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Field ReportRealwoujo/r/seduction13/07/26 04:22 PM
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Fundamentals Realwoujo/r/seduction03/08/26 04:28 PM
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Red Pill TheoryRealwoujo/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 02:27 PM
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Red Pill TheoryRealwoujo/r/TheRedPill20/07/26 02:26 PM
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Realwoujo/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 10:40 AM
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Fundamentals Realwoujo/r/seduction27/01/26 02:12 AM
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Inner Game Realwoujo/r/seduction19/05/26 11:13 PM
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Realwoujo/r/TheRedPill11/05/26 02:50 PM
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1) Get right in their face; don't do it from far away, from the side, from behind, etc. 2) Give a real, genuine compliment, 3) Give the vibe that you are on the move and will keep walking if they don't show interest.
/r/seduction13/08/26 11:32 PM
9

Having the attitude of "I'm going to cold approach till I get a girlfriend" is poison. It makes you need and outcome dependent. You should not "want" anything. Just talk to people and have fun.
/r/seduction13/08/26 04:35 PM
3

You don't need a "day game partner." Wing men don't help. Also, you and some rando from teh internet probably will not vibe. Just do it yourself.
/r/seduction12/08/26 09:28 AM
-5

Thats the part that i cant get over. I want someone to want me first. Is that a big ask? yes, you sound like a whiny bitch. Be a fucking man and approach. You have to take the lead and be confident.
/r/seduction12/08/26 12:41 AM
25

Women rarely give you "looks." You can't wait for an invitation; you need to go approach them.
/r/seduction11/08/26 02:05 PM
1

"Scripts" don't get people laid. You need to learn game the hard way - by going out and practicing. I offer coaching, but you need to focus more on action than reading or coaching.
/r/seduction11/08/26 05:47 AM
1

You should not be thinking about yourself; your weaknesses, your insecurities, your traits, anything. You should only think about the woman and how much fun you are having.
/r/seduction11/08/26 01:11 AM
2

There is an exception to every rule, but generally speaking talking to girls for 10 minutes isn't going to get you laid. I fucked a girl I met at the Citgo gas pump, that doesn't mean you should hang around gas pumps trying to meet girls.
/r/seduction09/08/26 02:06 AM
1

That's a stupid, boring date. Where do you guys come up with this shit? You should invite women to do things that are fun, exciting, and weird.
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:30 AM
1

Dude, you should not be hitting on women at your job sites. That's creepy and can get you in trouble for sexual harassment. The only time it is ever appropriate to hit on a woman in any professional function is if she shows an extreme amount of interest so that it is obvious she wants to hang out with you. And even then you need to be careful. You also fucked up on asking her out. You should just invite her something at a time or place. But again, you should not have been hitting on this girl in…
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:30 AM
1

Yes, if you're not talking to a girl for at least 30 minutes she is likely to forget you even existed. Hot girls get approached by like 10 guys a day and give their number to anybody who asks, so why would she remember you? If you are saying you are only talking to her for 10 minutes and she doesn't even feel a strong connection, there is a 0% chance she will remember you, much less get up and put her pants on to come meet you. I normally try to keep the girls around for at least an hour and go …
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:25 AM
2

How long are you talking to her? If its not at least 30 minutes, she is likely to flake because she hasn't emotionally invested enough in you yet.
/r/seduction09/08/26 12:48 AM
1

Yes, but you shouldn't worry about whether you think women are interested. You need to approach them anyway. They will let you know if they are not.
/r/seduction08/08/26 10:25 PM
1

Before I heard the term "qualification," I never realized I was allowed to have standards. What is wrong with men nowadays? Do you guys not have fathers or something?
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:27 PM
1

You're gonna get murdered dawg.
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:20 PM
4

You focus on having fun and enjoying yourself and make women want to join the adventure.
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:43 PM
8

Dude, I can already tell you will creepy because you wrote "I really crave female touch and connection." And the fact that you are throwing a giant house party just to get laid means you are definitely going to be creepy. Women need to feel like you have so many options that you don't need anything. Women must be the pursuers, not you.
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:34 PM
1

Why do you need another man to push to you to approach? What are you scared will happen if you get rejected? A lot of guys are more scared to approach when there is another guy watching them.
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:32 PM
-2

No it can't. Wingmen are bad. But keep thinking what you want to think, you don't need my validation.
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:04 PM
1

You shouldn't be thinking about yourself at all when approaching.
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:03 PM
0

You're a 21 year old that only recently became old enough to go to a bar. I'm double your age, have coached guys for years, and have approached thousands of women. I'm telling you that wingmen don't help. You are saying you think wingmen are a good idea because you just THINK it would be a good thing. I've actually been doing this. Gaming alone is a lot more effective. But do what you want.
/r/seduction07/08/26 05:48 PM
4

You don't need a wingman. Wingmen actually hurt more often than not.
/r/seduction07/08/26 05:40 PM
3

Getting phone numbers is a waste of time and a shitty metric. Women give their numbers out to anybody. The hard part is actually getting the woman to care about you so she wants to hang out with you after you call her. Being a number bandit is a waste of time and just guarantees you get ghosted.
/r/seduction07/08/26 04:12 PM
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Three messages is not enough. I usually chat for like 10-15 messages before I ask them out.
/r/seduction04/08/26 04:46 AM
3

Wait, so because people wrote nasty comments on my post, my post gets taken down? That doesn't make any sense.
/r/seduction04/08/26 04:30 AM
0

Sometimes men and women touch each other; Crazy, I know
/r/seduction04/08/26 02:40 AM
1

Indirect openers are for losers. Just go up to them and give a compliment. That's the only opener you need.
/r/seduction04/08/26 01:06 AM
0

If you hate pick-up artists, so much, why are you here? Stop trolling people you hate. Go away. Also you need to learn how to read.
/r/seduction04/08/26 12:50 AM
1

This is why you are an incel.
/r/seduction04/08/26 12:48 AM
2

Stick with girls your age. If you haven't even kissed a girl yet you need to focus on getting something first.
/r/seduction03/08/26 11:00 PM
1

It's not. Game is not a complete redevelopment of your personality. It's just some tweaks you make to your behavior to accommodate some quirks women have. You can talk to people, right? You are intelligent, interesting, and fun, right? You can do it.
/r/seduction03/08/26 09:32 PM
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“I see a hot girl fall? I make fun of her.” What kind of loser does that? Isn’t the spontaneous reaction of a human being, man or woman, in such a situation, to say, “Are you o.k.?” This guy is suggesting he might say, “Damn, been walking long?” Dude, shut the fuck up. Obviously, if a woman is seriously hurt I'm not going to laugh. I would laugh the same way that I would laugh if one of my friends fell. That's how normal people interact with each other. Right. He’s the ONLY guy in the place put …
/r/seduction03/08/26 07:25 PM
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What does this have to do with anything I wrote?
/r/seduction03/08/26 07:21 PM
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I never had a gf and due to being short (5’5) That's not why you never had a girlfriend. That's an excuse you are making for yourself because you don't want to do the work. Plenty of 5'5" guys have girlfriends. I have low self esteem and scared to approach beautiful women At least you are self aware of what your problem is. Your problem is this: Why is your self esteem connected to women? Your value as a man is your value as a man and it doesn't go up or down based on whether women like you or n…
/r/seduction02/08/26 01:16 AM
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Trying to memorize lists of openers is stupid. Trying to think of the "perfect" opener on the spot is stupid. Just give girls compliments. It will make your life much easier.
/r/seduction01/08/26 03:50 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I have ever read. Why would a personalized comment be platonic? You can say "I love your dress, you are so hot." It's not hard.
/r/seduction01/08/26 03:46 PM
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He's not overthinking it and not overly emotionally invested like you.
/r/seduction31/07/26 11:29 PM
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You fumbled her when you called her a 10/10. You are putting this woman on a pedestal which means you are almost certainly acting needy, corny, overly interested, censoring yourself, and so forth. You blew it this time, next time treat all women the same, no matter how great you think they are.
/r/seduction31/07/26 11:28 PM
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Whenever guys talk about "the issues with dating in the modern world" I know they are being a little bitch and not focusing on their own improvement. The issues with dating in the modern world are not your problem, you can't fix them, and they are no better in any other country. All you can do is work on yourself to improve. The dating world is fine with men who are attractive and have game. All of this "dating sucks in the modern world" is just cope for guys that don't want to improve themselve…
/r/seduction30/07/26 11:23 PM
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I know I'm a good person, I have lots of friends and family that love me, and I know lots of other girls that like me, so if this one person rejects me it doesn't hurt me. Also, they are not rejecting ME but my game in that moment, and I can always improve my game.
/r/seduction30/07/26 04:02 PM
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/r/seduction27/07/26 02:47 PM
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I think trying to fuck a girl who told you she has a boyfriend is a waste of time. Telling you she has a boyfriend is a mild rejection - why not go find a girl who does not have a boyfriend. If a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I straight up ask her if she is willing to cheat on him. If not, I move on. I got options babyyy.
/r/seduction27/07/26 02:35 PM
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First, you were being too aggressive. You don't invite a woman back to your place, or invite yourself back to their place until they've been showing STRONG signals that they want to be taken back. And then after they said "no," instead of playing it cool you double down and started being weird and insecure. And of course, the whole "are you using me for drinks" reeks of insecurity. Also, saying "are you using me for drinks" was stupid because you were the one who offered to buy them a bottle of …
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:13 AM
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Confidence is an important element, but its not everything. Being 5'5 is surely a disadvantage, but you can make for a lot of it with confidence. But the point is that you should not be thinking about yourself at all when approaching girls. You should be thinking about them and how much fun you are having.
/r/seduction27/07/26 03:53 AM
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US
/r/seduction27/07/26 03:49 AM
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Non direct openers are for pussies. Just go up to girls and compliment them. Also saying they look intelligent is stupid. You can't tell if somebody is intelligent by looking at them.
/r/seduction24/07/26 11:35 PM
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This is stupid. There are no "tiers." Women rarely approach, if ever.
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:15 PM
1

This is a waste of breath typing this. Shoulda coulda woulda doesn't matter in the real world. In the real world, women do not approach, so if you want to make something happen, you need to make it happen yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:15 PM
2

It makes sense. If she is desperate for acceptance from somebody inside the tribe, the last thing she wants is a guy who is also outside the tribe begging for acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/26 08:16 PM
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Just don't lie about what you are doing.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:15 PM
2

Girls don't have a fuck about anything except for how you make them feel. The fact that you have 100k followers doesn't mean jack shit, and if you brag about it you will just look like an insecure loser that is trying to validate himself to her. Any "cool" thing about you should be a surprise that she discovers herself, not some kind of gay bait that you tried to lure her in with.
/r/seduction22/07/26 05:35 AM
1

Stop trying to fuck your boss unless she shows extreme interest. This whole thing is fucking stuipd and you are going to get fired.
/r/seduction22/07/26 05:34 AM
1

Women don't ever like to be "possessed" or "controlled," so you need to get that out of your head immediately. Women like dominant, confident guys, but they want the ability to be able to get on and off the ride whenever they want. So you can only give a woman orders when she wants it. Furthermore, women don't want to take orders from a man until they have emotionally invested in him and start to see him as an alpha male. Also, this caveman times stuff is bullshit. Women have a deep, subconsciou…
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:21 PM
2

She thinks you're a pussy because you took so long to talk to her. You were a fun, intriguing challenge at first, but when you talked to her, the challenge went away and you just became a weirdo who stared at her for 7 months and didn't say anything. You fucked this one up and should just move on.
/r/seduction21/07/26 07:27 PM
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The only people that say "looks are all that matter" are ugly guys that want an excuse to not improve their game. Looks matter, but they are not all that matter.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:59 PM
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It happens, but if you are focused on somebody who rejected you, you are going to act needy and pathetic. It's best to move on. Have some abundance.
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:58 PM
1

You are definitely going to get brutally rejected. But guess what? It doesn't matter, you will be fine.
/r/seduction19/07/26 08:34 PM
0

She is on the fence with you and you are pushing a little too hard so she is recoiling. You should play it cool, not look too eager, and not hit her up so much. Just text her funny texts/memes and then invite her out to something fun next week.
/r/seduction19/07/26 08:22 PM
1

I actually started a blog, woujo.com, and that really helped because I could process what I was learning. But mostly 95% practice and 5% doing.
/r/seduction19/07/26 05:06 PM
2

Dude 50% of marriages of end in divorce. 30% of young adults are not having sex. Most women nowadays have given up on dating. this shit is complicated, and you want to ignore the details and nuances of attraction you will end up a failure like most men in the modern world.
/r/seduction18/07/26 10:00 PM
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Here's my "hot take" - trying to build "social proof" is a waste of time. If you are generally a cool, social person you will eventually make friends and people will get to know you, but you also need to be able to talk to girls without "help" from other people. And going out of your way to be seen with other girls is lame, insecure behavior. I also think preselection is overrated. A girl will become slightly more interested in you because she saw another girl show interest in you, but that's no…
/r/seduction17/07/26 03:13 PM
2

I generally don't ask for a girl's number or to hang out until I feel like she is genuinely interested in seeing me again. I have a lot of abundance, so I don't need to chase girls that aren't 100% about me. But if she is, I will invite her to a fun social event, like a drink at a bar or to go see a DJ. I won't use the word "date" but I basically make clear it is a date.
/r/seduction17/07/26 03:10 PM
1

When you work with somebody or are in a situation where you see them over and over again, you should play it cool and only ask them out once it is very clear they are interested in you. Just by being around you, women build attraction so you don't need to push the issue. You only need to be aggressive when you meet a woman in the wild because if you don't text her she will forget about you.
/r/seduction17/07/26 01:45 AM
1

The fact that he is being underhanded and manipulative is worse given that he will be seeing them over and over again. Simply put, you should either not go for a girl, and if you do, you should do it directly.
/r/seduction16/07/26 11:55 PM
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Everything you did was wrong. This whole "lets set up a practice session" is a slimy, sleazy thing to do. If you want to hang out with a girl in a romantic context, just ask her out on a date. If you don't think she wants to go on a date with you, then move the fuck on. But trying to be slick and invite her to a "practice session" is a gay, low confidence move. First, you are lying about your real intentions and the girls see that a mile away, which makes you look manipulative, dishonest, and li…
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:30 PM
1

That sounds like an excuse socially anxious people make to explain why they are too afraid of approach anybody. Also, if you can approach women, you can get invited into social circles.
/r/seduction16/07/26 01:03 AM
1

Whoever told you Miami sucks for game is either the stupidest person on the planet or somebody who looks like shit and has terrible game.
/r/seduction16/07/26 01:02 AM
8

Moving somewhere just to pick up girls is loser behavior. A good guy with game can clean up anywhere. A guy with shitty game can't get laid in a brothel. I live in NYC and I love it and do great, but LA and Miami are probably easier and have hotter girls.
/r/seduction15/07/26 09:58 PM
1

yes thats right, the best opener is just a compliment
/r/seduction15/07/26 07:57 PM
1

Do what in an opener?
/r/seduction15/07/26 05:24 PM
0

No, that's weird. Just give them a compliment.
/r/seduction15/07/26 02:53 PM
4

Yes, when you think of it as "getting pussy" it will always be too hard. Instead, you should think of it as forming an emotional connection with somebody you like. The "pussy" part is secondary.
/r/seduction15/07/26 02:42 PM
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Not all dating coaches and gurus are the same. Some of them, like me, are effective. And if you don't like them, just ignore them. More importantly, what value are you providing? Or do you just complain?
/r/seduction15/07/26 02:41 PM
1

Your objective is having fun and making the conversation interesting for yourself.
/r/seduction15/07/26 02:15 AM
0

Pretending like you care about something (oh what flavor are you trying) when you really just want to fuck her.
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:56 PM
1

That's stupid. Women never give you "signals" or "invitations" to approach. You just have to do it.
/r/seduction14/07/26 07:20 PM
1

Are you approaching women? If you're not, you can't complain about women not giving you validation.
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:45 PM
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No fuck that. Never do a fake question. Just approach them and compliment them.
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:44 PM
-1

Well you should be careful about how you treat people. Romantic connections are humans' strongest emotions, so naturally people freak out when they feel rejected.
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:20 PM
-1

That's a stupid way to think. Why would a girl make up a story about a random guy for no reason?
/r/seduction14/07/26 02:33 PM
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No Heidegger
/r/seduction14/07/26 12:16 AM
2

The problem isn't that you aren't "witty" or "quick." The problem is that you are trying to make the conversation fun for the woman instead of yourself. This is a common problem a lot of guys have.
/r/seduction14/07/26 12:14 AM
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Wow it's amazing that you can type so much and me still completely disagree with you. Because those women were interested in threesomes, if they weren’t it wouldn’t have had a positive effect, it’s that simple. No, a lot of those women would never have a threesome in a million years. They were interested in the story, the adventure. Women are not any more emotional or any less rational/logical than men when it comes to their sexual attraction. Mens' sexual attraction is driven by emotion too. Ou…
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:55 PM
6

If girls are saying shit about you on these groups, you are almost certainly doing something wrong.
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:04 PM
63

I'm not, I'm middle eastern. Also stop having such a whiny victim mentality
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:01 PM
33

I'm writing one, and this is actually the draft opening to a chapter about creating fun emotional experiences.
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:37 PM
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Thanks for the feedback; I need to be more clear that these are general categories and include many sub-emotions. I would say that safety, connection, and comfort are part of acceptance, whereas fun, humor, excitement, are part of adventure.
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:37 PM
20

I'm not super attractive. 5'9", decent looking, I work out. But my game is off the charts.
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:36 PM
1

I answered them in the text of the post.
/r/seduction13/07/26 05:37 PM
0

It's different.
/r/seduction13/07/26 05:36 PM
23

Tinder, but this was a while ago
/r/seduction13/07/26 04:27 PM
4

If you had plans with a girl and she straight up just stood you up, you should not be answering her texts. You are giving her attention and validation and she is not even giving you the basic courtesy of showing up to a date. That said, when she said "A girl friend" you should have said, "Yes, a girl I'm banging" because fuck her.
/r/seduction13/07/26 04:25 PM
0

Guys with boats and lamborghinis literally do walk up to a women and say "wanna go on a boat." And yes, women often say yes because their lives are empty and boring and the guy seems fun and interesting.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:21 AM
1

The line is drawn when she stops deserving your compliments.
/r/seduction11/07/26 09:51 PM
1

I don't think its a mistake. When I compliment a girl, I only compliment her to the extent she deserves it. After that, it is up to her to keep working for my validation.
/r/seduction11/07/26 09:35 PM
1

I made a video about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGTad_eaP1A&t=242s
/r/seduction10/07/26 11:52 PM
2

Playing Offense: Lifting, getting fit, eating clean, developing as a man. Playing Defense: "All girls are sucky and mean!" This is a very good point (even though, I would add "learning game" to Playing Offense). Manosphere content can send a man down two very different paths: the self-improvement path, and the resentful, angry, loser path. Unfortunately, the resentful loser path is the easier path and is very appealing to lots of men. To make matters worse, I have a strong feeling that the power…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/26 08:34 PM
2

if you are still thinking about your ex, you have lost. The key to life is to be happy, and if you are still stuck on some bitch from your past you are not happy. Also each girl you date should be better than the last because you are constantly improving, so you should not even want to be with your ex.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/26 08:29 PM
1

Whether or not a woman is a "casual" has nothing to do with whether you should be "maybe" towards her. You are putting "good girls" on a pedestal and imagining that they are somehow more pure or better than "casuals." That's completely wrong.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/26 08:13 PM
0

What are "the casuals"? You shouldn't put women into these stupid categories. Female psychology is the same in all women, and if a woman has not worked for anything more than "you'll see," you shouldn't give it to her.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/26 05:14 PM
2

DO NOT TRY TO LEARN GAME FROM FICTIONAL MOVIES AND TV SHOWS. Jesus Fucking Christ, it is literally not real. The writers of these things are not experts at game; they probably have never approached a woman in their life.
/r/seduction10/07/26 03:12 PM
3

This is stupid. Womens' attraction is fluid and you have no idea what kind of women you can get until you go for it. There are no clear leagues - everybody wants something different. Also, this kind of negative thinking is death for game.
/r/seduction10/07/26 12:07 AM
1

Has she worked for your validation? It sounds like probably not
/r/seduction09/07/26 11:32 PM
1

Depends on who the girl is. The answer you give your long term girlfriend is different than a girl you just met. If you just met her, the answer is Amazing. If it is a girl who has worked for your validation, the answer is "my life is always good, but it is better with you."
/r/seduction09/07/26 11:30 PM
1

You smile and say "You'll see."
/r/TheRedPill09/07/26 04:48 AM
1

You shouldn't be thinking at all. Anxiety feeds on thoughts. All your thoughts are negative. All your thoughts are bad. Your only "thought" should be enjoying yourself in the moment. If you see a pretty girl, just walk up to her and give her a warm, genuine compliment. If she wants to keep talking to you, she will make that clear. That's it. Nothing else to think about.
/r/seduction07/07/26 06:18 PM
5

Unfortunately, I think all the major models are "woke" and they refuse to help you with anything that even smells of red pill. They keep telling me that I need to completely change the point of what i am saying. I mostly want to use the AI models to help me shorten the text and remove duplicative and unnecessary text, but it still won't do that.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/26 06:07 PM
2

what
/r/TheRedPill07/07/26 06:05 PM
4

You're right. This is a portion of a longer chapter on being a challenge, and I try to present "maybe" as a way to show you are a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/26 06:05 PM
1

Black Pill is horseshit. Being confident, having game, fixing your internal mental state, and being a socially pleasant person are hard to do, so losers on the internet just tell themselves that girls only care about money and/or looks as an excuse to not improve themselves. This shit ruins lives.
/r/seduction07/07/26 06:00 PM
5

I've actually tried to get AI to help me improve passages and it won't because of the subject matter.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 02:26 PM
19

Sadly, I wrote this slop without AI help.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/26 01:21 PM
2

You should not be looking at or thinking about other guys at all.
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:50 AM
1

I say, "Yes, I am lucky. I only talk to the hottest girls. You're lucky too." And you say that with complete confidence.
/r/seduction05/07/26 08:33 PM
1

Girls are either into you or they're not. If they are into you, they make excuses for themselves to be with you. If they are not, they make excuses for why they can't be with you. Act accordingly.
/r/seduction03/07/26 05:41 PM
1

Women dont "check you out." You need to approach them.
/r/seduction03/07/26 05:38 PM
9

It's rare. And when they do, you still need to carry the interaction.
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:27 PM
1

No womens' desires do not change as they get older. Women always want adventure. Sometimes as they get older they try to make "rational" choices and end up with a rich guy, but what drives them emotionally does not change.
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:23 PM
3

No girl is a 10. Calling any girl a 10 is putting her on a pedestal. Also the rules are not different for different kinds of girls. Just compliment them and stop being a pussy.
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:22 PM
-13

Wrong. The thing women most want is a man living a fun life, and by that I mean he is pursuing attractive purposes he is passionate about, doing fun things, and not letting anybody stop him or introduce negativity into his life. All that other stuff (social status, wealth) are just secondary indicators of what they really want, which is a fun life.
/r/seduction02/07/26 09:06 PM
4

You don't need a witty and creative opener. You are not a dancing monkey who is there to entertain her. Just give her a compliment that is genuine and real.
/r/seduction02/07/26 07:08 PM
1

Dude you should never let any other guy affect your behavior at all. And you should also not be thinking about this shit.
/r/seduction30/06/26 02:45 PM
1

Game is a complicated thing that needs to be tailored to the person's individual issues. I can't explain everything here.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:49 PM
1

Go to my website: woujo.com. We can then talk if you want.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:47 PM
2

Real people.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:32 PM
18

I'm 40+ and I can get girls of any age. Obviously a lot of girls 25 and under are not going to do it, but a lot will. But on a broader note, to succeed in game, you need to get every negative thought out of your head.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:09 PM
4

Dude do not ever structure your game around what fictional characters would do. Fictional characters are written by writers, and most writers know nothing about game.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:04 PM
-3

You are probably being pushy and needy
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:47 PM
2

You need to stop waiting for an invitation. There is no "look." You just go for it, and she's not into it, she will let you know.
/r/seduction29/06/26 02:52 AM
0

Don't waste your time on this lame shit. Go meet people in person. Sliding in DMs has like a 0.000001% success rate unless you are like a celebrity or something.
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:33 PM
10

Yeah they randomly delete certain posts and don't tell you why.
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:32 PM
1

Just don't be pushy. That's the main mistake guys make. have fun and have faith that if the girl likes you, she will make it clear she wants to escalate.
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:36 PM
1

There are no "tips" to being confident. You need to just do it and stop overthinking. Anxiety feeds on thoughts.
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:20 PM
9

At some point you need to have faith in yourself. If you always assume you will fail you will always go for the bottom of the barrel. You will also let girls treat you like this.
/r/seduction25/06/26 05:29 PM
1

1) Don't hit on girls who are at work unless they show EXTREME interest in you, 2) You already got rejected, move on.
/r/seduction23/06/26 03:05 AM
-3

I can't even understand what you are saying. Learn to write. The way you act should be the same whether you are around randoms or girls you know. Introduce yourself and talk to them. No girl wants a random guy just walking up to her and start dancing with her.
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:26 PM
-2

Dude are you in middle school? You can't just walk up to girls and start grinding on them. You walk up to them, introduce yourself, and have a nice conversation. You can then offer them to dance. On the dance floor, they will make it clear if they want you to escalate the situation.
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:13 PM
1

There is a different between a shit test, which is fun and playful, and outright disrespect. These girls are not shit testing you, they are disrespecting you, and the answer to disrespect is to just leave and not look back. A shit test is her saying something like "Ewww, who likes diet coke?" after you order diet coke. And the answer is to just say "I do." Being late, blocking you, and rescheduling last moment are just disrespectful. In those cases, you do not need to respond. Indeed, if you do …
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:24 PM
10

All else equal, being tall is more attractive than not being tall, and being tall will always cause women to give you more of a first look. But after that, game is more important because no matter how good looking, tall, rich, or high status you are, if you are creepy, needy, pushy, boring, and low confidence, women will not want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:50 PM
1

Not every girl is gonna want to fuck you the first night. In fact, I would say its pretty rare. Also, you are probably coming on too strong.
/r/seduction20/06/26 07:57 PM
5

this is wrong. Don't listen to this guy.
/r/seduction18/06/26 04:07 PM
1

Still cuckish
/r/seduction18/06/26 04:06 PM
1

Any guy who does a wife or GF swap is a cuck. If you let the girl you are with fuck another guy, she is no longer your girl.
/r/seduction18/06/26 01:35 PM
5

Sexual tension comes from you taking the lead, being a challenge, teasing her, bantering with her, and giving her genuine, energetic compliments when she deserves it.
/r/seduction18/06/26 07:15 AM
1

Just go out and approach. There is really nothing else to it.
/r/seduction18/06/26 07:14 AM
381

This is how you take home psychos and drunk fatties. But yeah if you ask enough girls it works.
/r/seduction18/06/26 07:13 AM
2

The fact that you are worried about this means you are too in your head. Just say "Well, I'm sorry you're so hot." And then wait till round 2. Girls are pretty understanding of shit like this.
/r/seduction17/06/26 06:48 PM
1

Why the fuck would you ever say that? That's the stupidest thing you could say. Women don't go on dates to give a guy "practice." They go on dates because they want to have a relationship.
/r/seduction17/06/26 06:45 PM
2

Dude you are being way too aggressive. You should not immediately ask if a girl is single - that is basically saying "I'm a predator looking for pussy." Your vibe should be "you look interesting to talk to" not "I am a horny man in desperate need of a woman." I bet you $100 at least one of those girls WAS single but lied because of the pressure you were putting on her.
/r/seduction17/06/26 06:44 PM
2

I haven't changed my number in 20 years. Why do you need to change your number? Just don't answer when your old hookups call. Also, I highly doubt this is an actual problem for you or any other guy.
/r/seduction17/06/26 06:42 PM
1

Ok looks like you are afraid to make any kind of self-deprecating joke. Good luck with that lol. If you are attractive, she will know you are joking.
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:44 PM
2

Most guys do not have the balls to approach average looking women OR beautiful women, and all their opinions about game are just shit they assume would be true.
/r/seduction16/06/26 03:55 PM
-7

"Thank you for thinking other girls like me. You are the only one." EDIT: Looks like most of the dudes here are too insecure to make a self-deprecating joke.
/r/seduction16/06/26 03:40 PM
1

You are completely changing the subject. The point I was trying to make is that most strippers have terrible game, and the "game" part of what they do is a major reason strippers quit stripping. Going to a strip club to learn "game" from strippers is objectively stupid, especially considering that their "game" is very different from what men would do.
/r/seduction16/06/26 03:37 PM
0

The worst thing a guy can do is be a serial killer that eats his victims. So yes, this is not the worst thing a guy can do. But it is still much worse than just practicing game on real girls who aren't working.
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:21 AM
0

I'm good. I know more strippers, and have fucked more strippers, than you ever will. Most of the girls who quit stripping quit because they hate the talking part. Just because you do something a lot doesn't mean you will be good at. There are guys that spend 10 years on this subreddit and approach thousands of girls and still suck.
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:15 AM
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This is the stupidest thing I have ever fucking read. The best way to learn game is to actually practice game, not go to a strip club and harass some poor woman who is trying to make money. You are only going to strip clubs because you are too big of a pussy to approach women on their own and you want them to approach. Also, it is fucked up to the dancers to go in their and try to take their time without paying them anything. At best, you are being unethical and at worst you will get your fuckin…
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:13 PM
1

I agree that small talk is stupid and counterproductive. Your goal is to find a topic that both you and her enjoy talking about. If you just met somebody, you have no idea what they would enjoy talking about, so you ask broad questions until you find something you both enjoy. "How was your day?" "How is your life going?" "How did you end up here?"
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:56 PM
4

Being needy and pushy are extremely unattractive to women and make you look desperate and low value. Women want to chase men, not be chased, and they often prefer a challenging loser to an objectively better guy who is not a challenge.
/r/seduction14/06/26 04:26 PM
1

1) A lot of girls like girls, 2) A lot of girls are cucks (they like seeing their man fuck another girl), 3) A lot of girls want to make their man happy, 4) It's just a crazy experience.
/r/seduction13/06/26 07:16 PM
1

Sounds like you know the answer - go put yourself in environments that you can meet women. And stop thinking about yourself. All thinking about yourself is bad.
/r/seduction12/06/26 05:22 PM
2

Don't do it. Trying to play games and manipulate girls almost always blows up in your face. If you need to do this shit to get a girl that means the girl doesn't like you. Girls DO get attracted when they see you with other girls, but they also have a spidey sense and can tell when youve set up a situation to make them jealous and that's no bueno.
/r/seduction12/06/26 05:08 PM
1

No you don't need to wait for an invitation to approach a woman. You just go do it anyway. Women rarely signal they want to be approached.
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:10 PM
2

You already burned this bridge by being a whiny bitch. Whether or not you want to, you need to move on.
/r/seduction11/06/26 06:02 PM
4

There is no "risk" you fucking nerd. Just say whatever genuine compliment pops into your head. You are overthinking this.
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:56 PM
7

Who the fuck cares about any of this shit? Just fuck whoever you think is attractive.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:18 PM
2

Stop thinking about yourself and where you stand with women. Just think about the moment and how much fun you are having.
/r/seduction08/06/26 07:54 PM
9

There are no magic tricks to get a girl to come to your house on a first date. She just wants to fuck you, and that happens if she is having a good time, she is attracted to you, you make her comfortable, etc. Also, you shouldn't be trying to fuck girls on a first date. You should just focus on having fun and let the girl push the action. If she wants to fuck you, great. If she just wants to make out, great. If she doesn't want to do anything, great. If a girl feels like you are trying to get he…
/r/seduction07/06/26 10:44 PM
3

It's so fucking annoying that whenever a man has a failure in cold approach or on a dating app he wants to blame society and generalize all women. No dude, you just suck at approaching. Get better at it.
/r/seduction07/06/26 08:23 PM
1

My go-to is "ok." And then I move on to all the other girls I have available to me.
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:29 PM
1

You don't need wingmen. In fact, wingmen are more often a negative than a positive.
/r/seduction04/06/26 12:13 AM
2

Women don't care about your job. They care about what ADVENTURE you are on with your life. Women would rather be with a loser living on a couch that is trying to take over the world than a billionaire who just sits and watches TV all day. If your job sucks, that's fine, but you should be doing something to fix that. Are you in school? Do you have a side business? Do you have some kind of hobby you are hoping will turn lucrative? What are you doing to improve your lot in life? If you have a shitt…
/r/seduction03/06/26 02:17 AM
2

I'm not gonna sit here and argue with internet wankers that are not actually approaching girls. If you think hot girls are harder to approach than ugly girls, then keep thinking that.
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:00 PM
6

There is no such thing as a 10. Any man who calls a woman a "10" is putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction02/06/26 01:24 PM
1

You're the one without a clue. Everybody who has spent any time approaching women will tell you that it is easier to approach super-attractive women than ugly or mediocre women. That's just a fact of life.
/r/seduction02/06/26 01:24 PM
1

I'm not talking about less neurotic in life in general, but when it comes to meeting random guys. A super hot girl knows that when a random guy approaches her, things are going to go much better than if a random guy approached an ugly girl.
/r/seduction02/06/26 01:23 PM
1

Dude I'm talking about real life, not some comedy video some fat loser made on the internet. Also, being willing to meet and hang out with random men IS crazy.
/r/seduction02/06/26 01:22 PM
86

Super hot women are generally much easier to approach than ugly or mediocre women. Simply put, they are more confident, less neurotic, and are more likely to think you are being honest when you are being nice to them.
/r/seduction02/06/26 04:21 AM
1

This isn't just one girl; this is many girls. Also, even if you aren't a girl's type, she won't immediately reject you unless you are being pushy and creepy. Most girls appreciate an approach, a compliment, and a fun conversation, even if it is from a guy they would not want to have sex with.
/r/seduction01/06/26 09:07 PM
10

No lol. He is just a fun, joyous guy. That is the vibe you need to have, by the way, to be good at pickup. Guys who are laser focused on the girl and can't talk to anybody else come off as creepy and stalkery.
/r/seduction01/06/26 09:05 PM
1

Where are you getting this from? Did somebody tell you that you sound too polite or is this just in your head?
/r/seduction01/06/26 06:10 PM
2

You are not approaching right. If a girl has to tell you she's taken that means you are already coming on too strong. You need the interaction to develop organically rather than you "hitting" on her.
/r/seduction01/06/26 06:10 PM
-5

Why the fuck would you be afraid to go into a strip club?
/r/seduction01/06/26 06:09 PM
1

Ok you don't need to get hung up on words, it's about the concept. Also, thinking in terms of "DHV" is lame. A man should not be "demonstrating" anything to women.
/r/seduction01/06/26 02:36 PM
19

No not really. I wasn't trying to talk to him. He literally offered the drink just cuz he came and sat next to me.
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:30 AM
82

Dennis Rodman was attractive for 2 reasons (aside from being rich, famous, and a great basketball player) First, he was a "bad boy" and by that I meant that he had the balls to do edge, out-of-bounds thing that most men or women are too scared to do. Coloring his hair, wearing a wedding dress, acting crazy. Most people, especially women, are scared shitless of doing these things, but the fact that Dennis Rodman had the balls to do them made him attractive. That is fundamentally why women like ba…
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:53 AM
31

The key is to focus on having fun and enjoying the interaction without thinking about yourself. Most men suck at social interactions because they are too in their own head about themselves - does this person like me, what if I am acting weird, what should I say to look cool, etc. Another mistake men make is being selfish in social situations - they use the interaction as a way to make themselves feel better about themselves by bragging, putting other people down, trauma dumping, etc. In a social…
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:49 PM
2

Just give a compliment with no expectation of return. Just walk up to a girl and say "I like your [whatever]" and then keep walking. That way, the approach is a win-win. If she wants to keep talking to you, great, and if not, well, you just gave a nice compliment.
/r/seduction29/05/26 07:57 PM
1

You have brain rot. You are focused way too much on getting laid, which means you are probably coming off as desperate, needy, and pushy.
/r/seduction27/05/26 01:18 PM
1

There is no such thing as a "quick lay." That is some bullshit pick up artist scammers say to get guys to buy their programs. I mean, quick lays are possible, but the girl is usually a nutcase and was planning on fucking the first guy she was anyway. To get laid, you need to spend at least 2 hours with them usually. Have you ever had a "quick lay"? Probably not.
/r/seduction26/05/26 04:05 AM
1

I don't care what city you are in, that is just a stupid, weaksauce thing to say. I bet you have approached less than 10 women in your city.
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:27 AM
1

trying to meet girls on Instagram is a waste of time. Go meet people in person.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:17 AM
-3

Don't just walk up to girls and start dancing. That is weird, creepy, and unsettling for women. Instead, walk up to them, look them in the eye, and introduce yourself like a fucking human being. You can even give a compliment. You then ask if you can dance with them.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:16 AM
7

Go to these places: Union Pool, House of Yes, Melody's (for an older crowd). Look up some club promoters and tell them you will pay $150 to be a part of their table for the night. A different night go to a rave in Brooklyn. You can find Raves in the Resident Advisor app. For daygame, SoHo, East Village, or Times Square. Also have c$ke.
/r/seduction21/05/26 11:39 PM
1

Dont think about it. The more you think, the more you will find excuses to not do it. Just do it. That's literally the only way. Also, having an approach that is not needy helps. A lot of guys are scared to approach because deep down they know the are being needy or desperate. If you just start by saying "I'm going to just compliment her and move on" you will be much more motivated to do it. Worst case scenario, she says thanks but does not show interest.
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:19 PM
20

Hard disagree. Compliments are great so long as 1) they are genuine and meaningful, and 2) you are not obviously complimenting them to get something. If you are complimenting them to manipulate them, then yes, it's bad.
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:18 PM
1

What are you contributing to this subreddit?
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:25 PM
1

I am not interested in helping anybody who is too lazy and/or stupid to read until the end of the sentence.
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:23 PM
1

First, don't ever call any girl a 10. A 10 means she is perfect, and nobody is perfect. Calling a girl a 10 is basically a way of putting her on a pedestal. Second, adding her on instagram after you were too much of a bitch to talk to her in person is a creepy stalker weirdo move. Just approach her when you see her in person and make some kind of excuse as to why you never approached her before (I had a girlfriend, etc.)
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:30 AM
23

Don't do it. Threesomes like the one you are talking about almost always end up in the girl getting jealous. Are you going to be ok with watching your boyfriend having passionate sex with another woman? The only time threesomes work is if it is 3 people who have no connection to each other.
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:27 AM
2

I'm literally trying to argue that looks don't matter as much as people say, and now you are arguing with me about how looks don't matter as much as people say. Make it make sense.
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:12 AM
14

Looks are obviously not completely subjective, and a short, balding, fat man will have a much harder time than a tall, in-shape guy with luxurious hair. But yes, game is a lot more powerful than most people thing.
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:15 AM
4

I actually have an answer to this. this is from the book I am working on: Every time an attractive man gives advice about how to succeed with women, some loser comes out of the woodwork and shrieks “Easy for you to say bro, you’re good looking. That doesn’t work for us ugly guys.” My response to that? The losers are right. Women are not interested in unattractive men. If you are short, ugly, too skinny, too fat, have fucked up teeth, have a terrible haircut, smell bad, dress like shit, or fart a…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/26 11:08 PM
1

The problem with the looksmaxxers and the black pill are the problem that most guys have with seduction, which is this: Becoming attractive to women is very, very hard because it requires a man to live a fun, healthy life and be intelligent, emotionally stable, interesting, worldly, and have confidence, social skills, and so forth. That is too hard for most men to want to accept, so they try to boil it down to one simple variable they can obsess about, like looks, or money, or lamborghinis, and …
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:53 PM
1

Delete this mods
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:50 PM
1

To be honest, 22 is still too young for me. Realistically, I probably can't do anything less than like 27 or 28 now. The reason I chose 22 is that "age" is much less important than "life stage." A 30 year old woman and a 35 year old woman are not that different, but an 18 year old and a 23 year old are completely different. An 18 year old's only life experience is high school, whereas a 25 year old has completed college, worked a real job, lived in the real world, etc. That's why I say that any …
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:49 PM
1

Dawg this entire thread is anecdotes.
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:47 PM
9

Yeah I'm sure the 18 year olds you are dating are the special, mature, intelligent ones. Fuck off lol.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:33 AM
1

It's not a "good sign" that a girl that ghosted you for a few weeks randomly texted you on a Monday. She texted you during the most boring, nothing-is-going-on time of the week because she wanted attention and like a moron, you gave it to her. And then when she got what she wanted, she went back to ignoring you. I'm not sure what you are excited about. If a girl does not respond to your texts, why would you respond to her texts? She is using you. If you DID want to respond, you should respond by…
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:32 AM
17

This is a stupid post. There are plenty of 30+ women that are not fat and disgusting. It is stupid to generalize an entire age category because of a few people you went to high school with. And yes, it IS weird for a 30+ year old man to date an 18 year old. A 30+ year old man has exactly 0 in common with a girl who just graduated high school and doesn't know shit about the real world. 18 year olds are fucking retarded and any self-respecting guy would want to want to slit his wrists after talkin…
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:26 AM
1

Don't think about the competition or yourself for that matter. Just focus on enjoying the moment.
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:13 PM
15

This is the right answer. Not texting makes you look like an asshole.
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:09 PM
1

What does chopped mean? I'm sorry, I don't know Gen Z slang
/r/TheRedPill17/05/26 02:40 PM
0

Oh sorry - those are my traits for attractive guys (Challenge, Abundance, Boundaries, Confidence/Competence, Attention, Reciprocity, Domination)
/r/TheRedPill16/05/26 10:49 PM
1

Nice, welcome back
/r/TheRedPill15/05/26 09:19 PM
0

Are you in New York City?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/26 11:06 PM
1

No small talk is not attractive. Girls want fun, passionate conversations, not boring conversations about boring shit. Also, you shouldn't be having small talk over text. You shouldn't be texting girls period. Meet with them in person.
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:50 PM
2

No that's absolutely not what I'm saying at all. Plenty of guys would WANT to go out and party with hot girls on a weeknight. You have to say no even if you want to do it because your mission and purposes come over girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/26 06:49 PM
0

Then why are you wasting your time chatting with her? Have you had sex with her? If not, go meet girls in your own city.
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:40 PM
1

1- Don't be creepy and pushy, 2- Talk to everyone in the group and make friends with the friends, 3- The second you feel the friends turning on you, move on
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:01 PM
4

Why do guys feel the need to "chat" with girls online? Get their number and meet with them in person. Not only do you not need to small talk, small talk is BAD.
/r/seduction13/05/26 01:59 PM
6

Women are different than men dude. Women "like" a lot of guys, but they only emotionally invest in one guy at a time, and if you are not that guy, you are always going to get the short end of the stick. Women like attention, even from guys they are not emotionally invested in, and they will do anything they can to get attention, even if it means making out with them.
/r/seduction11/05/26 08:30 PM
4

Women definitely get baby trapped sometimes. If the guy is a big enough of a loser, he will try to baby trap the girl.
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:10 PM
6

She's not into you. Move on. She is just using you for attention. Also, stop trying to fuck people at work.
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:10 PM
9

I'm glad you brought up this point, and I am going to address it in the book. If it were me, the answer is still no. First, those girls have not done enough to merit being invited to my house. I don't know them and I don't trust them. Second, there is no guaranteed sex. Lots of girls wanna come and just hang out and might not fuck you. Third, even if it was guaranteed sex, the answer is STILL NO, because I have to work the next day, and if I fuck the girl I will be up all night. To a man that ca…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/26 07:09 PM
1

“This isn’t going well, is it? I know I suck at this.” That's actually a pretty confident thing to say because it shows you don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:43 PM
1

That approach was dogshit. You can't go straight to asking for a phone number. It looks desperate, needy, and honestly a little predatory. You need to build up a rapport first. I generally don't ever even ask girls for their number. If a girl likes you, she will ask you to take her number.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:38 PM
1

I bet $1,000 OP has approached less than 10 women in his life. This is something only losers who are too scared to actually approach say.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:37 PM
1

No women aren't visual creatures like men. Women want romance, excitement, adventure - not a picture of your saggy balls and tiny dick.
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:18 PM
0

Do both. Go somewhere hot girls go. If you want a conversation starter, just compliment something unique they are wearing and then walk away. If they want to talk to you, they will make that clear.
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:18 AM
7

I love lots of girl friends that I will never have sex with, and I tell them they look good and are hot all the time. "Wow, that dress looks good on you." Shit like that. As for sexual jokes, the best sexual jokes subtly communicate that you want to fuck her, but don't put any pressure on her if she's not into it. A good joke is one that subtly disqualifies her - like you can say something like "everyone here probably thinks we're a couple, but they have no idea that we are completely incompatib…
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:08 AM
64

The way to do it is to go out, have a fun time, and slowly escalate if she's into it. You start by making sexual jokes, telling her she's hot, touching her, dancing, etc. But if you start fucking your friends, they will stop being your friends. FWB relationships are rarely stable because one party usually falls for the other, and once that happens then the friendship cannot be salvaged. Also, a lot of FWB relationships are emotional blackmail - the girl often wants to be boyfriend-girlfriend, an…
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:00 AM
98

Light some candles, put on some chill house music, and have a fun conversation about something that isn't hooking up. And then when the conversation hits an emotional peak, make a move.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:49 AM
6

Stop thinking about it. Yes, women prefer taller guys. But thinking about how you're short and not good enough will destroy your confidence and cause women to reject you. You need to never think about yourself around women, period. Just focus on enjoying the moment and her.
/r/seduction29/04/26 06:21 AM
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The key to getting a girl on a date isn't about knowing the perfect pickup line to ask her out. That's actually extremely stupid. Rather, the key to getting a girl on a date is building enough rapport with her so that she cares about seeing you again. Hot girls are constantly meeting guys and giving their numbers to guy, and the next day they literally don't remember who most of the guys that are texting them even were. You need to have a long interaction with a woman for her to want to hang out…
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:19 PM
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"Let's catchup sometime" is a horrible thing to text. You need to take the lead, pick a time and place. Saying "Let's catchup sometime" means you cannot lead, have no direction, and have no plans. It is poison to women. Say, "I'm going to X on Tuesday. Are you free to come?" Or some shit like that. Also, you should not be becoming text buddies with women. You should quickly invite them out for a date. These girls are using you for attention.
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:54 PM
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Game is 99% mental. You can study pick up lines and routines, but the real challenge is overcoming the idea that "super hot" girls don't like you. The reason you fail with "super hot" girls is because you think of them in your mind as "super hot" and therefore in some other category that you cannot achieve.
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:40 PM
1

Who said its supposed to be easy? You're being too needy.
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:47 PM
1

You are probably acting weird and needy because you are in your head about being at a bar. A bar is not a magical place. It's just a place like any other place.
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:17 AM
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Anybody generalizing the entire earth into pre-covid and post-covid is stupid
/r/seduction14/04/26 02:13 AM
1

Most dating coaches are losers that never got laid. I can tell because I watch their content and their advice usually sucks. It is often what a beta loser with a little bit of experience would say.
/r/seduction14/04/26 02:12 AM
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What is the point of this thread? If your game is good you can do good anywhere, if it sucks you will suck everywhere.
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:34 AM
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this is not true. This is cope for guys to not work on their game. The thinking is "women only care if you are hot, tall, or rich, and I am not those things, so why even bother." This is loser thinking. The reality is that lots of tall, hot, rich guys fail with women because their game and personality sucks. And lots of mediocre guys succeed with women because they have good games. Stop making excuses.
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:04 PM
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You are approaching this completely wrong. Meeting girls isn't about deploying stupid tricks like saying "Is it pink." It is about becoming a grounded, fun, charming person who can carry a conversation and have a fun time without looking desperate, needy, overbearing, etc. Once you do that, you can pick up girls anywhere. But if you see pick up as reading a manual where you tips and tricks, then yes, it will only work in certain situations.
/r/seduction10/04/26 03:02 PM
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You're exactly right. That is the big problem with this subreddit. Most of it is not based on real experience, but what they "think" is the case, and those are often completely different things.
/r/seduction05/04/26 10:50 PM
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You need to figure out why you hate socializing. You are probably dealing with some trauma from your childhood and social anxiety. There is no way to emotionally connect with people, make friends, or have a relationship with a woman if you can't socialize with them.
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:23 PM
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This is 100% not true. Tons of attractive guys get blown out in the club because they act awkward, weird, needy, creepy, etc. Club game is about bringing insane positivity, fun, and energy to the interaction.
/r/seduction05/04/26 06:06 PM
16

You're obviously leaving out a major part of the story. Lemme guess? After 2 years of being "friends" you randomly told her you like her and want to fuck her?
/r/seduction05/04/26 10:36 AM
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I can tell you exactly what you did wrong. You fixated on this other guy and started comparing yourself to him. When you approached girls, you did it with the subconscious feeling that you are not as good as the other guy, which made you approach like a loser and a weak bitch. If you had never met that guy, you would have been fine. It's all in your head.
/r/seduction05/04/26 10:35 AM
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The best way to learn seduction is to do the thing guys on the subreddit want to do the least - go actually talk to girls. Jesus Fucking Christ.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:08 PM
1

Why delete her number? That's butthurt and weaksauce. Just move on.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:16 PM
3

Ok well you need to stop trying to fuck girls at work and approach random girls. Even if you wanted to marry this girl, which you do not, you need to appraoch her from a place of power and strength rather than patheticness.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:30 AM
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These number ratings (5, 6, 7, 8, 9) are all in your head. You think you are "good enough" for some girls (the girls you classify as 5 and 6) and you act one way around those girls, and then you decide you are not good enough for other girls (7, 8, 9). That's why you fail around them. It is all in your head. Treat the 8s and 9s the same way you would treat the 5s and 6s.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:04 AM
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You've decided you want to marry her after knowing her 2 months? Come on man, you're being needy and desperate. Have you even had a real conversation with her?
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:02 AM
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How long have you known her?
/r/seduction31/03/26 04:13 AM
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STOP TRYING TO FUCK GIRLS AT WORK. Go outside and approach girls.
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:53 AM
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No you don't have to lie to yourself. You should think and act as if you are the shit. Nobody is 100% the shit, but you have plenty of time to think about that stuff during the day when you are not around women. When you are around women, you must act like you are the shit. Thinking about your weaknesses and insecurities will lead to immediate rejection.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:53 PM
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When you are around women, you should think that you are the hottest guy in the world, every girl would be lucky to have you, you can get any girl you want, none of the rules of the "modern dating world" apply to you, you do whatever you want, girls should beg to be in your presence, and you make the rules. Anything else is being a little bitch.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:47 PM
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> It's kind of a glaring oversight to ignore that the current dating landscape is essentially a cutthroat Machiavellian chess game of lies, deception, manipulation, half truths, and betrayal. If you think of dating like this you are basically shooting yourself in the foot before you can even get on the playing field. You will come into interactions bitter, angry, and looking for problems. Don't think like this. > Even ignoring the baseline eugenic level standards the average woman has, you basic…
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:16 PM
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Hi random feminist. Don't waste your time here. Nobody agrees with you, you're not convincing anybody, your bullshit doesn't work here. Bye.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/26 02:48 AM
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If she's not sleeping with you, that means she doesn't want to sleep with you. It sounds like you are being too pushy with her. If a woman wants to have sex with you, she will make it clear.
/r/seduction29/03/26 04:02 PM
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Womens' sexual desire is actually very complicated. If it was simple, you wouldn't see so many guys having trouble with women. And yes, different women want different things, but there are some desires that all women have in common. Different people like different foods, but all humans like food.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/26 04:02 PM
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It's not a binary between "be a little bitch and instantly fall in love" and "being a stone hearted emotionaless robot." The better way to do it is only emotionally invest at the same time that the woman is emotionally investing. In other words, emotional investment should be a slow, organic process where you guys mutually become emotional about each other at the same pace, not one where you overfixate on her when she doesn't even know your name. To slow down your emotional investment process, y…
/r/seduction28/03/26 08:15 PM
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Having a "backup plan" when you are in a relationship is weaksauce and insecure. Either dump her and move on or fix the problem in the relationship. One of the most important thing both men and women need to learn is to know their value and be confident that they will eventually end up with somebody that is good for them.
/r/seduction28/03/26 09:06 AM
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Why are you wasting your time on somebody 19 hours away?
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:26 PM
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DM me, I'm a coach
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:27 AM
6

Sounds like you are way overthinking this and to be honest, you are coming off as a weird, obsessed stalker. You need to empty your brain of all this bullshit and just have a fun conversation.
/r/seduction23/03/26 03:03 PM
1

Fuck off with this shit and go meet girls in real life
/r/seduction23/03/26 02:15 AM
3

What do you mean you barely interacted? Did you approach them or not? how long did you talk to them?
/r/seduction23/03/26 02:15 AM
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How do you know so much about these women? It sounds like these were not random people you approached, but rather people you already knew. The obvious answer is that you are being too pushy and the woman were feeling pressured. Women are very sensitive to pressure, and the moment they feel like you are laying it on too thick, they reject you and move on.
/r/seduction23/03/26 02:03 AM
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Then you need to change yourself. who you are is not some fixed thing that was ordained by God the day you were born. People can change, and it seems like you have shitty personality traits you NEED to change. Arguing with people when you disagree with them is extremely off putting - it indicates that you are trying to control them and women fucking hate that.
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:33 PM
1

Start with a compliment
/r/seduction20/03/26 12:48 PM
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You know the answer: I think I need to create a comfortable, fun, light-hearted, positive environment, be silly, not take myself seriously and if I don't agree with them, I should just playfully tease them instead of sternly opposing them.
/r/seduction20/03/26 12:46 PM
1

Don't. Why do you want to do this? Just set up dates and sex her in real life. what the fuck is wrong with people
/r/seduction18/03/26 01:04 PM
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Yes, you are correct. I actually cover this in a different part of my book -- Ideally, your purposes are challenging, novel, valuable, important, emotionally stimulating, and fun. Theyshould either make money, change the world, or improve your life in some measurable way. Preferably your purposes do all these things. You can be awesome at memorizing all the characters in the Star Wars universe, but that will not want to make girls fuck you because that is an objectively worthless purpose. Sorry …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/26 10:47 AM
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You're not telling the whole story, but yes, if you get multiple nos from a woman you should move on.
/r/seduction18/03/26 03:45 AM
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No that's not necessarily the case. Some of these girls that later warmed up to me fell madly in love with me and chased me for years, even after I had moved cities, dumped them, etc. Many such cases. Womens' sexuality is different than mens'.
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:45 AM
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It's hard to tell what the problem is from your post. I can tell you that one thing that sucks about dating in your 30s and 40s is that a lot of women are damaged so there is a lot of shit testing, power dynamics, and so forth. You can't really control that and your best bet is to quickly filter those girls out. It also might be, however, that you aren't handling shit tests well. You might be looking for your dream girl, so you get overly miffed when a girl shit tests you. Even though the most d…
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:40 PM
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I completely disagree. Tons of women are turned off by guys at first and later get warmed up to them. In fact, it has happened to me tons of times. women are different than men. When a man sees a woman, he immediately knows whether he wants to have sex with her. Not women. Women look at a lot of different variables when determining whether they like a guy, and it often takes them time to decide. That said, it is true that some women just do not like you, and if that is the case you need to move …
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:36 PM
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Dude women emotionally invest differently than men. They resist, resist, resist, resist, and then they fall hard. And because they fall so hard they resist so much because once a woman is in love with you that's a wrap for her. I have had women fall in love with me and its not pretty. They basically become emotionally dependent on you and every little signal from you that you might not be interested in them feels like the end of the world. It takes a lot of time to make a woman fall in love with…
/r/seduction13/03/26 05:36 PM
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You shouldn't be having long text conversations in between dates. Texts are for logistics and to keep the person warm in between dates. It sounds like you are acting needy and repelling women. Also, a woman is not emotionally available or unavailable like it was some binary. All women are reluctant to form deep emotional connections with a guy they just make, and you need to play it carefully. You need to let the woman emotionally invest at her own pace rather than trying to push her along with …
/r/seduction13/03/26 05:04 PM
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Focus on having fun. Have a bunch of other places on the agenda so you can slowly take the lead throughout the night.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:39 PM
2

You think it's that crazy that a guy would go out with 7 chicks?
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:39 PM
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> That makes 0 sense. Why write it here if you’re not telling people to do it? If you couldn't tell, I was criticizing Ovid. Oh my gosh. The education system in this country needs work.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/26 02:07 AM
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Yes, that's Ovid said, not what I am telling people to do. That's how I know you didn't read. And your long diatribe didn't even address the main point I made which is proof you were just looking to get something completely unrelated off your chest. Well I hope you feel better.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/26 01:42 AM
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It is clear that you did not read the post and you are spewing out a pre-written diatribe that has nothing to do with what I actually wrote. Where did I even tell guys to be persistent? Where did I say anything about women rewarding you? You didn't read the post.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/26 01:35 AM
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You are not womens' therapist. If a woman starts trauma dumping on you like that, you should either change the subject or leave.
/r/seduction08/03/26 06:35 PM
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Dude, anybody that blows $2,400 in a strip club needs therapy and spiritual help. You need to go to church, not be out learning "seduction." You probably won't make a mistake this big again, but you are probably going to get burned for a lot of money over and over again. You clearly have a scarcity mentality. You are obsessed with status, looks, money, and girls, and you are letting your feelings of scarcity dominate your thoughts and emotions. You didn't even interact with real girls, but I can…
/r/seduction08/03/26 06:29 PM
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> Again, then why isn't talking at nausea to women about your hobby an effective pick up strategy? You are being purposely dense. For the millionth time, womens' desire for a man who pursues attractive purposes is an emotion, and you can't feed an emotion with talking. Also, sometimes talking about what you are passionate about is attractive. > It doesn't seem like these traits are disconnected, they are either directly traits that help a man become successful in the social hierarchy, or are pro…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/26 02:18 PM
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I think you're just not getting the point. Women evolved on the most primal level to be attracted to a man who can competently pursue an attractive purpose, which basically means hunting whatever he wants. They want this on a macro-level, which means they want a successful guy living a good life, but they want it on a micro-level too, which means that if they meet a guy in the bar they want to feel like the guy is on his way to somewhere cool and not just standing around. They want the feeling o…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/26 03:21 PM
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> Don't men also want to feel like they have helped their gfs? Don't friends want to feel like they have helped their friends? Don't parents want to feel like they have helped their children, and children like they have helped their parents? It seems to be a universal thing. Yes, people like to help. That's part of human nature. But the point I make in this book is that women will not emotionally connect with a man unless and until they enjoy some fun purpose WITH him. If you're a successful guy…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/26 05:27 AM
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I've noticed that most of the criticisms I am getting on this post are: 1) answered in other places in my book, and 2) guys mad that I am not phrasing things the exact way they would have phrased them. I address most of what you say in other parts of my book, but I will just address a few points: > Not really, if you have say a popular football player, his gf wouldn't be like "I'm contributing to my bf's success, I love it!", she would be like "I have a successful bf (I managed to get a successf…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/26 03:31 PM
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No I just really hate people that start their responses with "I didn't read the post, but...."
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:43 PM
1

It sounds like you are just making excuses to not go for it.
/r/seduction01/03/26 11:23 PM
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Don't hit on people that are at work unless they make very, very clear that they are romantically interested in you. They are literally being paid to be nice to you and can't leave, so taking advantage of a captive audience is fucked up.
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:50 PM
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Getting in shape is good, but don't let "being fat" be an excuse to not go approach. In fact, you should never be thinking about yourself at all when approaching women.
/r/seduction28/02/26 03:29 PM
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Why are you commenting if you haven't read the post? That's stupid. You don't even know what the post is about.
/r/seduction28/02/26 03:27 PM
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I disagree. Part of taking the lead is taking women on an adventure that they may not even know that they had wanted to go on.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/26 02:49 PM
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you probably shouldn't be hooking with random people. I think you need to date somebody for a while and get comfortable with them. Random hook ups can go wrong in lots of ways, and if you have weird traumas or insecurities they will just worse.
/r/seduction25/02/26 06:17 AM
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/r/TheRedPill25/02/26 04:46 AM
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I actually love 4Loko
/r/TheRedPill25/02/26 04:37 AM
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This is weaksauce beta male thinking. This is what men say when they become ATMs for girls that take all their money and then go fuck broke guys that actually get their pussy wet
/r/TheRedPill25/02/26 02:32 AM
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Women actually don't care about that shit. They care about how much fun they feel like they can have with you. Are you positive? Are you fun? Are you not overly focused on them? And so forth. If a woman cared about your life, she would ask. Stop trying to impress women with money and stuff. It doesn't work.
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:10 PM
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Yes, exactly. Women are attracted to men who feel like they have directed their attention elsewhere, and that elsewhere is to fun purposes.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/26 05:25 PM
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Dude you're the one that is afraid to leave the house and talk to girls in person. You can't call anybody cringe.
/r/seduction24/02/26 02:18 PM
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"I have a boyfriend" is a rejection. Either she really has a boyfriend, or she was feeling so much pressure from you that she lied and told you she had a boyfriend to make you go away. Either way, you need to move on. Chasing a girl who just told you she had a boyfriend is something a guy with scarcity would do.
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:19 AM
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I'm literally writing a book so I don't mind explaining exactly what I mean. Also, purpose is important even if it isn't fun. If I have a presentation at work the next day, and I tell the woman I can't stay out late because of the presentation, the woman will be turned on.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 10:39 PM
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Blocking girls is weak shit. You should have enough of a life that you never get so mad at a girl that you block her.
/r/seduction23/02/26 09:41 PM
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Go buy a hooker dude. This kind of desperation is like kryptonite to women. Calm the fuck down, take a cold shower, and act normal.
/r/seduction23/02/26 09:40 PM
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Again, this is just part of a book I am working on. Here is a different section that says what you say: -- From what I have said so far, game might seem easy: find a bunch of cool purposes to pursue, cultivate traits that show you can successfully pursue those purposes, and make sure women see you enjoy them. Sounds easy, right? Well, there is one giant complicating factor: Womens’ desire for a man who pursues attractive purposes is primarily a subconscious emotion that is the result of millions…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 06:56 PM
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Go meet girls in real life and stop doing this corny beta male shit
/r/seduction23/02/26 06:42 PM
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You are correct in all of this. This is part of a book I am writing, and I say what you say later in the chapter.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 06:41 PM
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You are overthinking this. Any kind of art or content creation is attractive to women.
/r/seduction23/02/26 01:52 AM
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Dude, it is not easy to get girls. I hate when guys say this. "Have high self esteem" "Create emotional engagement." You realize that is very hard for lots of guys, right? A major reason that most content about game sucks is that most guys cannot empathize with the struggles of other guys.
/r/seduction20/02/26 10:32 PM
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Guys that are too afraid to approach strangers target women at their workplace because those women already talk to them. It's the same reason guys target women who are working at Starbucks and stuff - those women have to be nice to them so those are the only women they have the balls to approach.
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:57 PM
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Then you need to learn how to talk to people in general, not just people who share your narrow band of interests. Everybody is interesting in their own way, and it's up to you to bring that out of them.
/r/seduction17/02/26 11:53 PM
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You shouldn't be "flirting" over text. Text is for making plans to go on a date and keeping her warm between dates. Text her and invite her out to something. If she says no, stop texting her.
/r/seduction17/02/26 04:36 AM
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Don't hit on girls who are working. They are captive audiences and they have to be nice to you. Don't do it. That said, you don't "build confidence." You just fucking do it. The more you think, the more you fuck yourself.
/r/seduction17/02/26 04:00 AM
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Stop thinking of it as "talking to women" as if they are some alien creature. Just focus on talking to them like you would talk to anybody else. Have a fun conversation. The most attractive you can do is genuinely have fun.
/r/seduction17/02/26 02:05 AM
1

Girls don't usually approach guys. You need to approach them.
/r/seduction13/02/26 12:09 AM
1

You are not trying hard enough. Also, just read what you are saying. Do you really think all good looking ladies have boyfriends? That's absurd.
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:43 PM
2

Have you tried (My guess is no)
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:36 PM
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Texting is for 2 things: 1) To set up dates, and 2) To keep her warm in between dates so she does not think you lost interest. Texting IS NOT for entertaining her, trying to build attraction, or being her text buddy, especially if she is not hanging out with you.
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:58 AM
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To continue... But there is an even deeper answer to the guys who say that game only works for attractive guys: Physical attractiveness is almost never the real problem. The problem is almost always mental. Guys often use their physical appearance as an excuse as to why they are terrible with women and why they refuse to learn game, but in over 10 years of coaching men in this space, I have literally never met a guy whose problem was that he was too ugly. Men frequently claim that the main thing…
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:56 AM
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You meet women the same way attractive men meet women. There are no special rules for ugly guys. You have to do the same thing. You will just get less success. Here is a blurb from my upcoming book on this exact question: --- Every time an attractive man gives advice about how to succeed with women, some loser comes out of the woodwork and shrieks “Easy for you to say bro, you’re good looking. That doesn’t work for us ugly guys.” My response to that? The losers are right. Women are not intereste…
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:56 AM
1

Why don't you want to cold approach?
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:56 AM
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26 isn't old at all. Also, there are bars where you can go that are more age-appropriate for you. Also, you should never think about anything like this before you approach women. You need to just go for it. Thinking about anything is poison.
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:38 AM
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Yes. But you need to know how to do it. Most guys are too scared to approach, and when they do approach, they don't spend enough time with her for her to care enough to hang out with him later.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:07 PM
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You are mixing up cold approach and one night stands. They are not the same thing.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:02 PM
1

Apps are a terrible way to meet women unless you have insanely good pictures. Approaching in person is much better. As for being Asian, the best advice I can give is to not look like the typical Asian guy. Become something different and fresh that doesn't fit into the stereotype of what she thinks an Asian guy is.
/r/seduction01/02/26 11:44 PM
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The fact that you are freaking out about this so much is just proving my point. You are way too girl crazy, you are way too emotionally invested in getting laid, and you need to take a break from women and just live your life. Women are just dessert, not the main course, but it is clear you are spending way too much time obsessing about women and tehri supposed problems. And guess what? Men are animals too.
/r/seduction29/01/26 08:01 PM
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There are 2 problems here: 1) Men emotionally invest much more quickly than women, which causes men to act needy, pushy, overly aggressive, overly interested, too serious, insecure, etc. Women take a long time before they start to have "feelings" and are ready to have sex, whereas men are usually ready to go right away. 2) A lot of women in the modern world are damaged from being taken advantage of for sex in the past, so they are reluctant to emotionally connect with any man, especially if the …
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:55 PM
1

You are too invested in this girl. The fact that you are freaking out over her taking long to respond means you care too much. Go focus on other things. If she texts you, great. If not, you should have other options in your life. The general rule is this: You reward her for whatever she does for you. If she texts you, you text her back. If she doesn't, you don't.
/r/seduction29/01/26 03:42 AM
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Having a deep relationship with one person is great, but both men and women have a tendency to emotionally overinvest when they think they have found the "one." When you emotionally overinvest, you put way too much of your thoughts and emotions into a woman when she does not care for you the same way. That is why pick-up artists teach that men should develop the skills to create options for themselves so that 1) don't emotionally overinvest when a girl likes them and 2) can quickly move on when …
/r/seduction29/01/26 03:41 AM
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Here's a newflash, brother. All women play games. It's in their DNA. Women evolved to test mens' fitness by presenting challenges to their frame and seeing how they react. If a man is going to buckle just because you talked about another man, then she will feel like you are weak and not worth following.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:30 PM
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No that's lame. That's butthurt shit. When a girl brings up another guy you just say "I don't want to hear about that shit" and then you only leave if she keeps talking about him.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:59 PM
1

Women are attracted to men who they feel like could survive in the wild and beat up their enemies. So whatever that is. In terms of physical attraction, professional fighters probably get the most attention from women. Giant bodybuilders cannot move their arms enough to wipe their own ass, and they clearly look insecure for doing that to themselves, so they are unattractive. But after a certain level of attractiveness, women stop caring what you look like. You need to focus on other aspects of y…
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:08 PM
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Avoid them. Why create headaches for yourself? The point of having abundance is to get women that make your life fun, not women that make your life shitty.
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:55 PM
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That's cope. Most women would want to fuck somebody like Drake; they are just not in that line because they can control their emotions.
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:54 AM
1

You are overthinking this shit way too much and you are being super needy and aggressive. You should just focus on having fun. Don't do anything at the end of the date that indicates you want to bring her back or even that you want to have another date. just focus on having fun. If the girl wants to fuck you she will do something to indicate that to you.
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:08 AM
1

What point are you trying to make? That girls don't want to fuck Drake?
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:33 AM
25

I'm writing a book and this is the first part of the first chapter. I'm looking for feedback.
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:33 AM
-4

Ok well like others have said, don't touch people until they have built up some emotional investment and you feel like they want to be touched.
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:14 AM
3

The first step is to stop thinking you are "behind." Unless you are mentally defective in some way, you know how to have a conversation, you know how to introduce yourself, and you know how to be charming, cool, friendly. Your only problem is that, in your head, you think there is something wrong with you. Here is what you do. Just walk up to any girls you think are attractive and compliment something about them. If they show you interest, just say "how was your day"? How was your day is enough …
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:10 AM
-3

Why do you care if it's "flirting" or not?
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:09 AM
2

The last thing you should be thinking about about when choosing a residency is where you are more likely to get laid. If you have game you can do well anywhere.
/r/seduction22/01/26 06:51 PM
89

Dude there are no girls here.
/r/seduction22/01/26 06:51 PM
3

There is no magical "minority game" that will cause you to succeed with women. The only things a minority should do differently are the following: 1) Don't let being a minority get into your head and affect your game. You should interact with every woman like you are the hottest, most appealing guy in the world. 2) Don't accept any kind of racism or shitty behavior from her because you are a minority. If a girl makes any kind of racist or otherwise disrespectful remark about your ethnicity/race/…
/r/seduction21/01/26 01:55 AM
3

A compliment. "Hey you guys all look amazing," and then give them individual compliments.
/r/seduction20/01/26 09:37 PM
1

Texting is just for logistics is wrong. It was originally a response to guys becoming text buddies with women and texting them all day and never getting dates. I think a more useful paradigm is "texting is for logistics and keeping the woman warm in between your hangouts so she doesn't feel like you forgot about her, lost interest, etc."
/r/TheRedPill20/01/26 09:36 PM
1

The worst thing you can TRY - try to impress her, try to be funny, try to look cool, try to be an "asshole," try to run game, etc. Instead, you should just have fun. Flirting is you saying "Hey, would you like to join me on this fun activity."
/r/seduction20/01/26 09:34 PM
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