FR - Solo night out

usernamelrdytaken · 2022-07-09T22:50:56+00:00

Apparently she has an opposing view on ppl going out alone, that doesn’t mean you’re wrong or not attractive to anyone. She just reacted to the situation influenced by what she experienced so far and how she perceives the world. This has nothing to do with you. Your reaction however has something to do with you. By letting this affect you in a way so you become anything remotely close to being offended or disappointed you’re giving away the power you need to pull this off. Next time, take a breather, stay playful - saying sth. Like “oh so you’re giving alcohol to you younger brother to lift up his mood, that actually works, thanks” -keep having fun for yourself! Afterwards wish them a good night and go on with your thing.

zenboy_69 · 2022-07-09T23:28:26+00:00

Yeah those kinds of things do happen occasionally. Some people just do weird shit on nights out. I've had women do weird shit as well, but I've found that it's actually made me more confident and less needy over time, you learn not to put women on a pedestal and to know your worth regardless of negative stimulus.

Also I've found that if a woman approaches you, generally it's not that she's trying to pick you up. So take the experience and move on, and realise that if you can deal with that sort of interaction you can deal with rejection from approaching. The goal is to become an experienced, confident man and so getting negative interactions (within reason) is a nice learning experience.

sidbunch6 · 2022-07-10T10:50:58+00:00

UK is a whole different vibe, man! haha. US people won't understand.

Yes, going out solo is just considered weird in the UK. Strangers don't just chat and talk like they do in the US so it's a real uphill battle to even exchange pleasantries with another guy about the football or whatever! Just doesn't happen here (unless maybe up North)

And following on from that, the girls can be truly brutal on a night out. Unless you are very very much her physical type it will either be plain ignoring you until you leave or some sort of 'go away. Don't talk to me. Bye!!' type reaction haha. Need thick skin

erikmalkavian · 2022-08-03T00:01:00+00:00

I don't think she was trying to be mean and I know it caught you off guard her response.

And as to why she would even bring up sex, it must be on HER mind otherwise she wouldn't have brought it up. Basically, this was shit test and she wanted to see if you could turn it back on her and not take it personally.

That's what girls do, they test men to see if you have the balls to conquer them.

Cantsleepperson · 2022-08-07T04:02:00+00:00

Could have been a shit test

Title	FR - Solo night out
Author	productive_guy123
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	July 9, 2022 10:38 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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