Friday night I went out with a few friends and my brother out to some campus bars. I'm out of college a few years (25), but still love college bars. I find that despite how much dumber I find everyone now, everyone is still having a much better time than the other bars in town.

So all four of us were in a good mood. We came to eat dinner at the bar, so we were there a little early. We met a few girls we know who are out. My friend number closed a hot waitress. We were approaching nearly everyone at the bar as it filled up.

Soon we moved to another bar with a dance floor. My brother met up with some of his friends and my other two buddies kept approaching.

Eventually I saw a girl, maybe HB8, blond, come up to the bar and I can honestly not remember what I opened with. I was just trying to keep approaching. Anyway, it finished up with her saying that she wanted to dance, but her friends were outside in the beer garden and didn't want to. I told her that we'll dance after she drops off her drinks outside. She said OK and took them out. I didn't think about it another second, figured the interaction was over. But she came back over after only a few minutes like, "Alright, come on, let's go..." I took her hand and led her to the dance floor.

She was instantly right up against me and I knew it was on. Went in for the makeout under a minute after we started. Hands going everywhere. I took her off the dance floor to get us some drinks, and we fluffed for a bit, finding out commonalities, joking a bit. She was just in town for a wedding. Went back out on the dancefloor a bit more, but when hands started going down the front of pants, I figured it was time to go.

The problem though, was that there were no cabs as they only come right at bar close. We walked around for awhile, calling my friends, asking for cab numbers, calling cabs. A mood killer for sure. But I kept up the kino, fingerbanging her on the sidewalk a bit, making out. I was saying shit like "well, it's an adventure!" and just generally being positive as shit. Luckily I met up with my brother again, who was driving.

The logistics problems didn't end there either: I live with my parents in a pretty full house. So I took her to a house nearby where some of my friends live. All the rooms there were full too. So the couch it had to be. Oh, also, I had to wake up one of my friends for a condom. Logistics couldn't have been worse, but I just plowed through every shit test the night was throwing at me.

I rocked her world and then took her back to her brother's frat where she was staying.

Some key points: This was kind of a fools mate: the girl was totally down to fuck pretty much instantly...but still: *The more approaches you do, the better your chances** If I hadn't been approaching all night, I probably wouldn't have approached this hot blond, who just happened to be seriously DTF. *If a girl is into you, shitty logistics and anything else doesn't matter. I live with my parents; we were driving around in our family's minivan. I'm 25 at college bars. I'm not awesome by any means. But she was so turned on that by the point she learned all those insignificant details, it didn't fucking matter.

Keep approaching and destroying those limiting beliefs!!!