I'm pretty new to this shit, I think I discovered seddit on monday and started my first 100 set on tuesday. now I'm trying to get my shit together. here goes.

yesterday

wednesday (day 2 of my 100sets), i knew i needed to get out there and talk to people so I leave the house, and as I was about to buy some expensive clothes online, I head over to the clothing thrift store instead. the building is full of gorgeous women, but I keep pussying out, until i finally leave the store with a bunch of new clothes.

Head over to my favorite coffee shop. shop is full of gorgeous women, one gets the same drink I do, one is just sitting next to me looking at her iphone, anothr is just listening to music, keep pussying out.

Go to hang with friends at a bar/grill... no opens.

At this point i'm desperate, the whole day wasted and no opens. the night is drawing to a close, but I happen to live right next to a casino. I walk over and get a drink. The casino is full of men, though, but there are two fine women across the bar from me. I don't approach because there are no seats next to them.

I go home feeling like shit.

today!

shitty night of sleep, then go to work and do nothing but read seddit on inner game. planned on going out with (guy) friends, to this pretty chill bar next to home, but switch to one further away more frequented by people our age (that was my reasoning, but the real reason is cause it was by my friend who doesn't have a car; anyway, good fucking call).

place is crawling with fine women, but nothing is coming to me. I concentrate on keeping a fun, happy demeanor, enjoying my friends, and when the opportunity arises, keeping non-submissive eye contact, but i'm breaking a lot. I get better as the night waxes. but I'm not approaching. picking targets, seeing opportunities, but not approaching. even sat next to a target, the only 10 in the place, while ordering a drink, but pussied out and didn't say a word to her.

1st 2set approach 2 beers and 2 Irish car bombs later, one of my friends wants to go to another bar. I go up to the bar to close my tab, not feeling to proud of myself. notice a beautiful blonde with a beautiful asian at the bar (pretty new to this HB system, I'd go HB7-8s both, as they are gorgeous, and it's only a thurs night). I'm standing right next to the blonde and she has a half emptied double shot of liquor in front of her. not sure of the order of events, but I ask her what her drink is, it's Jack. I admit a dislike for liquor (i feel like i was less negative than that), she agrees and we both profess a love of beer. I get my tab and admit that I'm blanking on what an adequate tip is for a tab of this size, I use her suggestion. introductions go between the three of us (blonde: E, who i find unbelievably hot, and asian: J, she's been pretty silent the whole time as I'm pretty focused on E). She asks if I'm leaving, I say I am and where I'm goin (which is right next door) and we say farewells.

while next door, my friends and I are talking about my approach, and they feel bad for taking me away. once we see the inside of the other place, and the lack of unattended women, they support me in my decision to return. I immediately return to E's side and say something like, "my friends realized how lame [place] was and we came back, you both should join us at our table." THEY AGREE, fuck yes! But they need to go to the ladies room first. after a while they return, but they don't take a seat, and they say they're bouncing to another bar/club, because E is visiting for the weekend... blah blah, or some bull shit. I ask where she's from, she's not from around here. I say farewell. they're gone. damn, E was fine, I feel like a total retard for not nabbing her #, even if she wasn't from around here, there were 3 more days to do something with her on the weekend.

2nd 2set approach

after a few minutes i notice that a pair of ladies had moved tables, and were still sitting by themselves (not sure why as they are HB7-8 as well). I point this fact out to my friends, and that we should attempt to merge our table with theirs. my friends try to encourage me to repeat my prior 'success' (if you can call it that) and approach them. I'm mad nervous and proposed some dreadful sentence to say. my friend tells me to say "the girl to guy ratio at our table is terrible, can we move to yours?" Being half drunk on booze, and the other half on having actually approached a HB, I decide to go with it.

It worked pretty well. they admit that some other guys were coming over to their table, but that we were welcome to join them. I try to wave my friends over, but they totally weren't looking at me. Whatever. I sit down at the girls' table by myself and start chatting with them (blonde K, and brunette M). Find out they are roommates and live a few blocks from me, and I ask for M's # and she complies, and I invite them to a gathering I am planning for this weekend. at this point the other guys (not my friends) had moved over and chatting up K. here's where I start (or I noticed that I was) channeling AFC and the convo falls apart and I say 'it was nice to meet you, ttyl.'

I return to my friends and give them shit for not coming over. one friend encourages me to call the # and try to get them over to our table by saying some shit about the older guys that I had left at their table. I call, M looks at her phone, looks around, and notices me looking at her grinning like a fuckin' retard. she flashes a brief and what seemed to me like a forced smile, and puts down her phone. friend takes my phone and writes up a text for me saying, "Hey, it seemed you were more interested in me. why don't you leave them and rejoin them with my friends?" (i know, i'm not proud that I had other people trying to game for me) which I read, was cool with, and sent. No reply, we decide to go, but I return to them and say farewells before I leave. now here I am, with a # of a HB who knows i'm a chump.

k seddit. what now? should I call or text the # again this weekend for the thing I invited her to? or is it a lost cause? w/e I'll be calling most likely, just want to hear opinions. for my 100sets challenge does this count as 2 sets or 4 sets?

tl/dr went out yesterday, transformed into a giant pussy. went out today after reading loads of seddit, approached 2 2sets and landed 1 #, but fell apart and she didn't seem to respond very well after that. what do i do w/ #?