Guys, I’m 19. Why is it so hard?

Spottedgriffin · 2019-03-07T02:16:38+00:00

First step is to figure out why you make girls nervous, that’ll help you figure out how to improve that aspect.

JamalFly · 2019-03-07T02:26:10+00:00

It takes more than just being hot, it’s about how you present yourself to them. Don’t approach women expecting them to automatically like you, let them see who you are and your personality. Maybe go on a few small dates with them just really put them under your spell & also make sure you put yourself out there, if you’re not making an effort, women aren’t just going to magically appear sucking your cock. Meet them, get to know them and more importantly let them get to know you

beserker112 · 2019-03-07T12:43:42+00:00

First, get rid of your Approach anxiety and shed your victim mindset simultaneously.

Second, learn to become more present and actually enjoy meeting girls and having fun with them.

Once you reach the second part, you will get laid without even trying. Just be headstrong as a man, dont be overly agreeable.

YOU GOT THIS.

framew0rk26 · 2019-03-07T10:03:40+00:00

Your mentality is entirely messed up based on reading this post.

"Input: going to gym 6 days a week....output: getting laid"

This isnt how dating works, you know.

It's great that you stay healthy, it's great that girls think you're hot, but all that is talk and it means nothing if you cant actually present yourself like a decent human being and attract the opposite sex.

latinhillbilly · 2019-03-07T17:40:58+00:00

Some women like a little danger so making them a little nervous might be good. They should be a little nervous about a new partner really.

If they are nervous you have to lead but also be patient with them and be prepared accept no as an answer and be cool with them not being ready for sex.

I met a 16 yo online when I was 21, had her making out with me all night but refusing to go further. I took her for a game of pool and a drink and dropped her home. We made out in my car a bit more and then at the last minute she decided she wanted to come back to mine instead of go home and she went all the way.

When I raised the prospect of seeing her again she said she didn't want to as there was no danger anymore and the excitement had gone. I think she was being honest too.

Some girls like a little danger, try to find them!

Wanro13 · 2019-03-07T10:55:17+00:00

It doesnt really care if you are hot( it helps) but you have to make women feel something for you, emotions are very powerful in women.

Title	Guys, I’m 19. Why is it so hard?
Author	ethancg_
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	March 7, 2019 2:13 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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