I'm just going to warn you guys that this FR is referring to the same night as posted by /u/salkaar a couple of hours ago, so if you want a better quality write up then I'd pop across to his profile and have a read.

Its been a few weeks since I wrote a proper FR due to holidays and various other things, and I wanted to make my addition to the seddit community once again. It's going to be quite a long one.

So the fourth member of our group (M) has just got back from a month touring east asia and since 3 of us are returning to University in September, we wanted to get a few good nights in at our local town. (We live very much in the countryside so it takes a good half hour to get to anywhere which has a population >500 people.)

M has organised a BBQ, sort of a joint get together with his sister, who's B-Day/A-Level results had recently been. About 20 of her friends staying for a party and the 4 of us, with the mind to go out. We always predrink, apart from Sal (since he's dd) and we vary our drinks. Loving the student life im drinking 'Manbrini', which for those of you who don't know, it's the cheapest tat money can buy, and gives you a filthy hangover, but in my opinion tastes quite nice, and you can get pleasantly drunk for little over £3.

It's a thursday night, which means pounded night at the bar we go to before hitting the club (a variety of drinks are available costing only £1; Vodka shots, Wine[vinegar], WKD etc), so we're able to get our drinks in before hitting the club, where everything is ridiculously expensive.

If you imagine this bar, its 3 stories, with local drinkers on the bottom floor and the top 2 floors (dancefloor on middle floor) dominated by students back for the holidays. As you can appreciate, it was pretty busy; this has both good points and bad points, the worst being the heat, it must hit 40degrees C on the dancefloor, which, when trying to impress girls, makes life rather difficult.

So the 4 of us go up to the top floor and just chill (after getting our stamps for the club [they only allow stampholder entry after 12]) and my Ex-girlfriend shows up ...

Quick insert -- Things weren't left on a good footing when I split with my ex (or she split with me) and on all subsequent meetings she'd flat out ignore me. So whilst things weren't strained, it was quite awkward since her friends were whispering shizzle, as were the 3 lads I was with.

... I decide to completely ignore her as she had ignored me and it was nice to just forget about her (usually I get very anxious around her if I see her out and about -- maybe someone could help me in telling me as to why) and it allows me to really enjoy my night.

Now on the dancefloor there is a multitude of talent (7+) and obviously the mudane 6,5,4, but I'm pleasantly surprised, especially given that my plan hadn't been to game at all but to merely enjoy myself without feeling the pressure of needing to pull and accept CLS (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1km01h/fr_from_usalkaar_and_uothorton_bad_night_in_terms/)

We dance with and open various sets on the dancefloor, C being the ladies man that he is - extremely good looking lad - is pulling some girl within a minute of seeing her, but since I have no major intention to pull, I'm not planning on letting just anyone change my mind. Anyway, I bump into a girl that I know (she's a frequent customer at work) and once I say, she remembers me and adopts me into her group with lots of introductions as well as the proffered 'You can come and buy me a drink'. Bullshit ...

Another sidetrack - I hate to be the one to buy the girl the first drink, since from experience: you buy them a drink, they drink it, and then Pie you off for another, better looking/game lad, and you're left in the shit with £3 less to your name.

... so we make our way over to the bar and I manage to convince this girl, H, that she can get the first round. Now there's loads of Kino going on here and I'm quite liking the direction in which the night is going. We have our drinks and agree to go and meet H's friends at the club, especially since she hasn't got her stamp. I excuse myself to tell the rest of the lads - Sal, M & C, who tell me they'll see me there in a few.

We get to the club, and in without a hitch - helps that H is a solid 7, bumped up by the fact she has fantastic banter, and we meet up with the lads on the dancefloor, along with H's friends, 3 girls, 1 high 7, 1 8 (who immediately drops the IHAB - had seen her pie off at least 10 separate boys, so wasn't one to quickly disagree) and a 5/6.

I do my very best to follow the fantastic advice put up by the seddit community regarding keeping sets together (since alienating one of the group members can ruin the chance with the target). Now its not fully chronological, but once the 8 realises I'm not trying to get with her she opens up and becomes a proper party animal - amazing how people change when Men are no longer perceived as threats ...

... I'm heavily keenoing H by now and she's responding so well; I've bought the next round of drinks (keeping to my 'let the girl get the first round rule') and we're face to face, at pulling distance, and I'm just about to go for it when she goes,

'You know we can't get with each other ...'

"Why not?"

'Because my Mum would freak out' (In a good way, apparently her mum loves me and thinks I'm some kind of elegible batchelor) 'and I don't want it to be awkward next time I come in, because I love it there' (I work in a cafe)

"Right .."

At this point I'm a slightly awkward situation, because I find it hard to just walk away (I like to be polite and do care about others' perception of me).

'But it's alright, I know someone who wants to get with you'

This is where I'm properly introduced to T, the high 7/low 8. She's just my type in the sense that she's blonde, pretty and around 5'6.

At this point guys, I'll just tell you what I opened with: "Maaan, you dance like a complete animal", she was pretty crazy but I got involved (I love dancing).

Within about 3 mins of minor small-talk her arms are round my neck and we're pulling ... K-Close

We pull for a good 15 mins on the dancefloor, obviously interrupted by our friends (people who've been in the situation will know what I mean when I say that our friends we're being playful dicks).

Now this is the point at which XGF is literally within 2 feet of us. T is trying to pull me, but I'm not one to rub it in XGF's face, so have to lead her elsewhere.

We carry on pulling for the remainder of the night (interrupted briefly by the "Wet-T-shirt competition" ... A gross objectification of girls who go up into a shower [on the raised section of dancefloor] and have to dance as seductively as they can whilst being leered/cheered/jeered and filmed at by large numbers of AFCs who want to see some nipple.

Anyway, so it gets towards the end of the night and I want one last drink ...

... I break my rule and buy T a drink. Within 5 mins of being back onto the dancefloor she's pied me off for some randomer that she knows.

I tell H about it, and my drinks rule etc, I'm not angry, just disappointed and a lil hurt that I've been pied after doing such a (good?) job. H makes it better by saying I was by far the best looking (who doesn't love a good complement eh), and within a minute or 2 T comes back over and apologises and says it was a major mistake and that she didnt know why she did it etc.

At this time I'm tired, my contact lenses are starting to itch, I'm losing backbone and just cave because I do like the girl (THIS IS A MAJOR DEMONSTRATION OF LSV) and pull her again, before exchanging numbers with her and H (2 #-close).

Sorry for that hefty bit of text, but I do like to go into detail.

Final bits of analysis ...

If you can build attraction before you even meet a girl (easiest way to do this is to look like pulling is the furthest thing from your mind - it presents a challenge and makes you different from all the other AFCs, so immediate demonstration of HSV) then you could say whatever the hell you want and you've got the girl. Just make sure you stay as interesting as possible (always listen)

NEVER FORGET HER NAME. Even if you need to cheekily check with a friend, never forget the name - It helps when you get her to put her number in your phone since you can key her name in first - shows you have interest.

Stick to your guns. If you don't buy the first drink, don't buy it, nomatter how hot the girl.

And if you get pied, just walk away. There's nothing more weak (I admit I am) than caving in just for that sloppy seconds.

Once again lads/ladies sorry for that monumental write up, but I hope it will make a good read.

TL:DR

K-close, Pied off, K-closed same girl,

-close her and friend.