Hello guys,

Let me preface this by saying that before I knew seddit I did not know shit about anything in life, at all. Reading everything up here, getting it confirmed by friends made me rethink how I act around people, not only girls, in general. Seddit turned my life to the better.

Let's get started now.

I work in a small fries stand in a mall and I regularly meet girls and we talk to them (my co-worker) and we occasionally get numbers. By we, I actually mean him, he gets numbers. Applying my knowledge from here and copying him I landed a few numbers as well. The first thing I noticed was that Eye Contact is so extremely important! I cannot stress enough how much differently girls look at me when I look them in the eyes the whole time while they order. Some are in awe that I can operate the register while smiling at me, others just like my smile and small talk.

However, I never built upon that, quite the contrary always occured. My co-worker always took the initiative and told a few nice one liners and got the numbers. He did it just for fun though, as he has a gilfriend already. He always tells me that this is the way to learn and honestly, he is right. Getting rejected is the way to learn, getting your "numbers" stolen teaches you how to get them yourself, the best way possible. I finally build upon this.

One day a group of girls comes by and one of them is especially talkative. My co-worker was not there at that time and I striked up a nice chat. She was clearly into me and she left without anything happening. The next day she came with a friend and I was just chilling at work, not actually working (I have nothing better to do, anyway). She recognized me and we all talked and I just went for it. She talked about doing an internship at the stand but it was just for the sake of talking.

I told her, "Write in your number", and she did.

I felt fucking amazing.

What followed was 2 hours talking with her and her friend. Her friend wanted to leave but she (lets call her Agnes) did not want to. In the end they did but she did promise to come by again tomorrow. That day I actually worked and she came 20 minutes before closing down. We started to chat again and my co-worker described me as being very aggressive, confident but not quite arrogant. He told me that I really showed what I wanted early on by telling her that I want to go to her place. I told her she should stay till I am done with work and we drive to her place. She shyly told me that her bus was coming too early and that she wanted to leave. After all she stayed and we went to the bus stop together. Me, Agnes and my co-worker waited and I talked on with her.

At this point I realized that I need to escalate or else I fail. She did not mind me touching her back, so I pulled her by her hip closer to myself.

My Co-Worker saw that she was quite hesitant and what he did next was awesome and I love him for it. He became the most awesome wingman ever.

He calmly said: "Look, Agnes, our bus is coming and you obviously want him and he wants you, kiss him and get it over already"

At that moment he left for the bus and I grabbed Agnes by her hip, pulled her into mine and she went for a hug. I was devastated as my co-worker watched me from behind and gestured me to go for it.

I pushed her a tiny bit back and looked her in her eyes. At that moment I neared for her lips but she still hesitated. I boldly said: "Yes, or No?" and we kissed. She asked: "Happy now?" and I just left with a smile.

I still drove with my co-worker and he was proud of me. I am proud of myself.

Seddit, I never thought the day would come that I could use what I learned from here, but it came and I am more than happy. This is just the step in the right direction.

Thank you seddit, thank you for everything.