Sorry if this does not belong here (or if it would be better for the social skills sub), but I have noticed I have been on better terms with bartenders and in one case the owner of a club in my town. I don't want to read too much into this, but have any of you experienced this and I am not sure if it is a sign I am coming out of my shell, I spend too much/tip a bit, or I just am a patron at this point. I feel my approaches are better but I was not sure if this was a sign/trend in confidence or I am overthinking.