Background: I only began talking to this girl because I found a post from her on Instagram late at night saying she was bored and someone should kik her (for those unfamiliar, it's a texting application). From there my texting was strong thanks to texting guides in our community.

The report is on our first date at a park with an unexpected 3rd wheel

It's a beautiful sunny, warm day. I got to the park 5 minutes earlier than the time we decided on because it's okay for the girl to be late, but if the guy is late that leaves a bad impression on girls. She arrived on time, surprisingly... and I instantly see her best friend behind her (we'll call her Wheel and my girl MG)

I approach both of them slowly and take up as much space on the trail by walking in the middle just to show presence and lock eye contact with MG for about 3 seconds until she breaks away with a smile.

When I get into handshake range with both of them I ignore Wheel completely and go straight for the hug. Her arms reached for my lower back but by placing her arms on top of my shoulders and MY arms on her lower back it reminds many girls of a familiar position. (This is the position many people use to make out. So what I did was touch her without the awkward handshake.)

We stayed in each other's arms for about 3-4 minutes while I was roleplaying with her saying that I've just kidnapped her and took her to Hawaii. (the park we were at really does look like Hawaii) We were in our bubble and MG was loving it because of how I was reading her body language. (twirling hair, smile was genuine, and her foot would occasionally flick up like a princess movie)

Wheel busted the bubble and shit tests me

Back off she's dating me already.

I calmly reply with a girn " That's cool, I've always wanted to have a threesome" (shoutout to the community for teaching me how to deal with shit tests)

I look back to MG and she's laughing while Wheel replies jokingly

That's so fucking weird and gross you creep

From there I thought it was a good time to walk around so I began leading the two girls around the park. I always walked slowly and would slightly bump into MG because it sets up holding hands. The moment she touched my hand on purpose (finger touches my palm) I locked hands with her.

it's almost over don't worry! The rest of the story is rewarding I promise

I found a nice spot for us to stop and just explore. Wheel was behind us the entire time due to the fact that I was leading. There were a bunch of rocks that led to a sandy spot near the water and I led MG down them cause she was scared to go down so I got her outside of her comfort zone and made her feel safe around me by holding her hand and assuring her she won't get hurt as long as I don't push her off (teasing). On top of that I was defining the moment as an adventure. Wheel was smiling when I looked back...

When we get to the neutral sandy spot I grab MG's hand softly and bring her close to me in the same hugging position as before and we were just enjoying eachother's vibe. I signal to Wheel to take a picture because she had MG's Phone for some odd reason.

Wheel took pictures of us for the rest of the date without MG knowing!

I wanted to try and get her to invest in me so I tried something. I asked MG to see her phone and she let me. She watched me as I proceeded to change her lock screen password to my last name. MG had no complaints. I was amazed this worked.... someone else should try this. (I thought she would complain, so I could tease her about it later)

Wheel was an ally by the end of the day even when I ignored her the entire time.

MG texted me that night saying how she loves all the photos Wheel took.

I still talk to MG and am going to hang out with her again next week. Thanks for reading, this is my first post in Seddit and thought I would report back on how I've put the communities education you've given me into practice.

Thank you Seddit!

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