I was lining up for a club and I notice a group of black girls were lining up behind me. HB6 happened to bump into me. I didn’t turn my body all the way to face her otherwise I would be communicating too much interest. I remembered to think with an abundance mindset where there are plenty of girls around and she only catches a small portion of my attention. I had my arm crossed; I just slightly turned towards her a little and offer my hand saying “Hey, my name is antsmasher.” She would reciprocate by telling me her name. She got really interested when I told her I go out solo. When she was more invested into the conversation, I reciprocate by turning my body to fully face her. Once we got into the club, I led her to the dance floor and led her arms over my neck to start dancing with her.

She said she wanted to get a drink, so we went to the bar.

This is where I started fucking up.

I tried to tell a story about my epic drunken night at a frat party as an attempt to DHV, but it came off as if I was trying to impress her and I was seeking reactions from her.

The conversation didn’t go far.

When the bar tender said that they were no longer serving alcohol, HB6 left.

What I did well: Applying abundance mindset through body language and how much attention I am giving to the girl. Leading the girl to the dance floor

What I did wrong: I started getting reactive and getting anxious when we were at the bar. It feels as if my momentum was slowing down and I didn't know what to do with it.
So, I brought the story that was an attempt at DHV, but it came out forced and it made me look like I was trying hard to impress the HB6.

Getting blown out didn't matter. I was not really into the girl, but more important I learned some great lessons just from gaming her that I can apply to interacting with hotter girls.

The more I go out, it feels like the more I learn to behave as a high value guy. Thus, I intend to commit to the game until I reached phenomenal success levels with hotter girls.