Going to do my first cold approaches tonight, help!

MindStateOfSuccess · 2015-06-27T09:02:54+00:00

Well since you've read that much i assume you already now more than the basics. There are two things though that you should really watch out ... first follow the rythm of the music, be enthusiastic as hell!!! .... and second do NOT think. As stupid as it may sound, whatever you have learned until now should be done unconsciously, so just build a general strategy or even record yourself to see how you will be sounding and make a good observation. "I always would like to dance with a girl that x,y,z" . If you can't make a good observation about anything around you or her, throw a compliment. Have fun mate!

kemar7856 · 2015-06-27T18:28:26+00:00

you should really find someone to do it with

redditisawesomeinla · 2015-06-27T19:24:06+00:00

It's best to make things appear natural to initiate conversation. Women are very good at this. If interested in a man they want to speak with they'll often ask for something - directions or perhaps a lighter - and you smoke. If you see a woman smoking ask for a light. There seems to be a smoker's bond and she'll comply. Then thank her and go from there - she's standing outside smoking and will be until she gets her fix - nowhere to go until then. Talk with her - the hardest part is the approach and I've just given you a way to begin it.

Title	Going to do my first cold approaches tonight, help!
Author	kynka
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	June 27, 2015 6:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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