Going on a date on Sunday need help on how to keep a strong/sexual Frame and stay bold/daring.

PursueIt · 2013-01-30T16:41:20+00:00

Have you read the stuff in the sidebar and top posts of this subreddit? It's a great resource for you!

To keep a strong/sexual frame, you need to work on your body language.

Walk tall
Take up space
Don't look at the ground EVER
Lead her by holding her elbow or small of her back. Keep on the outside of the footpath. Protect her.
Kino and escalate - touching is very important and essential to building a sexual frame
Sit at right angles to her not opposite her so you can keep up the kino

If you say or do stuff with confidence she will enjoy your presence. If you do things nervously or you doubt yourself for any reason, it is probable that she will be creeped out.

Good luck on the date. Read up on the sidebar and top posts for ideas!

paulthepwner · 2013-01-30T19:45:42+00:00

Don't wait for the end of the date to kiss her.

RedditTotalWar · 2013-01-31T01:23:55+00:00

Try to hangout/go on more dates with other girls before and after Sunday. Helps with fighting that pre-mature oneitis you're in danger of developing if you sit around too much thinking about this date on Sunday.

It's also practice and helps with maintaining that mentality of abundance.

byrd8o5 · 2013-01-30T21:24:06+00:00

I think kino is one of the biggest factors in building a good sexual frame. Its sort of like when you are out with a girl and she is constantly touching you or finding reasons to get close to you. what she is doing is escalating kino and building sexual tension. In doing this, the frame of the situation turns very sexual. If you show her that you're not afraid to touch and get close she with most likely view you as more of a sexual person. Just make sure you are not hanging off her all night. Aim for quality not quantity.

The difference in creeping her out and making her feel comfortable is the amount of confidence you put behind the kino. If you're super confident, chances are she'll except the frame. If you're not confident at all it will seem creepy and she'll reject the frame.

If you want to tease her take a look at some push-pull techniques. I find that they work well cause they usually have kino built in. Like PursueIt said definitely take a look at the sidebar there is a wealth of info there.

Good luck!

2013-01-30T22:31:17+00:00

Cook from Skins may be an asshole, but he's great at having an obviously sexual frame. Look at how he talks to Naomi in this scene.

Don't be Freddie. That kid is a pussy.

kingcal · 2013-01-31T09:53:00+00:00

It's all about calibrating how open she is to it and then escalating accordingly. On my past date last weekend, I started with very light stuff. A hug and kiss on the cheek when we met (first time ever), light arm touching and letting my knees "accidentally" bump hers under the table. Her not pulling away was a big green light. The second came when we were walking and she slipped her arm in mine.

After that, I stepped it up. Hands on the legs, hand holding, arm around the back to pull her closer, etc... and after that, at the first private moment we got, I K-closed her in an elevator. After that, it was on all night. We made out like crazy all throughout a concert and spent all night out together until 6 AM. Great date.

Title	Going on a date on Sunday need help on how to keep a strong/sexual Frame and stay bold/daring.
Author	Idontlikekarmawhores
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	January 30, 2013 3:28 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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