Hey everyone,

​Looking for a calibration check on a recent field interaction. I’ve been training at a gymnastics gym lately and ended up chatting with two girls there,

​During the class, the vibe was really good. After the session ended, I decided to approach them. We ended up having a genuinely nice, natural conversation. They were showing active interest—asking me where I was from, what I was doing in the city, etc.

​Since the energy was high and friendly, I pitched a low-pressure next step:

​"Hey, we should work out and practice together next time."

​They both agreed, saying, "Yeah, we can definitely arrange that!"

​One of them (who seemed to be the main point of contact) asked for my Instagram and followed me right there. I left the interaction feeling like it was a solid, successful connection.

​The Twist

​A few days later, I reached out to actually invite them/set up the practice session.

Instead of a reply or a raincheck, she completely unfollowed me.two days later

​Would love to hear your thoughts on how to handle seeing them in class next time without making things weird.