So I was at a tailgate with my friend and started to talk to his friend. We started off good, I made sure to smile a lot and give good eye contact while we talked about her cat and what she does and etc. I was making sure to touch her on her elbow, shoulder, lower back to try and escalate. Eventually we went downtown and started bar hopping (by we I mean me and her along with my friends group). We got to a bar and I noticed an area to throw darts, I thought that’d be fun to do and asked if she wanted to do it, she said no. Me being drunk I asked one more time in a funny way and she said “you don’t really do this often do you”. That kind of snapped me into reality, because I really don’t. I’m going in blind not knowing what works, am I supposed to hard on flirt, feel her up at this point? I just don’t really know how to escalate situations or flirt or anything. After that she didn’t really seem interested anymore