i've been to this sub a while now and wow have it helped me trough the last cupple years not only with girls but i have become a complete different and more confident guy, from having almost no friends, no pussy and no confidence at all.

i have been seeing plenty of tinder question threads on here the last days and as a guy who gets questions from his friends for tinder advice ( because i get laid a lot on there, not saying this as a brag ) I think i can give some value to those people in need.

The first of course is having a good profile, i wont go in to it to much, but have flattering pictures of yourself is important and also a short but fun description. Youtube how to take a good picture. I have heard on here that you should not take selfies, how ever i do not agree with this statement because my first picture is a selfie of me and my fikus (plant) and i have gotten great response, you just need to take a good selfie, angels and lighting is important here. i also got written in my description "im the guy to the left in the picture the right one is my fikus". Witch just make my profile really work.

check out alpha m on how to take a good selfie:

All tough don't only have selfies, you need to show your a guy that does things. i also show a pic of me and 2 friends at a club and me pointing at the Sydney opera house.

The key thing tough when you get a match is to be smoth and direkt in all conversations.

99% of the times I start the conversation with "so when are we having out first date ;)". this gets a response 60-75 percent of the time and those times is always positive. (girls are tired of all manipulative bullshit pleasing statements just sucking up to them, so just go for it.)

a very common response would be something like and i am quoting directly from tinder: "that is a good question, i don't really know"

So i continue to be direct and this is the 100 dollar statement that will force her to decide if she wants to meet up or not, this is the statement you always want to get to.

"so how about we take a night and just drink a bottle of wine, chill and talk"

she will answer yes or no to this. if she answers no then you move on!

if you get a yes, decide a date right away, i usually go with Sunday since i go out pretty much every Saturday/Friday and weekdays can be tricky, this is often the case of attractive girls as well, but decide on a close date never wait to long.

then only message her the day you are catching up asking, "are we still on for tonight?". To much chatting on tinder is boring af.

When she comes over meet up with her, it gives you a good starter for a conversation, then crack open the wine bottle and take it from there.

this is a previous post I made a long time ago on some easy things that help you become an more seductive person. if anyone is interetsed