Hey guys,

I'm new to r/seduction and I just wanted to get your opinion. So I was at a bar tonight and it took the waitress a while to get our drinks after we ordered. She came back to ask me what I had ordered because it slipped her mind, but she was rubbing my back when she asked. When she brought my drink, she said it was on her because it took so long. It must have only been 15 minutes total, so was she making some sort of move?

I got a free drink one other time from a pretty attractive blonde bartender, and I wasn't sure if it meant something more either. I'm generally the kind of guy who's not very outgoing, but I want to know how to react in this type of situation. Maybe go back to the bar a couple times (not in the same night)? lol

I'd like to get to the point where I become more spontaneous in this type of situation, but only if I'm not making something out of nothing.