This happened a while back, so I may not remember all the details perfectly.

I went to one of my favorite places to sarge (lots of hot young local girls, a lot of the other bars in my area are very touristy and have a less attractive clientele) and start looking around.

I see this girl with her friends... brickhouse. I love it. I walk up and tell her she's cute, and that I wanted to meet her. We hit it off, I ask her about school. She turns out to be very intelligent, working on really cool scientific research at school. This is really cool for me, people who are both intellectual (like to think) and intelligent are rare in my sphere, as I'm no longer in school and work in restaurants. I contribute what I can to the conversation, and she can see that I have some understanding of her research, which she likes. (I'm sure that I kinoed lightly here as it is a habit, but I can't provide exact details as I don't remember)

Now the area where we're chatting is right in front of a live band, and we're shouting at each other to communicate. After a few minutes of talking, I place my hand on her back and say "Let's go outside, I can barely hear you." She hesitates for half a second but agrees and comes with me.

(I want to note here that the concept of isolating a girl was somewhat new to me at this point, and is one of the first time's I've isolated a girl. This turned out to be crucial, as this girl is pretty reserved and sexually inhibited, and her friends are judgmental.)

We go outside, and sit down on a bench. We talk about lots of things, her family, her other interests, and we connect on multiple levels, mentally and emotionally. She's actually a really cool girl, as I said, I don't meet a lot of people who actually use their minds very often, and this is attractive.

I'm kinoing her heavily at this point, as she's no longer seen by her friends. I'm sitting close so that our legs are touching, my arm's around her, etc. At one point I start messing with her necklace between her tits and asking her about it, and she laughs nervously (which she does whenever I kino her heavily) and says I'm very tactful, to which I reply, "Not really, I just wanted an excuse to touch your breasts." She laughs a lot at this. (I should mention here that while I made her nervous, it was clear that I was turning her on, as she later told me.)

At some point I go in for the kiss and we make out for a while... we're both digging it. I tell her we're going out on a date. I described the date in detail, with the three different places/activities that will comprise it, and the day and time our date will begin (this is killer... lots of different experiences in minimal time, maximum opportunity for building comfort and connection) and tell her that for the fourth segment of our date, we're going back to my place for passionate lovemaking. I say this to make my intentions clear... I want her physically, and she knows it. Obviously getting the number at this point is no problem (it never is a problem, but you can number close all day it will mean nothing if she's not into you)

She has to go "be there" for her friend who's dealing with some kind of drama, and we part ways.

My text game is simple and straightforward, because I already made all my intentions clear.

I send this right after meeting her as I leave the venue:

Me: Hey, it's Yetzirah

HB: Hey!

The next day:

Me: I just dropped a can of beans on my foot!

HB: Responds with empathy (lol)

The next day, the day of the date:

Me: Hey, we should meet a little earlier because venue X closes earlier than I thought.

HB: Ok blah blah (logistics)

We meet up, have a great time, bounce to the next venue. After we've been there for a while...

Me: Hey, let's go back to my place to make cookies

HB: Ok, sure

As we're starting to drive to my place, she gets a little nervous and wants to make sure I understand sex won't be involved, and wants to make sure I'm not going to yell at her for being a tease as beta-douches have done to her in the past. I assure her that this is fine, it'll be a good time whether we bang or not.

We get to my place, hang out in the kitchen/living room, and make out a bit. As I said, this girl is very reserved and sexually inhibited, and is worried about my roommate coming out and seeing us. (Ironic for me, because I've heard my roommate fucking loudly on numerous occasions). So we move to my bedroom.

Now as we start making out, I learn that she's a virgin, and actually hasn't ever bared her breasts to anyone, or anything beyond that. She did take her shirt/bra off, but was covering herself and quite nervous. I suggested we turn the lights off, which helped her calm down.

Damn was this girl sexy. Very big boobs. I continue to escalate, but I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I fingered her for a bit, but I might have done something wrong because I hurt her a bit (maybe because she's a virgin, or because I'm somewhat inexperienced). We didn't end up having sex, and I took her home pretty late.

We enjoyed each other's company a lot. I consider this to be a large success, as I built enough comfort after knowing her for only a few days to get her to open up to me physically in ways she never had before. At the same time, it was a bummer, because I have yet to F-close since I began my journey toward seduction mastery about 5 months ago, with the exception of a booty call of an old coworker I knew would fuck me, and a narrow F-close miss that should have happened but failed due to poor logistics.

At the same time, I know I'm the shit, and have the skills to make this happen again (hopefully with a girl who's more open sexually this time). While I didn't F-close, I know that I would have if she didn't have such strong sexual anxiety and body issues.

Anyway, I hope this is helpful for you guys, especially the newer guys.

What you should take from this:

Maintain a leading frame (lead her around the venue, tell her when/where/what about the date)

Fortune favors the bold ("I just wanted an excuse to touch your breasts")

Isolate her from her friends (So she won't worry about being judged)

Multidates (Dates comprised of multiple venues/activities)

Connect with her on topics you both care about

ESCALATE KINO!