Something I never understood, maybe you can help me. When chatting on tinder or something else, how many messeges or days before asking them out?

running4beer · 2017-02-19T16:09:56+00:00

You are probably projecting the awkwardness on a non-awkward situation. Ask yourself: Do you want to have a purely message based relationship with this person? Assuming the answer is no, the next step is to just stop giving a fuck and be straight up. "Wanna grab a drink this Thursday?" or "hahaha, such a great joke... maybe you can tell me some more in person this saturday?" Literally the only texting 'rule' I follow is to try and meetup ASAP. I get bored too quickly if we are justing playing 20 questions over text. It's cliche and everyone guy is doing it with women.

You should be establishing plans for face to face meetups as soon as possible when talking to someone. Connections are made and broken in person. You need the odds to be in your favor to successfully make one.

MindsEvolve · 2017-02-19T18:07:25+00:00

PM me and I'll give you my e-mail. Send me screenshots of your bio, pics, and 3 recent conversations. Let's help you out!

bugxter · 2017-02-20T04:11:18+00:00

Be honest.

Title	Something I never understood, maybe you can help me. When chatting on tinder or something else, how many messeges or days before asking them out?
Author	Supergaz
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	February 19, 2017 12:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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