Field Rapport 24/11/2018 Saturday

3 Approaches

2 Number closes + Instagram

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I went to visit a friend in his home town. What a blast. Not only could I see my best friend and conversate but I gamed for the first time in an other place. New venues, new people but more importantly new women. The experience was great because I was also able to speak in my mother tong, Afrikaans (The language is the bastard child from Netherlands). I love this language because it has so much power and the funniest names which impacts the jokes so much more.

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On to the rapport. My sister also joined in for the weekend fun so since she lived there for a while she knew the people and the places, best. She and her best friend joined me and my friend for the day. Her friend was my target for the day. We went to watch a live rugby game I did the usual flirting and she reciprocated well. She bored me not to long in the set so I stopped gaming her. We had no real connection, her topics did not interest me at all and her hobbies had nothing to do with mine so I decided to keep it just friends. I still showed leadership by asking one of the rugby players to take a picture with us and also telling everyone where to go to after the game. I was always taking lead moving from one place to another. She was really interested in me and threw massive ioi's, going as far as openly flirt with me infront of the other girls I talked to. She also added her number on my phone without me asking as well as Instagram. She was jealous but after she saw I am not making any advancements she moved on.

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My second approach is at Route. We arrived after the match and I saw two girls at the entrance while making our way to the bar. I told my friend I will be right back. He told me he thinks that they are both married. I said it is worth finding out. I opened them aaaand... they were married. I sticked around a bit just conversating, did the best friend test anyway even though I was not gaming them and moved back to my friends. Just a side story. When I got back my sister flipped. See, she does not know I am gaming and I have not seen her in 10 months so for her to see me walk up to women is a complete new experience. She told me that it is disgusting that I hit on women so openly. Her reasoning is to wait until a girl comes to you. Now obviously I took this logical and pointed out the flaws. That it almost never happens and why should I be picked instead of me doing the picking. She could not argue so I jokingly agreed that I should go back being beta.

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Later that night I saw a new set and this was my favorite one by far for the weekend. Now I have a odd personality. It is like slap stick comedy. The more over exaggerated something is the better. I met this girl with the funnest personality, she digged gaming, cosplay and rock music. Not only that, she for some reason loves dancing but close up slow dancing on Afrikaans music. I cant dance but I told her to teach me. Which is almost completely opposite to the other part of her personality. She was hooked and chased me really hard. I know this because this chode was following her around the whole night while I was talking to her. He would invite her to dance and she would sometimes decline or ask me if I don't rather want to dance. Also every time she returned from dancing with him she would bring back her attention fully to me and ignore him. I verbally escalated super well. I told her fictional storied of what we will do together. Rob banks and get married in Las Vegas to change our names. She loved this. My downfall is that I still don't escalate sexually. Also I don't escalate physically. I would touch her hand, hug and so forth but that is where it stops. I got a decent number close as well as Instagram.

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3 Positives

I am hooking much more girls now.

I am not afraid to move on if the set bores me (I don't aim just for looks anymore but personality as well)

I show that Chodes don't phase me.

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3 Negatives

I still don't isolate my target

I need to start escalating more sexually and physically

I am afraid of losing my set after I hooked them.

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What I learned.

How to handle chodes and also keep the attention on me. Also playing games and talking about fictional stories about you and the set is a huge bump in the level of connection between you and your set.