Ghosted

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-02-20T02:24:19+00:00

Just ignore her for awhile. Women have a hard time making up their minds, she may be temporarily ghosting you until she discusses it with her friends.

simpleafk · 2018-02-20T03:52:25+00:00

Don't think too much into it. Ignore and next her unless she actually engages you and makes definite plans. Women are like this. If you put them on a pedestal and overthink it you'll come off as needy.

2018-02-20T09:33:13+00:00

Funny, not the same exact situation but I see old high school classmates that brushed me off back in school are eager to smile and give hugs/shake hands and talk. Idk if it’s a maturity thing or they see me smiling and having fun with a new group of friends, but it’s an awesome feeling and pretty wholesome.

Not many girls from I’d want to bang from high school anyways, as attractive as they are. I guess I just want to meet new people outside my social circle. But best of luck to you OP, just don’t be needy I guess

1BadDayAway · 2018-02-20T03:05:50+00:00

Did you try making these plans when you were still at the bar? If not, then the lesson to learn here is strike while the iron is hot. You should have made plans to see each other again ASAP that very night.

Daniele_Lyon · 2018-02-20T11:53:36+00:00

Read: White-Hot Attraction Manifesto. (50 page)

I don’t find it very interesting, except for the part that learn you that girl that you already know, got a different point of view from girls that you are trying to know.

In fact, if you want to open with a girl that you already know. You have to change her mind before build your effort.

LimitedContributor · 2018-02-20T05:55:30+00:00

Nah. Don't wait a week, dude. She'll know it was due to advice. Get back to her in 3 days and then expand the gap if continually left hanging.

svesrujm · 2018-02-20T06:18:05+00:00

Text "...?"

It's not needy, it's entitled. Todd Valentine talks about this. Comes from a high value frame, you expect people to respond to you.

If after that, no answer, move on dude.

Title	Ghosted
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Date	February 20, 2018 2:18 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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