Well firstly, I am new here. I've lurked for a little while; I'm interested not only in seduction but self-improvement as a whole. I am far more fascinated by Inner Game as opposed to the canned pick up techniques and the like as per Neil Strauss' book. I have been aware of the community and the like for around four years, and as a result, everything has sort of seeped into my brain and to a degree I use it naturally. It all works well. But I'll cut to the chase.

Long story short I'd never been in a relationship before but I've always been good at talking to girls. Not fucking them as much but I could always number close within a couple of minutes and I rarely suffered from Approach Anxiety. I just never 'f'inished the deal, I guess. So me and this girl are together for around a year more or less and as a result I'm naturally less scared (can't think of a better word) of sex and I don't see it as a huge deal anymore. That being said, I'm pretty sure that 'getting back in the game' after your first relationship is a big hump for anybody. But I try my best. I've been reading up on the Blueprint Decoded and trying to integrate that with my personality.

Anyway. Down to the Field Report. Me and my ex girlfriend had a big fight the day before yesterday and whilst I have been happy and doing well, this made me feel pretty depressed. I was aware that this wasn't something that was going to last long, but I was down all the same. I forced myself to go out, and me and my friend (who has a girlfriend, so wasn't like we were quote unquote sarging) go out to a bar. I started talking to two girls and flirted with them a little while and when I go out for a cigarette some other guys are sitting down with them. I approached another bunch of girls: some weren't too attractive but there was one girl I had the real hots for. (sidenote; sorry, I don't really like rating girls on a 1-10 scale. Excuse me.) I wasn't consciously gaming her but I was making sure that I talked to the less attractive girls as much as the one I liked, and I made sure I kept up with kino and the like and I had her number fairly quickly.

By the time the bar closes, we've been hanging out the whole time and I offer to walk her home after her friends say they're going in the other direction. We're walking and I intentionally said something really camp and when she told me I was gay (as a joke), I kissed her. She told me that we need to get home and soon as we're back at hers we take our clothes off and have what was essentially the best sex ever.

When I leave I tell her that I'm not looking for a relationship and that that was amazing and we should be fuck buddies. She wholeheartedly agrees and seems excited and when I leave she texts me telling her to get back in touch quickly. All seemed fine. Even so, the next day she doesn't reply to the text I sent her saying I had a good time or anything and whilst I'm not beaten up about it I am a little confused as to why she was very much seduced and then took her foot off the pedal straight away. I know I've probably done something incorrectly so that is why I'm posting here. Give me all of your advice seddit!

Be nice... I'm new here.

TL;DR - girl tells me that she wants to be fuck buddies and then doesn't reply in future.

[EDIT: Sorry, I just realised that maybe this should go in AskSeddit. And I'm not sure it's a field report. Woops]