I have a situation I need some advice with but I want to provide a little background info about myself first.

I have been in an Ltr for almost a decade. I see some attractive women at my gym. I like to play a game in my head. To see if I can get a girl to like me. It’s stupid, I know, but I am insanely bored.

So I am at the gym. And I notice a girl looking at me. I keep looking back at her and I hold the stare. I don’t stare too long Bc I don’t want to creep her out. After a while, I notice her start to move closer to me. Sometimes I go to a different side of the gym and watch the girl follow.

To be clear, this has happened several times. With different girls. That is why I say it is like a game to me. I just wait for that affirmation that I could have the pussy if I wanted it. No one else has to see it to believe it, it is enough for me that I see it.

SO there is this one girl that I find extremely attractive. She is slim, tall and has a fat booty. Similar situation above, BUT she has a boyfriend. I find her so attractive that I want to try to get her.

I am not sure how to approach a girl at the gym that does have a boyfriend. I notice her sneaking looks at me while she works out with him. These are not quick glances and then looking away. Whenever we meet eyes, she holds the stare for, eh, maybe, 5-6 seconds.

I feel a lot of sexual tension between her and I. Sometimes, she goes out of her way to walk right next to me. I say this, Bc if she wanted to, she could avoid me by taking another path.

So with that background info- should I just get straight to the point? And say- hey, I know you have a bf but I like you.

Before anyone asks, if I am retarded, I would say yes. Partially. But I am still very smart. I hope that makes sense.