Yesterday I had a date with a girl. We met at a big parking lot in front of her house and had coffee in my car. This was the only option available since everythinf is closed here.

She did not mind at all that this was going to be the format the date because she is a simple girl and also she showed strong interest from the messaging stage.

We stayed in the car and hit it off really well. Flirting, teasing etc. Now, I was already sexually aroused and blood was flowing normally to the correct part of my body. At some point, I leaned for the kiss.

She pushed me back gently but still accepted the kiss. No tongue just 80 year old couple kiss. She started saying that I lied to her that I am older, that now she knows I only want sex blah blah. Now I didnt mind any of the bs she threw at me. After some time I leaned in again. The kiss lasted longer, and became more passionate. But she stopped it again. You could feel she was having second thoughts in general but really liked.

For the next like 30 mins the same game ensued with me gaining more ground and her capitulating but stopping me/blocking me gently and in general breaking the mood. At some point she says we can go to my place. But nothing will happen blah blah. I say yes.

We go up to her place and sit on the couch. We continue making out. I start touching everywhere. Slowly. Same game continues. At this point I noticeably start to lose faith. My erection is not super hard. The start/stop process had me irritated. I continue further by taking of my t shirt, unbuttoning hers and kissing everything on site.

At this point I have to make the distinction that I did not face major resistance because she was definitely into it. But her constant over thinking and doubting made her raise her defences and she was in doubt.

So at some point, I take of my pants. She is with her underwear and she says "Noo take it back, go slow etc.

This was the givinf up moment. I said to my self " Horny onion thank you for your service. It was to come only so far. You can play it cool and soend some non sexual time with her." Also I was thinking that I still got something but not the real trophy which is to get laid.

So I put my pants on and just stare at the tv. My erection is completely gone. She sits next to me staring at me. She says" what happened? "

" oh well since you dont want its fine. Lets just take a break, chill a bit and we continue in a while"

Man... It was a 180 degree change. The first thing she did was notice my dead dick and feeling guilty or inadequate. She asked me if I liked her... I said yes bit all this stop and go thing really made me loose my mood.

She then started backtracking. That maybe we could do things but not so fast. She started kissing me with passion. She opened up herself even more. Now, I have to say I saw what was happening but still couldn't get back in the mood.

She said let's lie down together. I said lets lie down on the bed. We went to her massive bed and we lied down. Here I was, naked, with a naked woman with nice soft titties and a round ass (ok not pornstar but still fuck able) and my dick is limp. He cannot properly function.

She goes crazy on me. Trying to make it alive. She is touching my dick. Kissing profusely. She puts my hands everywhere on her. She asks ms... "can I do anything for you?" while tying up her hair. This is clearly an invitation for a bj. I said lets just chill.

And then.. The button was pressed... While touching her pussy I feel the moisture. It is wet... I am fingering her... The dick starts showing signs of life... She takes my hands and puts it deeper in the pussy... My vitals start working again. The dick is rising and standing straight. The battle has been won...

We had sex once. Even after this bs she did that almost killed the mood, still I coukd deliver. We spent the next hour cuddling, eating and chilling. I left for my placr and now we are still talking.

Main message here for me is that this girl is very insecure. Next time I should not stop even if she persists (ok thst sounds rapey but you get the message). She actually told me so "wasnt it fun that I stopped you a couple of times?".

I dont know what you will get from this story.