Why are My Posts Getting Removed

Elbynerual · 2026-06-29T19:30:15+00:00

Wow, lot of comments dogpiling here.

READ THIS:

1) The mods here are not "anti-pickup". We're here for the love of the game, and to make sure knowledge gets spread in a healthy and safe way.

2) A lot of comments here complain that mods allow tons of posts that are against the rules while removing posts that have good information. This is pretty obviously not accurate. I don't think most of you realize just how many posts and comments come through this sub every day. It's a lot. When I open reddit, I don't just come to this sub and scroll it for hours looking for rule violations. No mods do that. Posts that come across our feed will get looked at, but a lot of stuff slips through the cracks. The majority of removals happen because someone took 5 seconds to report a post or comment that breaks a rule.

YOU SHOULD HELP REPORT THESE THINGS

Reports put a notification on my phone, and unless I'm swamped at work, I'll take a look at the post and if it breaks a rule I'll remove it.

Way, WAY too many posts that are against the rules slip right by because nobody reports them. Please help us and report that stuff as soon as you see it.

3) more specifically regarding this OP: I'm not sure why your posts were removed. What did the dm say when they were removed? This sub has filters in place to prevent a lot of incel and red pill bullshit, so sometimes it was an automod because you might have used a word or phrase that is too incel.

I went and reviewed your post history. Multiple posts have "advice" but nothing specific. "Build yourself up" doesn't help anyone improve their game. Sure, it might in the long run, but they need way more specific advice.

You have a LOT of comments that are just bragging about getting laid. It's a very r/ihavesex vibe. And while those weren't removed, one or two of your posts do go into stories about getting laid. This subreddit isn't for bragging about having sex. It's for giving specific advice about how to pick up women, or asking for advice.

Additionally, at least one of your posts tells people "dm me for proof" or receipts, or whatever. ANY posts that have the OP saying to dm them or "ask me anything" get removed because there's a rule for that.

Your advice shouldn't be kept secret, only to be shared with guys that dm you. This sub is for sharing, for free. If you have advice, just post it, or your post will get removed. If you have receipts just post them. But don't make it about you getting laid. Nobody cares about that. They care about all the specifics leading up to that.

I personally don't remember removing your posts, but it's likely I removed at least 2 that I can tell just by reading them again. Several of your posts were reported by people for being ads or spam. Not all of those were removed, but I can see why some were. If you invite people to dm you or directly contact you for help, it comes off as a "coach" trying to make sales, and we're definitely gonna remove that shit.

In summary, be more specific with your advice. Stop bragging about getting laid. Stop saying you're open for questions or DMs. Also, you're not the top poster with good advice here. There's like 3 others I can think of right off the top of my head, and I don't even recognize your username.

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-06-28T17:00:19+00:00

Yeah one of the mods is anti “pickup” and keeps deleting the good posts lol

United-Implement-382 · 2026-06-28T16:48:40+00:00

The mods remove all the good posts. I especially think it’s one mod in particular.

Matter_Still · 2026-06-28T20:07:26+00:00

Since several had the words "with consent" in them, I'd be interested in knowing what your definition of "consent" is. Not even Mark Manson gets that right.

Realwoujo · 2026-06-28T17:32:59+00:00

Yeah they randomly delete certain posts and don't tell you why.

EOE97 · 2026-06-28T16:45:42+00:00

Same, same

jsbach123 · 2026-06-28T20:50:20+00:00

I've been on this forum for almost ten years. A long time ago, this forum was awesome and moderation was very low.

But it seems a a few years ago, this forum got reported and stands at risk of being deleted entirely by Reddit. A victim of political correctness and wokeness.

It'd be nice to have a near unmoderated forum for guys and seduction. Go back to the old days when Reddit didn't exist.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2026-06-29T17:50:54+00:00

Cut the stupid bolding… start there

Osiris_Raphious · 2026-06-28T21:38:57+00:00

Its reddit wide... they are systemically repainting the history of posting. Old internet is going, and current internet is locking down and controlling posting to the point of not allowing the archive.org to archive the site or page, like media news sites are doing this.

As always the data privacy, wasnt for your security, it was for dmca and ip and copyright, and information control.

So now reddit is also purging posts for some reason. Or the posts were made by bots or something.

So many things could be goin on

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-06-28T20:50:03+00:00

Good posts are removed, this sub serves those who just post "there was a girl who smiled at me, what do I do". Despite the riles saying "No Posts about specific situations".

Also, despite this once being an amazing sub, the mods are now anti pickup.

But if you made a post saying "Men are brutes who should be genocided" it would stay up.

Basically, the mods are a bunch of incel cunts,

MettaKaruna100 · 2026-06-29T06:25:35+00:00

This is one of the most triggering topics for people on Earth. It's right up there with political views and religion. Picking up girls even in a first world country might even be a more controversial topic than religion

personal_cheezits · 2026-06-28T17:00:51+00:00

Looking at your post history you seem to keep posting the same content over and over with different wording. If I was a mod here I’d delete that, too.

Also, your advice is borderline cringe.

MushroomMo · 2026-06-28T21:17:43+00:00

Send me your posts directly

basafo · 2026-06-29T07:11:54+00:00

MODS, everyone: This is an ad. Keep reporting these types of users who try to disguise an ad as a normal post.

This is another one of those profiles trying to sell you a "service" and scam you.

Nobody wants your spam here. It's exhausting. Get out of here. Keep reporting, thanks.

Title	Why are My Posts Getting Removed
Author	ethicalhooping
Upvotes	0
Comments	63
Date	June 28, 2026 4:40 PM UTC (3 weeks ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1ui1zye/why_are_my_posts_getting_removed/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/why-are-my-posts-getting-removed.1583808 https://theredarchive.com/post/1583808

Comments

READ THIS:

YOU SHOULD HELP REPORT THESE THINGS