So I just want to thank the people here firstly, I've taken all the advice and comments with a grain of salt and made my own thoughts accordingly. But to the story..

So last night its my buddies gf's birthday party and we end up at some club, bottle service the whole bit. She has a bunch of friends that come along and instantly I notice one whos a bit distant from it all (not really her scene, newly single, doesnt enjoy clubs much) so I took that as an opportunity to make her a drink, I come up ask what she wanted, what she liked - whatever, just to start talking and introduce myself. [now i make 2 drinks, ask her to taste both to see which she likes most.. she picks the one she likes so I take it.] So we start chatting she tells me shes recently single from a 6+ year relationship and doesn't get out much, kinda shy. So we start chatting a bit about her, her situ, etc.. and during the conversation i see shes practically finished her drink, so I switch hers with mine and tease her that she picked that one first so I take the one she previously had. I tease her and poke fun at the fact that we just made out sippin on the same drink etc and now she owes me a coffee or dinner first cause i dont kiss on the first date. Theres a bunch of kino going on, her friends come by with shots, etc. we hit the dance floor, hit it off, dance for a while come back for more drinks, go back dancing.During dancing we start kissing and I go for her neck, and back to her mouth back and fourth. A while later we come back, and the drinks are gone, so she grabs my hand and takes me to the bar, buys a couple rounds of drinks and were still chatting about her. Then she gets curious and asks about me, and I dont reveal anything about myself. She gets a bit upset and leaves, I see her where she walked away to, So I wait abit, and I come up from behind and tell her what field of work Im in, but now that she knows that, all the fun is spoiled of her guessing what I do. So we go back to our area, start chatting, she takes my number we get back about her and I point out some of the communication/body language cues that shes giving off, and I call her on it, and she doesnt deny it. We end up kissing more, and I take her number. And some more times passes and she ends up heading just a bit earlier then the group left. And a bit later I text'd her a gnight message and she responded.

In essence, what Im saying is that I'm finally getting used and familiar with this all. And I can apply it and have it work for me - I also have to get ready for a date with a girl that I picked up from last weekend. So this has been 2 successful weekends for me and that with some practice everyone can overcome their communication fears and reasons why they dont pick up. This is a post that shows hope for the ones trying to improve themselves. What Im trying to say is that no one cares if youre awkward or not. Just go out, and DO. ask questions about her at the right times and shell chat your ear off anyways. Tease her, make her laugh, make her enjoy her time and you'll enjoy the results. So, thank you all.