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Got dumped from a love interest because she fell in love with a friend (She chose him over me basically). Any tips on how to get over it move on asap?

Supergaz · 2017-04-21T23:54:02+00:00

Love interest = someone I was dating and thought it was serious....

Supergaz

April 21, 2017

5 upvotes

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Title	Got dumped from a love interest because she fell in love with a friend (She chose him over me basically). Any tips on how to get over it move on asap?
Author	Supergaz
Upvotes	5
Comments	2
Date	April 21, 2017 11:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/66sxq2/got_dumped_from_a_love_interest_because_she_fell/
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[–]_TurnuptheSun_ 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Tough break, dude. You'll get over her, you just need to be proactive about it. Here's what you haveto do:

Pursue other interests. 2. Pursue other girls. You were emotionally invested in this relationship and you need to find that sense of purpose somewhere else to get back on track. First thing you need to do is sit down and take stock of what you want to achieve over the next few months. Write down a list of goals, big or small, and work on them religiously. The point here isn't necessarily to achieve the goal, but to get fixated on the process and learn what it is to overcome challenges -- that's the essence of being a self-driven, motivated man. The bonus with this is that girls are attracted to men who do their own thing and have an interesting life. By pursuing goals and enjoying the fruit of your labour, you will increase your chances with high-value girls as a corollary outcome -- it's a win-win.

Secondly, and this might be harder, go out and meet as many girls as possible. By hanging around feeling sorry for yourself, you're not going to give yourself the chance to move on. This video from RSD Max will help you get your head straight so you can get back in the game and start enjoying your single life again: https://youtu.be/mJGQHow4yWw

[–]Supergaz[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link