So I met up with this girl who was an immigrant exchange student here in the US from Germany. We matched on a dating site because that's the only way I can meet people. Approaching in person is just too much for me and I find it highly inefficient because you work up the courage to ask one girl out and then get rejected or told she already has a boyfriend, and then you have to go through it all over again with someone else. So I meet up with her, and she's like 5'11 so almost my height, I'm 6'1, so idk if she had an issue with my height and is just making stuff up so she doesn't call me a Manlet. So she was giving all these mixed responses, like I couldn't tell what she wanted exactly. She seemed kind of reserved but also kind of dominant over me at the same time. I mean we still talked alot and laughed alot, so I came away feeling pretty good about it. Then she tells me later that I'm just really reserved and too shy and that's not her type. I've also been told this by one other person last year, idk what's wrong with me. I did most of the talking in both of these dates. I'm just respectful and polite and will not just jump into sexual talk like "hey yo baby you want sum fuck". That's just not who I am. I don't know if that's what's expected in Europe because in America girls seem to get offended if asked such things. Are ultra dominant guys preferred in Europe?