2,000 for a weekend of trying to pick up women? They are all the same, and persona… | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How Simple Pickup has helped more than typical mental masturbation materialSorry but I completely disagree. You could argue that any kind of cold approach with a woman is harassment, and it is what typical feminazis say about guys who try to pick up girls in the day time. Pickup is all about being successful with women, and so many guys on here complain about having approach anxiety; watching SP has made my AA infinitely better, allowing me to talk to women. As I've said as well, women have actually told me that they wished more guys did it. Look at SP's videos where t… | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.I asked a question EXACTLY like this yesterday. Thanks for phrasing it better OP. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Dangers of Reverting - Help?Sucks bro, but it sounds like you found a good way to deal with it. I think that is pretty good advice. Especially about getting out and approaching. I think it's damaged me in terms of wanting to try and do daygame as well. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 09:35 AM |
| 0 | Converting Old Numbers into DatesThis really isn't worth your time or effort. If you have to resort to trying to revive old numbers, then you aren't getting out enough, or trying hard enough. Simple as that. Girls will flake all the time, it's part of what happens. Just accept it and move on. Don't resort to this needy behavior. | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 03:37 PM |
| 33 | Most day-game approaches end in "Oh that is so sweet, but I have a boyfriend..." What tips can you give me?Here is a really good tip for you in regards to girls who have boyfriends. Move on. Seriously, don't do what some guys say and try and bullshit your way through trying to get with a girl who has a boyfriend. You are wasting your time, and even if she doesn't have a boyfriend and said it to make you go away, that alone shows that she isn't into you so much that she will lie to you to make you go away. That isn't the kind of person you'd want to get a drink with or hook up with right there. | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 10:36 AM |
| 2 | The Quest for Ass.Be clear in your intent. Just go for it and once you've hooked up with a girl ask her what she is looking for, and regardless of her answer just be honest and say that you are just looking for fun at the moment. The key is abundance. If you keep meeting women and taking them back home, you are bound to run across some which want the same as you. Also as people have said, Tinder and Online Dating is brilliant for hookups. Just don't let it affect your real life game; I've done a lot of online dat… | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.Nice one dude. I would say however that looking at your other comments, being a 6"2 dude who is probably well built, you already have a head start, so I'm not not too sure what the community as a whole can take away from this post. However, saying that, if it makes guys look at themselves from a physically attractive point of view, then I think it helps. Since I tried online dating about a year ago I wanted to get bigger and look better, and so it spurred me on, with this subreddit getting my in… | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of one night stands, to the point of stopping mid sex and telling them to leave.It sounds to me like there are things here beyond shacking up with lots of women. The way I see things this is a way to help you to meet more interesting women. Don't feel pressured to keep shagging random girls because you want to get laid, when you'd rather settle down; no shame in that at all. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Fear of being the creepy guyI really recommend Mark Manson's view on this from Models. If you haven't done so already, read it! There is also an audio-book which is smashing. If you ask people what 'creepy' is, nobody will be able to give you a definition, just examples of it. Needless to say, you need to accept that some people will find you creepy if you go up and speak to women. What you have to do is allow yourself to be able to be creepy. You need to have your thoughts and actions aligned, so here is an example of a c… | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 02:48 PM |
| 3 | How To Get Girls Interested In A ThreesomeOk dude, so I posted this exact question maybe a month ago or so in a few subreddits. The overall conclusion I got? Abundance. That is the key. If you hook up with a ton of women, chances are there will be one of them in there is who is Bi or who wants to try a threesome. That is the way to do it. I've tried organising them online before and they never pan out. Someone get's cold feet or something. Whenever I hook up with a girl, I always throw the question in there of 'what is the most sexually… | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Why you should be very careful of certain types of people in the "community".Carter can ride a surfboard of plywood and nails up his own ass. | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Ear plugs at the loud club make you awesome!I'd be interested in seeing which one people would recommend as well actually. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Guide to Getting a Threesome?Thanks, good point! I don't suppose you are aware of any good literature on threesomes at all? I feel that I need to get a better understanding of how these things can escalate into this! | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Guide to Getting a Threesome?I think you are right; as with a lot of the other comments on here, trying to set up a threesome by arrangement seems to be a bit hard, and by the sounds of it I just need to work with having an abundance of women and then bringing up the subject! Out of interest how do you find many women reply when you bring up the fact you do pick up? | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 02:36 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Part II: Left the friends at home, First Solo night out ever. And it was awesome. #-close, k-close, hilarious rejectionGreat report, very details so props for that. All about doing it solo, so well done as well. Just a side note, I'm not sure if you have, but I'd recommend Mark Manson's Models; as soon as you start using the term 'HB', it insinuates that women are rate-able and therefore can be put on a pedestal. Similarly negging is just something I don't think is best to use, unless you want to give off a false alpha appearance. Regardless, nice one dude. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Grocery store approach, number, date set up6'5 220lb I really am against saying that taller guys get it easier, but come on dude. 6'5. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.This is exactly my point. The newbies reading all of these Tinder posts are just going to sit at home and use it as an excuse not to go out. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 12:41 PM |
| -9 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.99% of girls I have on Tinder are absolutely shocking at conversation. I have a plethora of matches but about 75% don't reply. Don't kid yourself, it is a waste of time in terms of developing yourself to be a sex worthy man. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 12:39 PM |
| -10 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.Why? So the answer is we all sit inside on our phones having that as the excuse to try and improve ourselves? I think I'd rather get out and about, talking to real women thanks bub. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 12:37 PM |
| -12 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.I have tried it, with little to no success | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How I slept with 8 girls on Tinder last weekRegardless of 'getting lays', treating it as a numbers game won't do anything to improve your game, nor implementing any kind of 'you need to be 7.8/10 to do this to get with girls who are 9/10'. As soon as you start using a rating scale you are putting the pussy on a pedestal. Tinder will never help you develop into a more sex worthy man. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:08 PM |
| 0 | How I slept with 8 girls on Tinder last weekI've been on Tinder now for some time and found it to be next to useless. The matches you do get paired with are girls who signed in about 3 days ago, and who don't reply to messages. It is a crutch which men fool themselves into thinking will help them 'get laid', but this ultimately won't improve you with women as a person, and you will get into the mind set of 'I can't be bothered to approach because I could just do it online'. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:01 PM |
| 17 | How I slept with 8 girls on Tinder last weekThis isn't useful information for the average guy, nor to anyone trying to engage in pickup. There are no skills to be learnt here. Everyone is doing exactly what you've written. In my personal opinion, using any kind of online dating service like this, even if it is Tinder, can hamper your ability to want to get out and talk to women. Basically the only way to be good with Tinder is to look good, and engage in basic chat; this isn't going to make the next cassanova, and the bangs you do get, wh… | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Pussied out at a club - Help meSo we should just have the sidebar and no way to post advice to others or ask questions? What a fantastic community idea. Why don't you set it up and let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Pussied out at a club - Help meOk firstly, I'm 27 and have to say major props for getting with this stuff so early in your life; I wish at that age I was aware of all of this stuff to be honest. It is a tough thing, approach anxiety. However, the best way I find to do with it is to just say 'fuck it', and go for it - if there is one thing I've picked up from this PUA stuff since I started about 3 months ago, it is that women LOVE guys who are confident and know what they want. If you are straight talking and know what you wan… | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Pussied out at a club - Help meNice attitude there bud. Maybe instead of getting all pent up and angry, you could just offer some advice to a 15 year old guy who wants to better himself. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 01:38 PM |
| 1 | So how many of you have been on this for a while but have yet to have any success whatsoever? Why?Started this at the start of February. Since then have approached a ton of women, had a few K closes, and 2 F closes. I'm new to all of this stuff and considering this, I'm not going back. It's like somebody has turned on the lightswitch. Get mentally focused on realising why you are number one, and women want that. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 08:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with cockblocking friends?I'd agree with this. Also try and lead her away from your friends if you can at some point so they won't be able to come an interfere, although this is pretty venue dependent. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 03:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchDamn that gave me shivers. Great post OP, I always enjoy reading friend zone stuff, you came across as a fucking machine in this. Just about being the one in control and leading the party. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 03:25 PM |
| 3 | What are your favorite routines?Only use routines if you are a beginner. I believe it was RSD Tyler who said that at the start when he did it, he had his favourite routines which worked; however he said in the long term it doesn't help you inner game, and you will eventually get used to doing them and subconsciously not put as much effort into the interaction. Game is all about developing yourself to be more attractive to women in the way you speak and deal with them; if you spend your time focusing on canned routines, then yo… | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 08:51 AM |
| 0 | What to do when a douche is insulting me in front of girl/s?I'm not sure if this relates exactly to the same level which you are having, but RSD Tyler has a really good video where he shuts down a hater when he is having fun with some women. Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Holy hell it works!I had exactly the same thing recently, with that eureka moment. Feel so damn good. One thing I'd probably say though, as amazing as this is, it sounds like you were panning off a load of compliments to her; I wouldn't give too many compliments personally, rather make her work for the other side of the interaction, as it will make her invest more, than you just saying all of these nice things to her. It's like the Millionaire in the Club analogy RSD Julien says, where you have to act like you are… | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 08:14 AM |
| 2 | "You could have had sex with me twice by now and it wouldn't have been rape""I don't have sex with guys the first night I hook up with them" Obvious shit test that. Just brush it off, keep escalating and doing everything as you would. Don't even register her saying it; that way she will see that it isn't a big deal and that it isn't winding you up. Eventually I bet she'd have succumbed to it. It's like when guys kiss a girl and she turns her head; just shrug it off, and go back to normal conversation - she will see that it isn't a big deal and then, as a result, be way … | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Approach timeWell done Alex, you smooth motherfucka. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Climate and Pickup - Your thoughtsI think I know what you mean, and I can appreciate that is how it comes across; however most of the successful pickup videos I see are of guys walking up to girls in places like Venice Beach, and other hot locales, compared to the streets of London which are filled with rain and cold skies. | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Climate and Pickup - Your thoughtsThanks for the tip dude, I think you are right on the lines there! | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Climate and Pickup - Your thoughtsHow do you stop somebody in it though? It is something I always find people wouldn't really want to just sit and talk in sadly! | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerGreat idea! I think I need to develop a bit more environmental awareness first, this can help! | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerGood point, I think I just need to chill the fuck out. I'm going to try taking up meditation to help, as at the moment I am getting too worried about the outcome when I need to get into a state like I've just smoked a whole tree's worth of joints. | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerI called it first dude ; ) | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerGreat ideas, and you are right; I can't remember which PUA said it but I remember having somebody say 'keep computer time and PUA time separate'. So true. Useless trivia sounds awesome, has it worked good as an opening line before? | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerYep! But oh well, have to learn from it! Won't be doing that again! | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerProbably about 20 seconds maybe? I had to walk past the store about 3 times to get the courage to do this one. | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerThanks bro, what you said makes great sense, I could have easily rolled with 'so I had this loaded question about where you work but this has ruined the whole thing now'. I think I am probably over analysing it all; I've been watching a ton of these pickup videos on youtube of Tyler and I think it may have gotten to me now and actually done some damage in terms of how he can just easily go up to women and kiss them in seconds; I feel like I need to be that good or women won't be interested. Plus… | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerThanks dude. I just feel like I'm not making any progress, even when I finally get the courage up to talk to a girl, Like I have no idea what to say next, and if I do it is usual boring shit like 'what do you like doing for fun' and 'where do you work' and all of this other stuff when I should be doing what everyone else is doing like Tyler, spinning them around and making them excited when I just fall to pieces. I feel like if I go on like this I'm actually going to be worse with women than bef… | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Need a script - completely useless after the openerGood point but seriously I've tried it about 4 times now and every time I just say the opener and just know the girl knows I am full of shit. Like I don't even have any skills TO improve. Where do I go from here? It all feels really forced. | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?Going to sound stupid here but how do you purposely look sexy? I don't know if what I'm wearing or how I dress is 'sexy' per say, and don't know where the difference would be if I came off as sexy or cheesy. Such a fine line. | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?Thanks again. I think this may be the problem with me; in my mind I'm thinking that at the moment I would just love to hook up with some women who were very open into anything and just have fun. However in my mind as well I'm also thinking I wouldn't say no to girlfriend material; I also always find it hard, even though I quite a sexually energized person, and into a lot of weird shit, to put it all on the table so quickly, and when I have tried, girls seem very turned off to it all. I think bec… | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?Thanks dude, this all makes sense; I think I just need to find a way to numb myself to think about what is going to happen next - I know one of the big things RSD Tyler goes on and on about is how you should just live in the moment and not worry about what is going to happen, which is all fair and true, but as soon as a line like 'I have a boyfriend' comes up, 95% of guys will naturally (without planning that shit) just clam up. I think this is the hard thing and my brain does to reconcile these… | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 04:06 PM |
| 1 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Thanks mate, good advice, and I think I just need to stop taking myself so damn seriously and learn to laugh it off! I need to get my energy levels up though, as I think my approach seems way too half handed at the moment. | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 01:21 PM |
| 1 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Based on....? | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Great post - this really is advanced level stuff, and incredible. I've just be aiming for the streets at the moment, but I think maybe doing it in more of an interesting setting may lead to some better conversation, like in a coffee shop. The only thing I would think of is in those kinds of situation is how you'd deal with someone who wasn't into you and gave off a very negative vibe very quickly, so if I was waiting in line for coffee and asked the girl in front of me about herself and there wa… | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Word up brother, congrats on it! I'm still finding it hard with the crutches but I've found the line I used where it looks quite innocent just to get their attention is a good way to get into it, and then move onto the move advanced stuff when I actually have my damn legs back - I want to do it where I see a girl, run up to her and am out of breathe, saying 'I saw you over there, though you looked cute, and had to introduce myself' | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 05:10 PM |
| 2 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Yeah, I got majorly into it after I watched Simple Pickups' videos. They are the bomb at it and it is really welcoming to a newbie to see how easy it is to pick up girls in the day time as long as you just know how to open yourself. I love the whole "say an introduction line / I saw you and think you are cute, hi my name is NAILGUNSODOMY", and go from there. Very natural. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 03:50 PM |
| 2 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.You are right there! I feel like kicking myself I'm just getting into all of this now, as it is amazing what people can do with this PUA stuff; I'm sure sadly at the moment I may not be giving off all of the right body cues, but I guess the only way to know is to keep trying and trying until I'm numb to any fear of rejection. Good idea about the halls, I'm sure I can think of something. What do you usually say when they call you out on it? | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 02:37 PM |
| 1 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Good pun ;-) In terms of Sympathy Reaction then, do you think she just talked to me because of the crutches, when it the first instance she wouldn't have even bothered listening to me? | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 02:36 PM |
| 6 | First Day Game Approach. Feels amazing, even with a 'rejection'.Thanks dude. I think once I get the use of my foot back a bit more it will be easier for me to get my rhythm going and really get into it all. I've thought about doing that on public transport although the one thing I always think about is what if it turns awkward though? Nowhere to dash off to and all of that. It's a funny thing because I live right in Central London, the weather is absolutely turd and there are sadly no major campuses about. I would also maybe need to find a good reason to be … | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 02:15 PM |
| 2 | FUCK. Will I ever succeed?Nothing wrong with fucking lots of girls. Are you only in this to collect a wealth of phone numbers? | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Love you guys, but how to deal with PUA vs. PUA?I didn't say he was a dick. The guy got on my wick, as it was literally 5 seconds before I was about to close with a number, and he comes out of nowhere. How could you not find that annoying? It was even worse that he was just repeating line after line with no enthusiasm. | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 12:06 PM |
| 0 | Love you guys, but how to deal with PUA vs. PUA?I mean, god damn, here I am about to close with a phone number and this dude comes out of nowhere, and basically fucks my set up. In all fairness I wasn't worried because we started talking about the Wolf of Wallstreet, with me saying I fucking loved it and how grimey and crazy it was, with the guy saying 'yeah I don't agree, I thuoght it was too realistic of the oppresion of capatalism'. At that point I just saw him even more as a shit stain, because as far as I'm aware, negativity like that ju… | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Any tips for tonight's Valentine Day?Yeah, don't prey on 'vulnerable' women like a very few people in this community may suggest. Be a man, get out there, approach women, and engage with them. Tonight is no different, and it shouldn't be. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How can I be even remotely confident pursuing girls with almost no sexual experience?Ok, firstly I have felt where you are coming from, and let me tell you, you need to get out of the cycle. I was in a seriously bad way about a week ago when I had my confidence just completely fucked; however, I came on here, started watching some of the videos PUA make (check out the 21 Convention, so much good stuff on there), and it instantly made me feel better, that I wasn't the only one suffering with these thoughts. Dude, don't get hung up on this stuff. You are over-analysing this when y… | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 05:04 PM |
| 3 | [FR]-Breaking inhibitions at NightclubWell fucking done dude. Taking that final plunge before leaving and grinding that girl was a seriously alpha as fuck move. That is what it is all about. I'm going out tomorrow night to a big club so will be thinking of this then! It's all about going out there and realising that girls aren't going to spit acid in your face when you want to challenge them to have some fun. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time being direct and getting a girl's number and taking her outYeah that would be 100% pretty cool. I got her number and texted her this morning saying that my head felt like a volcano went off, and asked if she put something in my drink to seduce me. She might reply, she might not, but no worries, onto the next one! | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 01:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Handling Kiss Rejection: Tips and Questions.Solid report here bro, and you handled it like a boss for sure. Don't ever apologise for trying to kiss a girl, IMO it basically smashes her view on your confidence into the ground as it kind of insinuates you wish you hadn't done it, which of course is bullshit. I had this last night and found it a hard thing, but I similarly made the massive mistake of jumping the gate too quickly; it is a hard thing to reconcile, because you see guys do it in clubs and K-close within minutes, so you think tha… | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 11:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] first date F-closeWell fucking done. You handled this like a don. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 10:43 AM |
| 4 | [FR] First time being direct and getting a girl's number and taking her outI then went out Monday evening and decided to start showing everyone how massive my balls were and start taking control of what I have. I went out, did some crazy dancing, trying to put myself out there as an interesting guy, and then had girls actually trying to flirt with me. I acted on it, and even though it could have gone better, I ended up pulling a girl. Massive step for me. I then had a staff outing last night, when I was set on getting my balls even further out there and try out some of… | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Success with 'Interest Fact' openers?Great reply, I'll have a look at that later! I appreciate that they are a bit wet. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Havn't been laid in months, just need to vent.Hey bro, I know it feels like all of these things are going wrong on purpose, like there is some force acting against you, but let me say: That is complete BULLSHIT. Yes, bad things seemed to have happened a few times in a row, but let me point out, you actually have made a base connection with these girls, which is what a lot of guys need to try and do. So first off, these women are attracted to you. That is a massive step so well done brah. Second, you are getting a serious case of Oneitis. Ye… | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Response to "That's so random..." when it comes to fun openers?hey nice shoes wanna fuck Ok my friend, you have set me the next challenge there. To walk up to a girl and try that line out. I want to crash and burn just for the excitement of trying that Good point though dude, I think that is a classic shit test right there. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Worst reading and resources (anti-pua)I think being a PUA is a state of mind; if you feel confident about the entire thing, then I'd say yes read some of the anti-PUA stuff, as it gives an interesting insight into what people think. However, I'd say if you are starting out your game or are getting over AA, I wouldn't bother, as chances are you wouldn't maybe have the confidence to just take it as an opinion, rather as to why you shouldn't bother trying to seduce women. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 11:53 AM |
| 2 | [tip] Want to fu*k her tonight? Touch her nose!Interesting idea, but what happens when a girl backs away when you do the nose thing? I can see that she would think it may be a bit too invasive, whereas kino is a bit more subtle. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Soloing at a club - tips welcome!Loads of great advice here. My contribution is that if somebody asks why you are alone, or it comes to light that you are alone, you can always say something along the lines of: "My friends are coming later" or "My friends bailed early, but you guys are pretty cool, I think I'll stick around here" | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 08:40 AM |
| 23 | How can I smoothly escalate from taking home/making out to sex?I can second this. You both know what the fuck is going to happen, so this is a fun way to get into it. She isn't going to start being all like WHOA WHAT THE HELL GUY, A CONDOM?! WHAT FOR?! | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | how do you speak more seductively?This is solid advice, I will +1 the fuck out of that video. Plus other 21 Convention videos as well. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to use Social Media to your advantage.IMO it goes against everything which we put ourselves through training ourselves to get over AA, put ourselves out there, and meet women in person. I watched this video on the mistakes guys commonly make, and whilst it wasn't one of the major points, he points out that computer time and picking up time should be different; getting bogged down in the social media bullshit just detracts from the excitement of how within 3 minutes of meeting someone completely random, you could be walking away with… | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #-Closed the BartenderHey OP, you are a fucking don. Nice one. Confidence came across like liquid gold here, this is the way to do it. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Favourite non-verbal connections / moves?Thanks dude, good advice; I think the idea is that once I have them interested I just need to move in and say something about the person; one girl who I missed last night had some tattoos so could have easily picked that up. | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Favourite non-verbal connections / moves?Yeah that is exactly what I've been doing funnily enough; picked it up watching the Nightgame video; however my problem is that when the girl actually comes over and dances, I sometimes shy away, or don't know where to go from there next? | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 02:53 PM |
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