From friend zone to secuction possible?

revente · 2016-08-02T02:21:10+00:00

It is possible. But don't be a dick. Don't mess with girls feelings just as an experiment.

dougsherman · 2016-08-02T04:55:38+00:00

If you truly aren't attracted to this girl and never were, I don't think that really counts as being in the friend zone. The friend zone implies you were interested in someone/had feelings for someone, and either never made a move, or were rejected. If those things didn't happen, you aren't really in the friend zone, you're just friends, which i think is an important distinction.

Yes you can get out of the friendzone. I've seen other do it and done it myself. Generally you just need to become a more attractive person and more importantly, actually be friends with the girl and not try to get out of the friend zone. If you are actively trying to, you will probably fail.

Also, like the other guy said, don't fuck with someone's feelings for an "experiment". That's pretty shitty.

TheXXL · 2016-08-02T08:32:50+00:00

Oh my... Let me tell you something: There is no experimentation necessary. If you understand what the "Friendzone" is, then you know how easy it is to get out of it. Basically the friendzone is where you never made a move on a woman, and you are never sexual when she's with you. if you change that, it is a matter of time until she gets used to it, and then with a nudge in the right direction, she will consider you a sexual partner. Of course you have to display sexually attractive traits to her and overcome her rational thoughts process by all the known behaviors...

Well, at last you need to make a move, but if you didn't in the first place, you will most likely not do it later on.

btw:

moving out of the friendzone with someone they just met who placed them there initially

It's not her who puts you there, it's yourself that puts you there.

LegendaryLoser · 2016-08-02T08:24:26+00:00

I don't think it'll help.

Your Doing it to a girl. Playing with her emotions for a selfish Gain. There's no pressure and no risk other than your friendship. Not only is that shady but also when you do it to a real girl that anxiety or pressure that you feel will be there

seductiveRobot · 2016-08-04T13:23:51+00:00

So I have a pretty good looking friend who I have no attraction to whatsoever

I have known her for 3 years now and shes done the usual friend zone banter of telling me about guys she has interests in and her problems, which I'm totally fine with because of me having zero interest in her(as perviously stated) and the fact that she is a pretty cool person to hang out with.

Uh-huh. You don't have any not-pretty-good-looking female friends to try this on? Why even mention that she is good-looking? And friendzone implies that you are attracted to her, but she isn't to you, so you're pining for her.

This post is weirdly worded in general. My suspicion is that you are, in fact, attracted to this girl, possibly quite strongly, but want to pretend like you don't give a fuck because you heard some stuff about aloofness being catnip to women, which even extends to your online persona.

If this is how you intend to go about it, you won't get her.

Title	From friend zone to secuction possible?
Author	Tephra1879
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	August 2, 2016 1:34 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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