I have trouble hooking up with girls. However, tomorrow I’m going to a party where there will be this girl who is into me and is probably down to hook up. I would be remiss to not go for it in this situation. Talking to girls, and giving the basic touch signs (creating the occasional excuse to touch her in some playful manner, that tells her I’m sexually attracted to her) is in my wheelhouse. The part I can struggle with is asking her to go to some quiet place, escalating these basic touch signs, and going for the kiss. It’s just basic nervousness. So I plan to go for it and get there with her. Since the party is at her house, my plan is to ask her to show me her room, after talking to her and giving her touch signs in the open area of the party. That should be a bit hard on my nerves because then that sort of locks me into this whole process. Once we’re there, I plan on continue talking to her, and escalating by putting my hand on her’s. If her reaction is positive, I will go for the kiss by putting my hand on her back slightly moving her towards me, and leaning in (I’ll go 90% of the way, and let her come the rest of the 10%). If we’re making out at some point I’m going to ask her if she wants to have sex. Things may end up a bit different, but this is the system I’m going to carry out tomorrow night. Wish me luck!