Met an hb6 at trivia night after practice. We hit it off, my good buddy and mutual friend tells me that she's said "I just want to fuck, I don't want a relationship" in reference to her pursuit of some other uninterested guy.

So I start to kino, she kinos back, we talk, build rapport on shared interests, smiles, eye contact, she tells me when she leaves the group that she's coming right back etc. So I see interest (or assume it). As things seem like they are wrapping up, she gives me her number without me asking for it, asks if I'm coming out to the next week's trivia night, and asks me to text her sometime. I walk her back to her car, k-close in her car for a few hours.

Because of what my friend told me about what she'd said earlier, I was forward and sometimes explicit during the k-close. I was unafraid of being sexual with her. But I didn't push the issue when she didn't seem interested in moving things from a car to a house, whatever, I liked her enough to want to take her out later and get to know her some more anywho.

So I text her some over the weekend, trying to keep her thinking about sex. We joke about the marks I left on her, etc. On Sunday I tell her I'm in town ask her if she wants to do something later (I probably could have said something more direct like, I'm in town, come get some drinks with me!). She says shes busy but suggests sometime this week, I say I'm also busy and will just see her on trivia night at least. After that I tell her I'm going to the movies, she tells me a little about her night, I make a horrible joke about nothing, and kinda leave it at that.

Our mutual friend told me today that she mentioned to him that I was coming on rather strong. So I'm trying to decide if I should just go completely no texting unless she texts me, or if I should keep it up but very little. I'm not stressing about it, but I'll be looking for the answer later as it will be a good lesson.

To get my mind off of my fumble I decided to invite some other girls out for trivia night, it will give me something else to focus on and help me not get tunnel vision, I'll have to be moving around, meeting people, coming back. And oh well, if things crash here, I'll already be out and I can go meet someone else!

What I've learned so far is that, even though you might know a girl is DTF ahead of time, you're probably better off not showing her right off that YOU are too. If you show her your hand, even if you KNOW she'll be interested, it might still turn her off. I got over excited here, because its not just the sex, we'd also connected in a lot of other ways. I'll write another report later in the week after I see her again.

Cheers.