Ok, so long story short... I got into seddit and improving myself after a long term relationship ended 2 years back. I stepped up my game, had a blast single with plenty of one night stands, and wound up meeting this girl I dated briefly for a few months. I recently got broken up with by her, seemingly out of the blue earlier this week... and now I feel like I lost all 2 years of progress.

I know what you're going to say: "inner game!" However I find myself with a new low confidence, low self esteem, and honestly just not even much interest in meeting women (I went out the other night and I had girls try to make some moves on me, I just couldn't bring myself to do anything though. I am legit just not interested.)

I now have oneitis for my ex really bad, and I have no idea how to jump back on the horse or how to handle myself. How do I pick myself back up to where I left off? I realize this breakup is still fresh but the sooner I get over it, the better.