Prior:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6uvdjt/saturday_fr/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6paify/sunday_approaches_fr/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6nzgg2/fr_monday_night_bars/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6oampy/tuesday_approaches_fr/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6oqqdd/couple_of_direct_approaches_fr/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6pozyh/tuesdayessexaspiefr/

(Got laid) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6rxjyy/essexaspie_gets_laid_fr/

(got laid) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6wbsjp/essex_aspie_with_another_fr_lr/

So, I’ve had a few LayReports here now. Had MASSIVE approach anxiety recently though, so i'm trying to beat that again, and i’m also still trying to break the pattern of only getting any sorts of results from warmer approaches. Unfortunately the pattern continued last night, and the only joy was from a warm approach (was very close to getting laid with a fairly decent looking girl I used to go to school with and I think i’ll likely bang her within a few weeks)

First open was a super hot 18 year old. JUST MY TYPE! I was standing next to her, thinking of how best to open her, when she accidentally flicked a little bit of water on my as she grabbed the drinks menu. I was like ”Hey!…you did that on purpose” and smiled. She kind of laughed back and said ”sorry’. I though i’d play a ‘cocky’ type line and said ”I think you were just trying to get my attention” and she was like ”nope”.

I re-engaged her and was like ”haha, i’m just being an asshole, who are you?” and she gave me her name. I asked her what the occasion was, and she told me it was her 18th birthday. I didn’t have any cool comebacks or anything and there was probably an awkward silence and then I was just like ”Cool..happy birthday”.

In my head now as I just cna’t think of anything to say, I quickly attempt to go into a small routine I read about commenting a girls facial expressions, but she pretty much palmed me off onto her friend a few seconds in, lol. Her friend was possibly even icier cold. I said ‘hey’ to the friend, but I felt as though she was giving me NOTHING, (other than them expressions that girls give that make me think they’re thinking ”’this is weird. go away” lol)

Next, I open 2 more girls who are near the bar with the ‘do I look like a drug dealer’ opener. They both just kind of shake their head and I plow on about how a few girls have asked me for weed. I try again to carry on the conversation and talk about how I think it’s my new haircut bla bla bla. They don’t respond. I cut the thread and ask them how their night is going. They’re like ‘good’. I say ‘out of 10?” and she’s like ‘7’. I accuse her of not trying hard enough and that she needs to raise her game and then say ‘go and make out with that girl!’. She laughs.

I wonder if I should make that line into my own little routine or not. Anyway, her friend then brings over 2 guys who I think are their boyfriends and she says ”anyway, nice to meet you” to me.

Next I open another 2 girls who are seated down. This one was quite painful, lol. One hot girl and one very average girl. I decide to open the average girl. I approach the table and ask them what’s up. I tell them they look like they’re having a business meeting. They sort of did, lol. The average one smiles but she just has a super suspicious look on her face like she’s confused about me approaching her. I ask her the usual name/plans for the night stuff.

I’m try to get the hot one talking. She tells me her name, but she’s making a point of looking around the room as if to increase the social pressure on me and make me leave. It’s working! lol. I decide to call her out like i’ve seen MaxRSD and i’m like ”Do you hate me!?” and smile.

She just very slowly hakes her head, still looking at me like i’ve got 6 eyes. At this point my friend jumps in, and within a few seconds, the girl grabs her friends hand and they walk out.

Dancefloor approach. 2 girls. One fairly good looking and thin. The other is a bit fat but has a really pretty face. I open the thin one and my friend opens the fat one. I ask her who she is and decide to try a more direct approach and tell her I think she’s cute. She tells me she married and not interested straight away.

I try to carry on talking for a bit, just to wing my friend and stop her from cock blocking him.

Now I notice one of the girls from my last FR. A decent looking blonde with ridiculously nice tits who is a friend of the girl I took home last week. I grab her. We’re talking about last weekend and stuff for like 10 minutes. We split up briefly and I open 2 asian girls who are a bit older, but since they were so crazy, they were actually easy to talk to compared to the previous brick walls.

Like, they actually asked me questions straight away! It changes everything. I just don’t know how you can have more than a 10 second converstaion with a girl who gives you one word replies or just doesn’t reply at all, lol

I go back to the bar and bump into blonde again. She asks me about the Asian girls I was just talking too. It’s now pretty obvious i’ve got a shot here. I make a joke about them wanting a greencard and they’re gonna pay me in blowjobs or something (attempt to sexualise the conversation) It works, she takes the ball, and soon we’re talking about sexual experiences. (queue lots of lying and made up sex stories on my part!)

It’s going OK, but i’ve not kissed her or done much kino other than taps on the arm and stuff. This is where I usually overthink everything and am thinking ''how the hell do I actually escalate?!!'' but this time, I done the opposite and litterally just grabbed her in a break in the conversation almost out of nowhere and and kissed her; She kissed back. lots of kino and flirting and stuff from that point. all kinds of logistic issues, though. It’s likely that I can get her though. Will update that one in the future.

So, long story short, very happy that I found my balls and actually made some approaches, but they were all pretty bad, Nothing close to really ‘hooking’. I escalated well on the warm approach though. I just never know what to say in order to get and keep their attention. Even routines don’t seem to help me much.