I just want to know what I should do from here. I think I failed already.

Some background information. I’m in an open relationship, my girlfriend went out with some girl friends. I went solo. I was very unsuccessful. That is until I met a very smooth black man (I’m white). He was offering me some tips and what I considered the time to pack it up (2:30am), he said let’s go for these two girls.

I took the left and he took the right. I didn’t know what we were going to say, but he just went… “If this guy has a girlfriend, does that make him more attractive?” Both girls, eyes glued on me. White girl: “I guess.” Mexican girl: “It’s a challenge.”

Thirty minutes later, three more girls are there and all are blasting my girlfriend. Under the impression that it was her idea and that she’s a whore. Telling the smooth black man to teach me. Saying, I have to get laid. To which, the hottest girl (HB9) there (and I didn’t notice her before) says, “what about me?” She, by the way, thinks this is all hilarious. And I assume she’s joking, plus she’s standing close to a guy.

Five minutes later, she repeats it, “what about me?” And this time I think she’s serious. I say, “isn’t he you boyfriend?” To which she says no. I hold out my hand and say, “ok, you want to go to my place?” She asks the guy if it’s okay and comes over to me. From here, her friends start asking about my favorite position and other questions. She keeps laughing and laughing. I think it made her feel weird. Anyways… She didn’t go with me. But as were leaving, two girls wanted me to get their numbers, including the hottie.

Note: They talked about long term game. How, if they got to know me over time, and trusted me, that future ass might be possible.

Now this is what I need to know: what should I say to her next? I’ve been texting her, but I think I killed it. Here’s the conversation:

Me: Hey :) It’s ----- I can’t go out tonight. Let’s meet up another time? (I said I might go out the next day to the same place) Her: Hahahahah because of ur girl?? Me: Yeeeah. Haha.

Next day:

Her: Tonite I’m loving u!!! :-p Me: I hope ALL night. Me: Do you want to get a drink? Her: How was ur date with ur girl?? Me: Well shes not here tonight. Her: Where is she? Me: With her friends. Where are you going to be? Me: I told her it needs to be my place tonight. Why do you want proof? Haha. (I’m thinking she doesn’t believe I have a girlfriend at this point) Her: I will let u know later I’m with la familia right now. Me: :) Me: (Four hours later) Did you mean later today?

And then… no response. WTF?! I think she wants the satisfaction of getting between me and my girl. And I think I showed it to be too easy to do that…

I decided not to say anything else to her unless I’m going out to the same spot. But, how should I handle this situation? I think she just wants to tease me.

Note: The other girl called me the next day. I told her I couldn't go out that night.