Guide to Getting a Threesome?

n3kr0n · 2014-05-13T11:21:53+00:00

Find a girl who has an open view on sex, then let her ask the second girl or ask together.

Just finding two girls out who are down with it and trust you enough is pretty much luck (and you have to open enough 2-girl sets, which can be hard/demotivating as well).

bl1y · 2014-05-13T12:13:45+00:00

The way it seems to most often go down is with girls guys have been seeing. But you can't be thinking about this in terms of how to get your girlfriend to do it; instead you have to find a girl who'd be down for it to become your girlfriend.

What often seems to work is when the girl knows the guy is a player and goes out picking up women all the time. This weeds out women who are going to be turned off by the idea of their guy having sex with other women. It also lets them openly discuss pickup, and from there if the girl is at all into other girls, she'll want to try picking them up.

Meatmissle · 2014-05-13T11:20:50+00:00

Hate to break it to you, guy, but in my experience you can't really plan that shit out. It would appear that in the real world they're pretty spontaneous, and typically involve lots of booze.

It also helps having a girlfriend or SO who is pretty open, sexually. If that's the case for you (and make sure that it fucking else, less your SO bite your fucking head off), then bring it up to her. See what she has to say. Take it from there. Good luck dude.

spldsz · 2014-05-13T14:57:46+00:00

so, i'm not into threesomes (or foursomes, or any other form of sex with more than one person at a time). i have turned them down/dodged them a number of times, and some of my friends have them with some regularity, though, so i have seen some patterns.

find one woman that's interested in the idea, and in you (at least sexually). this could be a fb, fwb, comitted partner, etc. it's going to be way easier if you have a solid relationship of some with them, rather than someone you just met 10 minutes ago.

approach the third as a pair. this is why you want the second to be someone you get along well with: she's your wingman, you're her wingman, and you're going for the same target(s).

look for people who are probably sexually open. so, go for the dirty hippies, the short-hair-but-probably-not-gay women, no/minimal makeup but flashy clothes types, etc. basically, any signals that they're outside the mainstream are good. more mainstream/conservative people are still into threesomes, but they're usually less open about it for appearance reasons. if you want to get past that, go for it, but there will be more bullshit involved.

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-05-13T13:01:21+00:00

asking point blank is not the way to go I think. rather you should try to get in a situation with two women who are as sexually interested in you as possible and then sexualize the situation ( traditional way being the double massage of course , but I can see things like truth or dare working too ).

acratophorus · 2014-05-13T15:23:34+00:00

This question is asked A LOT, did you search the sub? I know /u/puaCurveBall has a lot of experience and has answered this question multiple times.

KrullTheWarriorKing · 2014-05-15T02:06:54+00:00

I got drunk with a friend and her long time best friend of years. Went back to the best friend's place. After making out with each when the other was out of the room and getting caught by the other, discussion and teasing was had, clothes came off Krull came out, teamwork was shared. BOOM, Threesome. Item checked off bucket list.

2014-05-20T15:06:24+00:00

My BF and i had been wanting FFM for years now and let me tell you...finding 2girls for Threesome is virtually impossible.

I was able to find girls to play with on my own but wasnt able to sell FFM to any of them yet.

2014-05-13T13:31:45+00:00

My threesome just happened? It was kind of the vibe that started with he women I met and until recently they told me it was something they've had on their list of to do things. So I guess I was lucky

Title	Guide to Getting a Threesome?
Author	NAILGUNSODOMY
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Date	May 13, 2014 10:08 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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