Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?

FuturePUA90 · 2014-02-20T15:00:11+00:00

Picture that running back, the closer he gets to touchdown, the louder the crowd cheers! The motivation comes after you take the first step. I try not to drink anything but water when I'm out trying to sarge, cause I need all my nervousness and anxiety to be there so I can overcome. Sucks ass, I know...But no pain no gain.

Dantilli · 2014-02-20T15:41:01+00:00

Stop worrying about how "psyched up" you are and just do it.

This obsession with being amped up for every interaction is silly. It's almost like you're using it as a crutch, just like alcohol or that shirt you were complimented on. Sure, you may get better results when you get into the social flow and have loosened up a bit. But to get in that state you need to talk to people. If you feel you need to be in that state to talk to people, you'll never talk to anyone, ever.

I mean seriously, you're just having a no pressure conversation with another human being. There should be no pressure to "succeed", just enjoy the conversation.

I know it can be hard (sometimes really, really hard) to get started but you just have to push through it. Look beyond that anxiety at how you'll feel once you've done it. Look at how you will improve as a person by taking the bull by the horns and just approaching anyway.

Hope this helps :)

EndOfTheUniverse · 2014-02-20T17:51:00+00:00

Your emotions will betray you. Always. Take action. Acknowledge your first approach will be a nervous hesitant sweating wreck. Say your nervous during your approach. Move onto the next one. Keep doing it.

Fail = emotion --> action Success = action --> emotion

ItsNotAScam · 2014-02-20T15:19:34+00:00

400mg of caffeine isn't bad.

As stated in The Game, NO ALCOHOL. AFC move.

InferiousX · 2014-02-20T18:47:52+00:00

You don't want to be psyched up. You want to be as comfortable as possible to where talking to a strange person is no big deal. Because it isn't.

LiftBodyUpThenDown · 2014-02-20T18:20:33+00:00

thinking about how bad you wanna FUCK ALL THE GIRLS

Title	Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?
Author	NAILGUNSODOMY
Upvotes	27
Comments	19
Date	February 20, 2014 1:20 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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