Getting over AA, a Comprehensive Guide

OutlawPUA · 2013-04-24T01:11:37+00:00

Truth is, there are countless methods, techniques, mantras, strategies, ideas, concepts, and personal reassurances that resolve the issue of approach anxiety.

In my experience with new players, the only way to handle making the first step toward inner game is to simply find the way that works for each individual guy. Whether it's "Someone, somewhere is sick of her shit" or "You can feel AA for three seconds or a lifetime, so you might as well go for it" or "what's she gonna do? Say no? Big deal!", at some point, the guy is gonna realize that this chick is just... another... random... person.

Of course, OP makes a good point. Muscle it down, suck up that ego, and put one foot in front of the other until you're talking to that pretty girl.

e; happy cakeday zulu :)

Awkwardthrowaway95 · 2013-04-24T01:55:49+00:00

I've read all the material I can on AA but I still struggle with it, it's like when I'm actually in the moment I just can't pull the fucking trigger and take that initial step it's very frustrating

2013-04-24T08:06:48+00:00

I'm actually really happy this wasn't a huge guide. I'm upvoting this as hard as I can.

BeastLGT · 2013-04-25T16:29:02+00:00

Agreed! I just got out of a long term relationship, and have been pretty nervous approaching girls at bars, but one night I said "fuck it". I opened a set of 3 very attractive girls and pulled a number from one of them.

whitesheepwall · 2013-04-25T21:51:30+00:00

I never really had AA until I knew it was a "thing".

mileshigh_23 · 2013-04-25T05:10:49+00:00

Look at each approach as an exercise toward being ok with rejection. When you don't care whether the interaction results in a phone number or a rejection, you have found The Way.

obsideous · 2013-04-24T00:56:14+00:00

first comment. whoo!

Title	Getting over AA, a Comprehensive Guide
Author	xxzulu24xx
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	April 23, 2013 11:35 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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