hello. 35 y/o male here. after lurking seduction for a couple months i changed my mindset drastically and just recently went out a couple times to try this stuff out. now i am in over my head lol. i would probably classify the old me i am shedding as a "asexual" "nice guy"

anyway on my 1st seddit inspired night out i picked up a girl on my 1st try. i felt like i did a great job with this kino stuff and got her home despite many obstacles. anyway that fed my ego and made me feel like i knew what i was doing.

so last night i went out karaoke with a couple of co-workers, 1 a good friend, 1 new hire and one i really wanted to bang since i met her. shes so hot and fun to be around. before the ego boost i kinda put her out of my league. i am kind of a mystery to the girls at my work, i very rarely hang out with them outside of work. but this night i decided fuck it lets see what happens.

i rocked karaoke hard(megadeth!!!) for some mad social proof. like the whole bar clapped and i got high fives on my way down. imo the competition was bad, so it made me look like a bad ass lol. anyway i positioned myself close to her and initiated as much kino as i could. at end i got her to go up and sing with me. it was terrible but we both had allot of fun doing it. she was laughing the whole time.

then bar closes and were all outside. some random dude is trying to hit on these 3 girls im with. one of them, the new girl talkn bout how desperate she is lol. not desperate enough for him apparently. she does send many signs my way but i was focused on my other co-worker.

i offer up my place as somewhere to go keep the party alive. but we have to be a bit quiet cause of roommates asleep. so the girl i like is totally into this idea and i drove us back there. my friend, being the awesome friend she is. called a bit later and told us she wasn't coming to leave me alone with her.

at my place it went well made her some food. then back to my room. sitting close, i made sure to maintain touch somewhere at all times. good conversation, lots of laughs, we both divulge were not really looking for relationships. eventually i got her lying next to me with my arm under back of her head. from there i kino escalate till i was rubbing a breast. she stopped me there a lil bit. she said i was naughty so i told her she was to. escalated kino again enough to find out she is shaved and got stopped again. i said "too fast" and went back to the belly with my hand. then she passed out soon after lol.

so being the nice guy i am i just let her sleep. i was planning to stay up all night anyway, i work graveyards. in the morning she woke up and was still smiley and fun. but as i sat next to her she kinda moved away and sat in my chair off the bed. so i just chatted her up till she had to go to an appointment and that was that.

now im at work and the desperate girl is like all over me lol. she is also hot, but married =/ like she is open about it and says she just cant get any action at home. i kinda want to just fuck her but i really don't want to ruin anything with the other girl. also there both co-workers. im in too deep lol. so i decided not to pursue her for now, in hopes that things work out with the other still.

anyway im not sure how to proceed with the girl i like. im going to wait a day or two at least and see if she msg me i guess. i cant help but wonder, should i have woke her up? i kinda feel like i wussed out a little at the end. like maybe i should have woke her up and gave her shit for passing out, instead of getting her a blanket and making her comfortable.

EDIT: for clarification and fixed some of the bad grammar lol