By the way, not talking about relationship trust issues like "oh last night I saw the way you looked at Suzie", but rather more or less anti-social, introverted girls that haven't been out much.

I honestly thought this was gonna be eez. We met at a houseparty but chatted beforehand, although we didn't actually know each other - we were both in the same chat room of the houseparty planning and just the way she wrote her messages piqued my interest, so we just had a few, not-too-serious convos. I noticed how she was definetely extremely introverted or just had trouble talking to people, at least outside of the internet. This proved to be right as I noticed her almost immediately at the houseparty without knowing what she looked like beforehand: calm, absent-minded, a little insecure and not talking. I decided I wanted to crack dat code to see if she really was as interesting as she was when we chatted.

After having talked to a lot of people at the party and generally having displayed a high social value (all in close proximity to her), I decided to talk to her finally, starting up a convo with the jokey, but not untrue statement of "girl I know EXACTLY who you are without even having talked to you."

This got her talking to me. And we talked a lot. It felt like she was glad that someone came up and finally talked to her, and I even got her to confess why she doesn't talk to people out of initiative: it's cuz she doesn't know "what topics to talk about". T'was good. Cuz I could provide the topics, and she could provide her personality that she prolly was desperate to provide, as any introverted person would.

Anyways, here's the deal: we did have awesome conversations. I feel like I DID build enough comfort. But on the other hand I've never been into a girl that was that introverted and antisocial. I tried to hit her up the day after, suggesting in, again, a not-so-serious way that we should hang out some time. It came down to her saying "I barely know you. I need to trust people more before I meet with them privately."

Now, the fuck? You're prolly thinking I didn't build enough comfort on that party, but now what am I supposed to do if she refuses just hanging out? Just message her over the next couple of days?