girl said "it didnt click"

PartypooperXD · 2016-04-03T18:57:33+00:00

In my honest opinion i think you did the right thing . Asking why may have seemed desperate to her but now , the way you replied shows that you gave no fucks . You went out with her , had fun , but she didn't feel like there was much connection ... So ? what did you lose ? Absolutely nothing . Go for the next girl mate , proud of ya !!

AttractandSeduce · 2016-04-03T23:31:49+00:00

Be BRUTALLY HONEST with yourself and identify what behaviors you did too MUCH of or not ENOUGH of.

If you really don't know what you did wrong, be more attentive of your behavior next time.

Things you possibly did wrong:

-You tried to logically attract her such as giving her logical reasons of why your awesome, instead of focusing on the VIBE between both of you. -Showed lack of sense of humor -Did not challenge her -Came across as approval seeking -You made yourself uncomfortable for too long which then got her comfortable -You expected her to lead the interaction, come up with the conversation and expecting her to make it fun instead of creating it yourself

We as guys are naturally logical. When we are around guys, it's normal to have logical conversations. When it comes to ATTRACTING girls, that same logic can be your ENEMY. Focus more on being more irrational. Have fun, tease, challenge, SELF ENTERTAIN YOURSELF, and focus on the VIBE between you and her.

thechaosz · 2016-04-03T21:03:16+00:00

Happens to everyone. No matter how good you get, not everyone will feel it with every person.

All people have their "types", what they like or don't (even if they don't realize it). I've seen women crawl to get to one type of guy then he gets stone walled with a different type of women

CrushHazard · 2016-04-04T00:34:51+00:00

I say no. There's like a 1% chance she would have said anything helpful.

Besides that, it's very important that you have the presence of mind to go back over your interaction with her and determine if and when she started losing interest. Since you can't ask for progress reports along the way, you eventually need to be able to self-evaluate.

lofiharvest · 2016-04-03T22:24:26+00:00

It happens both ways. There are plenty of girls I went on dates with that I 'didn't click' with. Also if you didn't really care why are you posting about it here?

Title	girl said "it didnt click"
Author	tekneqz
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	April 3, 2016 6:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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