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[–]evilgenivs 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude, same boat. Well, at least you got a few dates. I've had 0. I know how you feel. Being direct, showing intentions, making sure you are not going to be their texting buddy. Yeah, all that stuff that should work, is not working for us.
Where do you get those #s? From my experience, so far... numbers from clubs is not going to work 99 out of 100 times. Maybe a bar, but still... Never given a fake numbers also. I'm supposedly a cool guy and I do have a lot of female contact. Yet...
I think most here will say it's about "building an emotional connection" prior getting her number...
[–]Gumperstein 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What are the best places to meet girls then? I heard bookstore girls are a good type.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've talked to girls in my classes, and girls I approach in public, like on campus or in a store or something like that. I dont really go out at night, I've been to a few parties, clubbings not my thing, and I haven't been to a bar yet surprisingly so I wouldnt know.
[–]Geauxinue 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How eggar are you when you text them? Are you consistently trying to hold a conversation? Most people get too excited and consistently text. To prevent that get a hobby and stay busy. So when she does text you and asks about your day you actually have something to say. I would also set a date "would you like to go out Friday? Around 6-7ish" If she says no then you can ask when is it best for her.
Hopefully that helps out.
I'm kinda eager waiting for a text but I don't think it shows in my texts. I put effort in the conversations but I'm not irrelevant and I dont add many questions, just one. As for dates, thats what I usually do. I set up a specific time and if it doesnt work then I ask them what works for them.
Thanks for your input but it didn't help since I'm already doing that but I still aporeciate it.
[–]frankiexenon 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here, I would like to know whats up exactly
[–]uncleto 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've spoken to a few girls about this epidemic. It's super annoying for us, but they don't seem to think of it that way.
From their point of view, they've been hit on by close to a dozen guys that night, maybe given their number to a few. They have their choice from the lot, usually at any given moment. So for you to really stick out is rare. Since she's given her number to 1 or 2 other guys, they stuck out enough to pique her interest just like you. But who is she going to text back or meet again?
Have you ever given your number to a girl that you're sort of on the fence about? She wasn't interesting enough for you to want to keep texting and meet up. Same with these girls according to them. They have lots of choices, and you didn't win the contest.
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