recently I just got to a realization that how much a girl is attracted to me is almost entirely just how funny I was when I met her. It's like they barely care about anything else (how "cool" you are, how interesting, how nice, etc - they just don't seem to care).

Note that I don't mean the self-deprecating laughing-on-yourself funny or being goofy or w.e. Just being witty/laughing at her (it doesn't even have to make her laugh, but we both know if I was funny).

Is it just me?