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| 4 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.They just told you how many BFs they had lol. I’m pretty sure their body counts would say the opposite. Women usually have more sexual partners than the average man. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Real talk how do you approach 10s in places with competition?He’s screwed. He’s already putting them on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Was this a drinks scam, did they lose interest, or did I just misread the situation?Everything you said is on point.💯 | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:54 AM |
| 16 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.This is true. Women have more experience dealing with men than men have dealing with women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 11:42 PM |
| 14 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Are the escorts included in that 175? | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 05:18 AM |
| 1 | People with extreme anxiety, how do you manage to cold approach?You have to learn how to embrace rejection. It’s gonna happen regardless. You can be the best looking guy, have a lot of money, etc. You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 11:51 PM |
| 0 | What’s it like smashing a big girl?He’s just smashing. It’s not like he’s trying to wife her. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 05:38 AM |
| 8 | What’s it like smashing a big girl?Smashing big girls is fun. If she gotta fat azz or big titties go for it. They give the best head. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 05:38 AM |
| 19 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?I just don’t get it. People put time into working out, advancing their careers, and other skills. But they don’t want to improve their skills when it comes to dating. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Update with co-workerSo she refused your proposition to go out and you offered her another date? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 11:59 AM |
| 38 | I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silentIt’s never yours. It’s just your turn. | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why were we programmed to believe that the women who played hard to get really liked us?Grape culture? Wdym by that? | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Why were we programmed to believe that the women who played hard to get really liked us?Yeah u gotta point | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Why were we programmed to believe that the women who played hard to get really liked us?You’re right, but art imitates life. Just because it’s entertainment doesn’t mean that you can’t find any truth in it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”Wow you really need to change your mindset. | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”My main goal is to just get better at approaching and talking to women in general. That’s all I really care about. Getting laid or getting a date is a bonus, if it happens cool and if it doesn’t I’m good either way. The outcome doesn’t define me, all I care about is me taking action to better myself. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”Yup I agree and the first approach is always the hardest. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”Being attached to the outcome of the interaction is seeking validation. When u don’t give af whether she rejects you or not is not seeking validation. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”What if no one is around to witness the rejection. Everyone else is in their own little world. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”What if no one else is around and it’s a 1 on 1 situation? | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”That’s my mindset too | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 11:08 PM |
| 2 | If looks are all that matterThat’s because looks aren’t the only thing that matters. Attraction consists of layers. Looks, personality, and a bunch of other shit you can’t see. Women do get turned on by looks, but not how we think they do. A woman can get turned on by the size of a man’s hands or some other random shit. You’d be surprised by what triggers a woman’s attraction. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm so done with cold approchesHow many cold approaches have you done this past year? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 01:42 PM |
| 1 | For God Sake: if she’s emotionally engaged and you’re are not willing for a serious relationship just stop and do not continue.Exactly. What is this guy talking about? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 03:07 AM |
| 56 | For God Sake: if she’s emotionally engaged and you’re are not willing for a serious relationship just stop and do not continue.As long as you’re clear with your intentions and your actions match up. Her getting caught up in her feelings is not your problem. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:45 PM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWhat you just said went over his head. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:49 PM |
| 3 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissDamn. That’s too much game for them. They aren’t ready to hear this.💯 | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:47 PM |
| 0 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWow. Ok. Well good luck with that 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 07:39 PM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWhat are your plans with this woman? Do you want something serious with her or something casual? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Field report #3 demoralized by humillation, hope it gets better in the next sessionBro take this shit down. You didn’t have their permission to film. And also your approach failed because you were seeking validation/approval from the group of women. You would’ve been better off greeting the whole group, seeing their reactions and then proceeding to single out the girl you were interested in. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?I definitely do. Most people aren’t monogamous by nature. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?I highly disagree with that. I think people both men and women are non monogamous by nature. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Field report 5 (approaches 25-31)Keep doing what you’re doing. I like seeing these field reports. It really lets you see how much it really is a numbers game out here. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How would you approach women in a gym if there were repeated eye contacts with them?Ok. I was gonna say that if women were complimenting you that’s a good sign to approach. Because women usually don’t compliment men, especially in the gym. I personally don’t approach women in the gym, because I’m usually too focused on my workouts. Someone else in here might have some tips for you though. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 4 | How would you approach women in a gym if there were repeated eye contacts with them?Are there any women complimenting you on how much you’ve improved? | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Getting Pussy is too hardDo you go out to bars/clubs and cold approach on a consistent basis? Do you use any online dating sites? | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 32 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglWtf are you seeking validation from women? You’re supposed to get validation from yourself…. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:37 PM |
| 1 | 'Looks-only' extremists are lying to you and to themselvesYou don’t even have to approach in extreme amounts. You could just approach 2-3 women a day and you would eventually get good results. Just based off of the numbers game and probability. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:41 PM |
| 2 | 'Looks-only' extremists are lying to you and to themselvesThe answer is consistency. The difference between guys who regularly gets results and the guy who doesn’t is that one is more consistent than the other. As long as you’re consistent, you’re gonna get results. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach?I’m not being facetious. You can work on everything, but you really have to change your mindset first. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Should I approach?You think attraction is all about looks, when it clearly isn’t. You also worry about creeping women out when you approach. You have the wrong mindset. You shouldn’t worry about that. If a woman appears disinterested when you approach, just move on. That’s her problem not yours. Prolonged eye contact could mean anything, it doesn’t necessarily mean that she is interested. You wouldn’t know that until you approach. You also think that women are out of your league because they are attractive. That … | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I approach?You’re cooked….. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:46 AM |
| 14 | Women are sum elseI would just move on. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Your cold approach success rate should be LOW!There ain’t no such thing as a league in my world. You can keep believing that though 💯 | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Reading this sub makes me over-think everythingNah I’m here for entertainment and I also give some advice. We’re not all here because we’re struggling. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this really how attraction and seduction work?Attraction and seduction are two different things. Attraction is instant and is made up of several different factors. Looks, personality, behavior, style, etc. A woman knows within the first few seconds-minutes if she is initially attracted to you during the interaction. Her words, actions, and how she responds will let you know if she’s attracted to you or not. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Another Field Report - FriI think you’re overthinking your approaches. A woman knows within the first few seconds-minutes if she’s interested or not. Your 6th interaction proves that. You simply said hey to the woman, she found you attractive and was open to having a conversation. The other women weren’t interested in you from the start, you played the numbers game and found the right woman. Good job. Keep doing your thing. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?Why don’t they understand this? | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 12:29 PM |
| 11 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?Quick question why do you specifically want casual situations with women in their 20s? There are a lot of hot women in their 30s and 40s who would be open for some fun. These are the women who just got outta LTRs or are divorced. You shouldn’t limit yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:45 PM |
| 3 | update: the guy who posted a few days ago about not coming off as creepy n allExactly finding the women who are attracted to you is the hard part. It’s take some work and consistency | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Field Report 4 (24 approaches all up)I’m curious as well | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What is your favorite piece of advice from Mr. Locario dating coach?I agree but there’s nothing wrong with getting advice every now and again. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:28 PM |
| 1 | A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating appsThis is what I do as well. I set up a date within 3-4 messages. This screens out the women who are just looking for attention versus the women who actually want to meet up. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?A trick I was taught was to put what you want to say to her in your notes app and pass her the phone. This could work for a woman who is stationary and wearing headphones or on her phone. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 41 | How to handle one sided investment and dead intimacyShe doesn’t like you. She’s using you for your time, attention and energy. It’s time to pack it up and walk away. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 08:03 AM |
| 8 | What's Your Thought Process Before Approaching a Stranger?Let me go talk to her and make her day. | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Never be afraid to shoot your shot….The only way that you would be known as a local creep is if you don’t have any social skills or any experience dealing with women. A creepy guy is a guy who keeps trying even after a woman says no through her words and actions. Those are the guys who like to push through resistance. I’m moving on after the first sign of disinterest. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Never be afraid to shoot your shot….I agree. I always tell guys to move on after the first sign of disinterest. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 09:37 PM |
| 9 | Never be afraid to shoot your shot….A big part of having game is not giving a fuck what other people think about you. Why should you care if you’re the talk of town? As long as you’re living your life like you want to. Why give af? If that does happen, you can just leave and move to another city | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?Have you talked to her one on one outside of the group? | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Flirting is NOT escalation!Please don’t recommend beginners to skip flirting. A lot of these guys are inexperienced and can’t tell the difference between a woman being friendly and a woman being sexually interested in them. They don’t even know the right steps to escalation. They’re gonna catch a case taking your advice. Your advice would only work for dudes with some kind of experience dealing with women. Beginners should focus on learning how to flirt first before doing what you recommend. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 04:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?Oh…. You think attraction is all about looks? | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 7 | How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?You can’t create attraction. Either it’s there or it’s not…. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….This isn’t even romotely true. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….That’s the key. You have to internally believe it in order for it to work. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….A woman only cares about what you want if she’s attracted to you and if it fits into her agenda. You can do all those things while being direct too. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….You’re supposed to treat all the women the same though. You’re basically putting younger women on the pedestal….. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….If you think attraction is all about looks and seduction doesn’t work I don’t know what to tell you….. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I totally agree with you. I’m just saying being direct will let you know if she’s attracted to you much quicker than being indirect. Another thing you have to realize is that attraction also has a window. You have to move efficiently to seize that window of opportunity. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….You’re very confused. You learn more about Game through trial and error. You learn through your successes and failures. You’re supposed to Mess up, so you can learn what works and what doesn’t work for you. Experience is the best teacher. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Exactly. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Bingo!!! All that matters is whether the woman is attracted to you or not. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Why not be direct with younger women too? You’re supposed to treat them all the same. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I agree. It’s the overall experience. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 07:00 AM |
| -1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I just said that being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time. Women don’t look at it as wasting time because they’re getting your time and attention in exchange for nothing. Those women on the dating app subs were never really highly interested in those guys and they were planning on using them anyway. It would’ve been a different experience if they actually were attracted to those guys. Women treat men differently. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Ok | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:55 AM |
| -5 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Wdym by more time wasting opportunities? Either a woman is interested in you or not. Being direct exposes her true intentions. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Are you a passport bro? | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Passport Bro | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 04:57 AM |
| 9 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?This is true. Women reject men for a myriad of reasons, but the main reason usually is that she thinks that she can do better than you. A woman who thinks that she can do better than you will never fully respect you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Exactly. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 09:48 PM |
| 7 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Of course women want guys to treat them with respect. What does that have to do with a woman wanting to be with a man who She thinks is better than her? That just means that she is highly attracted to him. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 07:03 PM |
| 27 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?No it wouldn’t. Women want guys who are either better than them or almost equal to them. A woman cant be attracted to a guy who she thinks she is better than. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?I’ve been told this same thing, but in a different way. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else in this sub have a stutter but still like cold approaching?Exactly. All this is accurate. Some of the techniques they taught me in speech therapy growing up only made it worse. Whenever I think about stuttering 9/10 I always end up stuttering. It’s crazy how that works. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else in this sub have a stutter but still like cold approaching?I have my fluent days and sometimes I have my bad days. I’m trying to learn how to control mine. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 8 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itYup. I’ve experienced this plenty of times. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | QuestionWhen I put on my favorite cologne/fragrance. | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 04:03 AM |
| 129 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itYou’re right. It’s not about the number, it’s about the cooperation. If a woman is giving you pushback on something insignificant like a number, what do you think is gonna happen when you try and set up a date? | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How do Tinder hookups work?This. I would never invite someone directly into my home. You should try to meet up in a public place beforehand. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 06:01 PM |
| 6 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomSo she was basically leading the whole interaction. She initiated by taking your hand. You were supposed to create the situation for the kiss to happen. You have to remember that women follow your lead. You also spent way too much time kissing. 30 minutes is waaaay too long to be kissing. Women will kiss you for validation and just to get more attention. You said you escalated, but you messed up during the escalation. It should be small talk, flirting, touching, then kissing. That’s the baseline… | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:28 AM |
| 2 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomOk good. Were you flirting and building sexual tension before the kiss? And how long did you guys kiss? | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:26 AM |
| 3 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomDid you do a dinner date? | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.Don’t forget that they could also reject you just because they’re having a bad day. You never really know the reason. That’s why you can’t take it personally. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.A lot of women are also used to getting hit on by guys they’re not interested in most of the time. So they automatically reject you due to a screening process they have. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Need some help with flirting and talkingI completely agree with you. Flirting is hard for a lot of people to put into action. I personally think that flirting is supposed to happen naturally. A lot of people just over complicate it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Need some help with flirting and talkingYou’re right. But if you talk to enough women and play the numbers game you would eventually figure out what works and what doesn’t work through trial and error. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Need some help with flirting and talkingHe’s doing the volume and he’s not afraid of rejection. Those are 2 major steps. He just needs to work on what he’s saying or doing during the interactions. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Need some help with flirting and talkingI disagree with this. Experience is the best teacher. It’s time for OP to find a coach or an experienced wing man. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Need some help with flirting and talking4k approaches in 2 years is the equivalent of approaching 5 women per day. The average guy with absolutely no game would smash at least 1 percent of the 4000 women. That would be 40 women in 2 years. That’s definitely possible. Even if you approach that many women you should be able to start picking up on things that you’re doing wrong and right. Op needs to find a coach or wingman who can tell him what he’s doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Need some help with flirting and talkingThis is more geared towards guys who are afraid to approach women in general or guys who have an immense fear of rejection. Approaching that many women in a short amount of time would improve your social skills and game tenfold. You would begin noticing certain patterns and behaviors of women. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Need some help with flirting and talkingDon’t listen to this black pill advice. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Need some help with flirting and talkingAnd People were shitting on my post when I said that guys should be approaching at least 50 women a week lol. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm losing it(Rant post)When you compliment women do you ever include yourself in the compliment? | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 07:14 AM |
| 3 | I'm losing it(Rant post)Do you always tell women “You look cute and had to say hi” when you approach? | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedI whole heartedly agree. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 02:48 AM |
| 22 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedThe mods remove all the good posts. I especially think it’s one mod in particular. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 11 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyGo away and go listen to your savior Clavicular. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | fellas, would you rather keep up the dry spell in hopes of something better or keeping fucking these 4-5s?What if the 4 or 5s think you’re a 4 or 5? | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What’s a good second date idea after a good first date?This. Always set the 2nd date at your place or her house. I’m not waiting 3 dates to test a woman’s sexual interest in me. We’re too grown for that shit. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so fucking entitled these days?Women are entitled because of men. Men have put women on the pedestal. If men and society would stop pedestaling women, it would change. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Insane sexual tension during a cold approach, but now I’m being left on requested on IG. What happened?Remember the main goal is cooperation/compliance not choosing signals or misread sexual signals!!! When you asked her for her number and she gave you the IG instead, what did that tell you? Actions speak louder than words. She was interested, but not highly interested. Cooperation/compliance is the highest form of interest. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 10 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowGood job Patel!!! | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 9 | My girlfriend mother a milf ?I’ll take things that didn’t happen in real life for 10,000 Alex! | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 12:05 AM |
| 6 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachIt really was when you think about it. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 11:51 PM |
| 17 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachYou’re making the mistake of listening to what women Say they want Versus what they actually want. When women say things, they usually speak in broad generalizations. Women still like the attention that they get when men approach, even if they aren’t attracted to the guy. They would still appreciate the attention/compliment. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 11:48 PM |
| 3 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachYou’re right the guys who followed their own program and didn’t listen to society kept approaching. Those are the guys who women are attracted to the most. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 11:45 PM |
| 70 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachThe problem is that women were complaining about being approached by guys who they weren’t attracted to. Everyone just assumed that they meant all guys when they said they didn’t want to be approached. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.You know that women like attention right? | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?Ok. Thanks for the clarification. He could gain a lot of experience in a short amount of time by going crazy with cold approach. If he approached at least 5 women a day he would gain a lot of experience in a year. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 04:42 PM |
| -3 | Case Study: You go to a grocery store and there's a woman looking confused there in one of the aisles.Me: Excuse me mam is there something I could help you with? Her: Yes I’m trying to find the sugar. Me: If you have a sweet tooth. Why don’t you try some chocolate? 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 43 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?I’m confused why is 32 too old to cold approach. Women in their late 20s-30s are still interested in dating. How else will you approach them? | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Was I too direct?Exactly. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Was I too direct?You weren’t too direct, that was just the wrong woman. Another woman might have been down with that. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 08:00 PM |
| 5 | If more people are meeting on dating apps but you don't make the cut, what should you do?Exactly. You have to get your reps in to see results. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 5 | If more people are meeting on dating apps but you don't make the cut, what should you do?What do you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 15 | If more people are meeting on dating apps but you don't make the cut, what should you do?It boggles my mind when people ask this question. Men have been approaching women for thousands and thousands of years, but within the past 10-15 years social media/society has made it a big issue. If you really would like to meet someone get dressed and go to places where you like to frequent or that you have an interest in and approach women. Keep doing that until you find women who are interested. You will learn alot about yourself by cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?This is my go to move. I usually do the same thing, when I’m in a club or a place with loud music. It definitely works more oftentimes than not. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 05:57 AM |
| 2 | I need some master helpIf a woman rejects you, move on. There is always another woman. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Almost never close the same night. What am I missing?What does your escalation routine look like? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Why tf are you all afraid of Rejection ?By accepting that rejection is a part of life. And that you can’t avoid it and it’ll always happen. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 03:54 AM |
| 10 | Friend and I used to go out and ask every girl at the club if they wanted to get out of there immediately, No? Next girl. Never failedYeah that’s pretty accurate. I’ve done the same thing rolling solo and pulled 1 outta 20. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | On a scale how would you describe…10 8 Always room for improvement. 8 Always room for improvement. 7 Always room for improvement. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 11:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you seduce/flirt as a shy woman?Flirting is nothing more than playful banter/teasing. That’s all it is. Don’t overthink it, let it happen naturally. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 11:00 PM |
| 3 | TONIGHT I WILL APPROACH 100 WOMEN ON THE STREET I PROMISE. I WILL KEEP YOU GUYS UPDATEDMy Nigga!!! Don’t listen to the negative comments, do your thing. Keep us posted and let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 10:59 PM |
| 15 | Why tf are you all afraid of Rejection ?It’s definitely an ego thing. When i feared rejection, I used to attach it to my ego. It’s crazy now that I think about it, but that was my mindset in the past. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 10:49 PM |
| 4 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Why are you taking her to dinner if it’s just casual? | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 05:45 PM |
| 5 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Exactly. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Field Report, women showing choosing signslsEvery time you respond. Im constantly reminded how much “Game” you don’t have. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 10:47 AM |
| 110 | Friend and I used to go out and ask every girl at the club if they wanted to get out of there immediately, No? Next girl. Never failedHow many women would you typically approach in one night before it worked? | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Field Report, women showing choosing signslsRemember the goal is not choosing signals. The ultimate goal is compliance/cooperation. You messed up by Following her and not leading. When you said let’s go outside and she said No I want another drink that was a shit test. You failed it by following her. I personally would have walked away and approached other women in the spot. You said that she led you guys out the spot, that’s where you messed up again. You let her lead from the beginning and end. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….Yes I at least approach 50 in person and I’ll do the rest online. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeI don’t think it’s obsession. You’re setting aside time to better yourself at a skill. I respect it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach has changed my lifeThat’s what I’m talking about. That’s dedication | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Shooting 1/8 from the field (28M)It personally took me about 100 approaches until I started noticing certain patterns. You’re doing the right thing by putting yourself out there. Keep doing what you’re doing. Once you keep approaching you’ll begin to notice certain signs whether a woman is interested or not. Rejections are gonna happen and you can’t avoid them no matter how much game you have or no matter how experienced you are. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 01:08 AM |
| 50 | Shooting 1/8 from the field (28M)Bro 1 out of 8 is actually pretty good, especially if you are just starting out. You have to separate yourself from the outcome. You’re not approaching women to get numbers, you’re approaching women to get better at it. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 11:38 PM |
| 2 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….My bad that was a typo. I meant to say 10 approaches in 30 minutes. I try to keep the interactions short between 2-3 minutes. That’s usually enough time to feel a woman out. I usually pretty much say the same thing to every woman, with a few tweaks. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….I usually try to approach at least 5-10 a day. I do it throughout the day. If I went to a designated area in my city, I could approach at least 10 women in 30 minutes. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?That’s the wrong mindset to have. You should always have the mindset of “Let me make this woman’s day by approaching her” That’s the way I think when I approach. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….I’m a 32 year old boomer. Take my advice young man. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 04:41 AM |
| 0 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….That’s not true. A majority of the women you approach won’t be interested in you no matter how attractive you are. You have to talk to alot of women to find the ones who really fuck with you. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….Yeah that’s a good idea if you plan on tricking | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:32 AM |
| 0 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….I approach at least 5-10 women per day and message between 5 women online. I most definitely am bud. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….I’m speaking for the average guy with no game. The average guy with no game would need to talk to at least 30-40 women to get laid. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:46 AM |
| -3 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….You only have to go after fuckable women. Every woman you talk to doesn’t have to be a 10. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:43 AM |
| -2 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….You don’t have to cold approach all the women though, you can literally go on dating apps and send the same messages to 100 women. Or you can approach 3 women per day and message the rest through dating apps. I’m just saying the guys who are complaining aren’t doing enough to get results. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?Every woman automatically assumes a man wants sex whenever they get approached. Also men will tell a woman she’s beautiful just to smash. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Kindda Disappointed, Getting some what numbers from the girls, but not any response.You’re already pretty much doing the right thing. You just have to feel them out. Her body language and her actions will let you know. You’re doing the right thing as far as approaching and letting your intentions be known. Just keep doing that and increase your numbers. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Kindda Disappointed, Getting some what numbers from the girls, but not any response.You can mix it up by doing online and cold approaching. I live in a city with 200-300k people. You can literally go to any supermarket, mall, bars, lounges, clubs, festivals, singles events, parks and talk to that many women. That’s not hard to do, depending on how big your city is. You can talk to 10 online and 5 in person. Bro it’s not hard to do. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 10:33 PM |
| -1 | Kindda Disappointed, Getting some what numbers from the girls, but not any response.Bro that’s your problem!!!! You’re not talking to enough women. You only talked to 300 women in 6 months. That’s nothing, you should be talking to at least 75-100 women a week. You only are talking to 10-12 women a week. You need to up your numbers. You got 30 out of 300 numbers. That’s not bad bro, those are actually pretty good numbers. You’re definitely not talking to enough women though. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Kindda Disappointed, Getting some what numbers from the girls, but not any response.You said that you got 30-50 numbers in the past 6 months. How many women have you approached in the past 6 months? | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?I never said that beautiful women don’t get approached, i said that beautiful women don’t get approached at the same frequency as average looking women. I believe that most women in general have some sort of self esteem issues growing up. A woman can hear she’s beautiful all day, but if she doesn’t internally believe it herself it won’t matter. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?I see your point, but you wouldn’t know if she was interested until you approached. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Kindda Disappointed, Getting some what numbers from the girls, but not any response.This!!! Are you making it known before you get the number that you would like to go on a date. I usually set up a date on the spot and only get the number if she confirms the date. I don’t even get the number if it seems like she isn’t interested. Women give out numbers all the time. A woman could be giving you her number just to get you out of her face. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 07:20 PM |
| 3 | The problem with most advice here is that knowledge isn't the bottleneck. It's motivation to actually act on what you know you should be doing. And most advice doesn't address how to generate motivation, or if it does, does so ineffectively. So most advice sucks. But, anyway, here's a new idea.I had very bad social anxiety growing up along with a severe stutter. If anyone can empathize with you, it would definitely be me. Even though I still stutter till this day, I push through it and still approach women. If I can approach women with a bad stutter, anyone can do it. Do you know how many times I’ve wished that I could talk normally so that I would say what I wanted to say effortlessly and approach more women? Do you know what it feels like to see a beautiful woman and want to approac… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:16 PM |
| 3 | The problem with most advice here is that knowledge isn't the bottleneck. It's motivation to actually act on what you know you should be doing. And most advice doesn't address how to generate motivation, or if it does, does so ineffectively. So most advice sucks. But, anyway, here's a new idea.Are people really out here relying on drugs to talk to women? Boy this is one of the craziest post I’ve seen on this sub…. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Deleting all dating appsWomen tend to be a bit pickier or apps than they are in person, due to the sheer amount of access they have to guys. The same women who swipe left on dating apps would be the same women who would date you in real life. Dating apps are just more of a numbers game than cold approaching. You have to spend at least half an hour to an hour swiping to see positive results. You also have to remember that some women use dating apps just for attention and have no intention of actually meeting up with you… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Woman approached me, got my snap, now after only a couple texts I’m left on delivered. Any way to comeback?Always remember that whenever a woman approaches you, she has an agenda. A woman can be approaching you for attention, sex, or other reasons. It’s always up to you as a man to lead the interaction into the direction that you want it to go. I would personally let it go. I don’t believe in double texting. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Forget To Get Your Reps In Today!!!She was interested in you bro. Women usually don’t start random conversations with men. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Forget To Get Your Reps In Today!!!Dating apps are a good alternative. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?We weren’t talking about online dating, we were talking about cold approach. A woman does have to have some sort of attraction to you, but to say someone has to be tall and good looking to have a chance is completely wrong. There are countless stories of guys who are average looking with average height who are successful at cold approaching women on here. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?Definitely not. You said something that made completely no sense. Cold approach should only be easy for those that are tall and handsome? So that means that average looking guys shouldn’t approach women. What if that woman thinks that average looking man is handsome. Looks are subjective. You have no clue what women are really attracted to. Just because a guy is tall and good looking, doesn’t mean a woman would be sexually attracted to him. Women see good looking guys all day and aren’t automati… | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?Please don’t listen to this guys advice. Comments like this should be banned. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 05:13 AM |
| 4 | IVE HAD ENOUGH! Can someone please teach me how to Text better?!You’re right. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:51 PM |
| 1 | If there's no way to actually date women who aren't attracted to you; aren't incels and looksmaxxers kinda... right? :|Attraction for women isn’t solely based off of looks. It’s a combination of different things. Women have dealt with a lot of good looking guys. Attraction is a combination of looks, personality, confidence, and etc. A woman can be sexually attracted to an average looking guy just because he is confident. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:49 PM |
| 3 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?My biggest 2 factors when I was afraid of approaching, used to be my stutter and my fear of rejection. I’m glad I pushed through it and stopped giving AF. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:36 PM |
| 3 | The “Dating Game” Is Simple When You Think About It…You’re overthinking it my guy. Just start off with a simple compliment about her, if it’s something unique that’s a good start. It can be her smile, her style, etc. Also remember that you can be sexual without being explicit. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 04:25 AM |
| 1 | The “Dating Game” Is Simple When You Think About It…In that example you gave, those women just weren’t attracted to you. It probably would’ve been a different outcome if you approached a different group of women. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The “Dating Game” Is Simple When You Think About It…There are ways around that. I usually hang out around the bar and wait for the women to come to the bar and get drinks. I also don’t mind approaching groups of women. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The “Dating Game” Is Simple When You Think About It…Yup | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I pass this shit testThis makes absolutely no sense. You do understand that women treat men differently based on their level of attraction right? We can meet the same woman and have 2 different experiences. A woman would never go along with a guy she isn’t truly attracted to. A woman can only play along for so long, until her true intentions come out. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I pass this shit testSo would you rather be her back up option or her first choice?🤔 | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How do I pass this shit testIt’s that simple. When a woman gives you a shit test, that means that she isn’t completely sure about you. I only deal with “Yes” women. I would just move on. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:18 PM |
| 3 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)This makes perfect sense. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Reconnecting with someone who initially rejected meYou don’t reconnect with someone who doesn’t really want you. Have some respect for yourself. I know you probably won’t listen, but if she’s down to link tonight, go through and smash. She might be saying she’s horny to get some more attention from you because she really doesn’t like you, there’s a very slim chance that she will actually sleep with you. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?This woman probably had medium interest in you not low interest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?Exactly. I only deal with the Yes girls. If it’s maybe or no I’m good to go. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?I just said that a woman has to have some sort of interest in you, in order for her to be seduced. Those undecided women are lower interest women. I don’t know why a guy would want to waste his time and seduce a woman with little interest. He could just spend that time and find a woman just as attractive as her with higher interest. A woman who absolutely has no interest in you can’t be seduced. You only really have to seduce women with low or medium interest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | I want y'all to describe your last date that went successfulExactly!!! | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 01:02 PM |
| 4 | I want y'all to describe your last date that went successfulWhen a woman likes you, she’ll make it easy for you. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 12:45 PM |
| 4 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?That’s a wild take. Seduction is absolutely real. You can’t pull every woman. You can just pull the women who are interested from the start. Seduction won’t work if a woman has absolutely no interest in you. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 12:12 PM |
| 11 | all men have the same problems?My main problem is not approaching enough women during the day. My goal is often at least 10 per day. It’s hard to find 10 women a day I’m actually attracted to. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 01:58 PM |
| 6 | why are we such perverts?You can tell when a guy isn’t very experienced dealing with women on a sexual level. Your post says a lot about your lack of experience. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 04:13 AM |
| 3 | MY FIRST POST EVER: Your “Girl Problems” Are Actually A “Problem Of Self” And An Inability To Enjoy Your Own Solitude.Yup it all starts with self | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with getting choosing signals from intimidating girls?The main problem that I see in OP’s post is that he doesn’t value himself. He keeps referring to his height and looks and doesn’t mention anything internally outside of that. If he doesn’t see the value in himself, why would women see it? | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with getting choosing signals from intimidating girls?Stop putting beautiful women on a pedestal. You think they are better than you simply because they look good or have clout. All of that shit is superficial and meaningless in the grand scheme of things. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate for a kissIt might not work for you because you can’t read women and you might be naturally creepy. I would’ve flirted with her first and seen if she was receptive to my touch before I say that. I know how to escalate through experience. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 11:25 AM |
| 7 | How to escalate for a kissI use a different variation of this. I usually say” I’ve been noticing the way you keep looking at me. I know you want to kiss me” | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I want to try going to a club but I have some questions..If you’re not comfortable going to the club don’t go. You can always go to bars or places with a laid back vibe. Go to the places where you’re comfortable going, so you can naturally be yourself. That’s why it’s important to know yourself, so you can put yourself in the best position. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 06:14 AM |
| 10 | Is everyone getting laid?Both online and through cold approach. My game/skill has gotten better as I’ve gotten older. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 08:18 AM |
| 17 | Is everyone getting laid?Speak for yourself. My 30s have been a better dating experience for me. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is it always "maybe" with girls.You keep running into the wrong women. It’s either a “Hell Yes” or a “No”. You just have to put yourself out there and talk to more women. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating and Last Minute CancellationsYou see this is why I move on when a woman flakes the first time and try’s to reschedule. Her interest level is already shaky, so why waste my time or her’s if she clearly isn’t really interested. People were shitting on my post yesterday when I said I unmatched a woman when she flaked and tried to reschedule. Let this post be an example of why you move on after the first flake. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | When You Experience Firsthand How Flaky and Fickle(Some Women) Are You’re Constantly Reminded Why It’s a Numbers GameNo she never gave me a reason why. When we first talked she said that she was free Thursday and Friday. She then flaked and said can we meet up Saturday. If she really wanted to meet up she would’ve have suggested Friday. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 05:16 PM |
| 2 | When You Experience Firsthand How Flaky and Fickle(Some Women) Are You’re Constantly Reminded Why It’s a Numbers GameNah I don’t deal with wishy washy women. When I first asked her when she was free she told me Thursday and Friday. We were supposed to Meet up Thursday, but she flaked. She suggested Saturday as an alternative. She was definitely playing games. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 10:00 AM |
| 2 | When You Experience Firsthand How Flaky and Fickle(Some Women) Are You’re Constantly Reminded Why It’s a Numbers GameYes it was a full flake and I’m gonna tell you why. When I first asked her when she was free she said Thursday and Friday. We were supposed to meet up Thursday, and she said we could do Saturday. If she really wanted to meet up, she would’ve wanted to meet up Friday. She was definitely playing games. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….Cold approach is always king. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….I’m not saying that you should approach 100 women a week. Most small towns also have surrounding towns or a bigger city somewhere near. I live in a city with only like 300k people. I hardly ever run into the same people. But I live 2 hours near a major city with like 500-600k people. I frequent the bigger city a few times a month and approach while I’m there. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….So women approach you all the time? | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….I agree. That would translate to 21 per week. Which would be a little over 1000 per year. A total beginner with little to no game would probably sleep with at least 10 women in a year. That’s definitely possible. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….Exactly. It doesn’t just have to be approaching in person, it can be a mixture of cold approach and dating apps. You just have to put yourself out there more frequently. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….It should be apart of your daily life/ routine. Just like working out, showering, and brushing your teeth. The more you do it, the easier it becomes. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….I hear what you’re saying, but this is geared towards guys who aren’t taking any action at all. A lot of these guys are still afraid to approach women. So they have to take action first before they can reach the level you are referring to. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….That’s the best way to go about it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Alot Of Guys On This Sub Have A Volume Problem….Everything you stated is straight facts. I’ve been known to do these things in the past as well. I would see a girl in a spot, and hesitate without taking the initiative to approach. I got past that by using the 3 second rule. I also use to get discouraged due to being rejected, I eventually got past my fear of rejection by exposing myself to it more. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | What to do if she cancels last minute and doesn't provide an alternative?Only give her a second chance if she hits you up first. Don’t take her out. She has to make it up for you for canceling. It’s either she takes you out and pays or she comes straight to your place. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 11:51 AM |
| 0 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Wow. That’s such an ignorant thing to say. Don’t forget that we have really feeble minded young people in this sub. They’ll see some shit like this and would be reckless sexually. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Can you be misogynist and successful with women at the same time?Yes it happens all the time. Women confuse a man putting himself first as a misogynist. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?I’m always nice to people in general. I’ve never walked away from a conversation mid sentence. I was just curious has anyone done it before. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?I don’t even know if I want to sleep with her yet. I’m thinking to myself maybe when I approach. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 07:01 PM |
| -1 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?None. I actually like women and being around them. I gave you a thumbs up for projecting.👍 | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?Good point | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | It makes me more nervous to approach if she's wearing short clothes.You’re right. I was joking. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 05:03 PM |
| 4 | It makes me more nervous to approach if she's wearing short clothes.Go to a strip club and practice talking to the women who work there. You’ll get rid of your nervousness is 1 day. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to get sexYes be direct. Just tell her how you really feel and tell her what you want to happen. Either she’s with it or she’s not. Either meet for drinks or coffee. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to get sexI’m gonna be honest with you. It might be too late, that ship might have sailed. If you wait too long to show your true intentions, it’s hard to turn it around. If you go for it you could risk ruining your friendship. It was obvious that she wanted more with you, but you were too afraid to make a move. But if you don’t mind potentially risking this friendship, you just have to say something like this. When you first see her say something along the lines of you look really good today. Scoop her u… | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to get sexNot flirting and being unclear with your intentions turns you into the nice guy. Do you play around or joke and tease your friends? It should be that same energy along with genuine compliments. Flirting is simple, don’t over complicate it. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to get sexStart off with a compliment and see how the woman reacts. Go back into some small talk and throw in another compliment and watch her response. The key is to watch her response to your flirting. If it’s a positive response move into some light touching/kino. Watch her response again. Always remember that flirting is mainly used to gauge a woman’s interest in you. Her Response to your flirting will tell you everything you need to know about her interest. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sYou’re welcome | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sYou’re good then. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sWhere are some places that you like to go for fun? Me personally I like going to open mic/poetry session events. I also like going to sports bars and music festivals. Those are places that interest me the most. A lot of women also frequent those places, so that’s a bonus. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 09:27 PM |
| 14 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sWork on your confidence/inner game. Start working out or focus on your hobbies. Indulge in things that you like to do. Then you want to work on your appearance. Always stay well groomed, find clothes that fit you well. Start working out, hit the gym. Go outside in the real world and get some experience. Exposure is the best experience. You have to put yourself out there. Women won’t just come knocking on your door. If you are shy/reserved and don’t like going outside to approach women, you can t… | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 09:15 PM |
| 11 | No idea how to get sexStart approaching women. It should be easy if you’re in college. Also Learn how to flirt. Basic compliments are a good start. Flirting is like the bridge to sex. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 06:49 PM |
| 44 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sWow. There is a lot of bad advice in this thread… | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy?It really is. Congrats to your boy for putting himself out there. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy?If your boy is chopped as well as autistic and has been getting good results from cold approaching he’s living proof it actually does work. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Is There Anyone Else Here Who Likes Going Out By Themselves?Outside Atlanta | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Have a girl thats super into me, but I need to know how to keep her like this.How many times have you seen this woman in the past week? And how many times have you smashed in the past week? | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 9 | Is There Anyone Else Here Who Likes Going Out By Themselves?I usually talk to random people at the bar. I pulled a bartender a few weeks ago, by striking up a conversation. A lot of people are usually open to conversation imo. I live in the south, so it might be different down here. | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 09:22 AM |
| 6 | how long should it take for a man to begin the second round?It depends on how attracted I am to the woman | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 09:17 AM |
| 0 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Wow. You’re so lost and you don’t even know it…. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How are some men so successful with hookups or casual relationships?That’s no true. Women have a specific type and also an open type as well. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Can someone give me tips on how to approach women at bars?This. Women often times notice guys way before they approach. By the time you approach her she’s made a whole assessment of you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Is there a ranking of US cities that are more open minded to large age gap relationships vs ones that are extremely judgmental about the idea of age gap relationships?Why do you want to specifically want to date women in their 20s? There are a lot of attractive women in their early 30s who wouldn’t have a problem dating older guys. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 12:22 AM |
| 0 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Women love you because they know you’re a sucker…. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:31 PM |
| -1 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Imagine spending 4+ hours on a date with a woman and thinking you’re winning just because you smash lol. 4 hours is like 4 dates. Keep tricking out your time and energy to women 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?No I said the guys who figure out young have had some time of help/mentoring early on in life. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 04:03 PM |
| 2 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..You know nothing about women…. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Got flat out rejected, don’t know how to feelYou did nothing wrong OP. The girl just wasn’t feeling you. If you said the same thing to a totally different girl who actually liked you, it would’ve went differently. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:31 AM |
| 11 | Holy fucking shit, stop complimenting women right away.As a fellow black guy It’s not baby oil, it’s cocoa butter. Get it right sir. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Holy fucking shit, stop complimenting women right away.Its not about giving out compliments. It depends whether or not if she’s attracted to the guy giving them out. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Just A Reminder…..If it was something totally out of his control, I would understand. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Just A Reminder…..Yes of course I would. If he promised to show up to an event and he didn’t. That’s a man who can’t keep his word. I hold everyone to the same standard. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Who’s that? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Just A Reminder…..There. Fixed it for you | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Bro I’ve experienced this plenty of times. There were always signs in the beginning, I just chose to ignore them. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:57 PM |
| 2 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Exactly | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 04:24 PM |
| -3 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..IMO a first date should be no longer than 45 minutes- an hour. That should give you enough time for small talk, flirting, and building sexual tension. That’s plenty of time to find out if a woman is feeling you or vice versa. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 04:24 PM |
| 13 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..That’s sad | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 04:12 PM |
| 3 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Yup and don’t forget about the light touching. When she touches your arm or leg. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 3 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..That’s not true bro. Women are definitely binary depending on the guy they’re dealing with. You have to remember that women don’t treat all men the same. If a woman is highly attracted to you she will comply with you. Don’t let these women fool you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.You have to remember that women treat men differently based on their level of attraction. If a woman is highly sexually attracted to you, she will be down to smash. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.That’s personally the way I do things. I often flirt and build enough sexual tension during the first date. A woman already knows within the first few minutes if she would sleep with you. Women instantly know what they’re attracted to, due to their experiences dealing with men. Why prolong it? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:36 AM |
| 6 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..This is true. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:33 AM |
| -5 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.The 2nd date should always be at your place… | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:24 AM |
| 15 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..That’s the key | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:20 AM |
| 5 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..Your first mistake was the 2.5 hour long date. You aren’t supposed to give a woman that much access to you that early. Everything you give a woman has to be earned. If you give a woman that much time with you in the beginning, she will take it for granted. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:20 AM |
| 23 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..If she flakes on the second date, that means that she didn’t really like you. There were obviously signs in the beginning. Women are permanently receptive to guys they really like and respect. Go touch grass. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:57 AM |
| 2 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..You’re looking for consistent compliance. She has to comply the whole way. I thought you would be smart enough to figure that out…. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:55 AM |
| 4 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..There are a lot of ways to test it. If you’re at a bar, you can get up and tell her to move where you are sitting. You could also tell her to get up, you would like to see how tall she is. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:41 AM |
| -2 | My answer to the "do looks matter" questionFor the last time. Looks are subjective. A short, fat, balding man can still get laid if he has Game. Someone will find him attractive. He could pull if he approaches enough women. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseI made a similar post like this earlier and it was taken down by the mods. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Yes. That’s right | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?What is that supposed to mean? | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Yes. If I think they’re fuckable I’ll give them a chance | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Damn that must be tough…. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Aura/confidence is King!!! | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?I’m 5’10. I’m a midget according to social media and the internet. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?How is it not true. I’ve been called both handsome and ugly. So it has to be true | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?That’s not true. Someone who looks like frakenstein would have to play the numbers game harder than anyone else, but would eventually find a woman who likes his look and is attracted to him. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?That’s not true. A woman doesn’t have to think you’re good looking. She just can’t be repulsed by your looks. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Exactly | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Beauty is subjective. What one person finds beautiful, another person may not. It all comes to down to preference. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….Yup that’s correct. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:41 AM |
| 5 | How to flirt and close the date to ask them to come homebYou’re too dependent on the outcome. You should always have no expectations and detach yourself from the situation. So what if she rejects you or sees you as a creep, who gives af? Just go talk to another woman. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What made you better/more natural?How long did it take you? | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 09:06 PM |
| 5 | How to flirt and close the date to ask them to come homebI just don’t get it. These guys want sex, but are too afraid to create the situations to get it. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 07:05 PM |
| 31 | How to flirt and close the date to ask them to come homebThere is no safe way to escalate. If you don’t feel comfortable being sexual, it won’t work. You gotta let your nuts drop dawg. Embrace affection and accept rejection. You gotta build the sexual tension though flirting. You can start off with a small compliment and watch how she reacts to it. If she smiles or blushes, you can turn it up. You would then move on to light touching. Watch her reaction, if her reaction is positive you move on to kissing. Then you bring her out the spot. That’s a base… | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..There is no such thing as a 10. Looks are subjective. What you might consider a 10, another guy might consider her a 7. She’s either attractive or not. Quit putting women on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.Are your words matching your actions? | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Going out alone to a cub/bar alone (Part 2)Definitely a win. The approach was the success. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….Finally someone who gets it. The rest of these guys are lost. If a woman makes you wait for sex, that means you weren’t her first choice. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:41 AM |
| 10 | Going out alone to a cub/bar alone (Part 2)I’ve been following your posts. How did you do tonight? Did you approach any women, if so how many? | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Went out alone to a nightclub: Approached with no success.That’s a very successful night in my opinion. You actually got out of your comfort zone and went out and approached women by yourself. That’s the definition of success bro. Rejections or not, you decided to take action. | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is a Lifestyle, Not a HobbyWhat would you like to debate me about? | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 02:05 PM |
| 50 | Cold Approach is a Lifestyle, Not a HobbyYou started off so good and then you messed up…. “With all this taken into account, us men only have a small window of opportunity for most girls to give us a chance.” As a man, a woman doesn’t give you a chance. The only time a woman gives you a chance is when she thinks she is better than you. As a man you give the woman an opportunity to mess with you. A woman who is highly interested in you would see you as an upgrade/opportunity. Everything else you said was pretty much on point. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Places To Meet Women?Bro it’s summer. Women are outside in abundance | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 05:36 AM |
| 0 | I think I am over fucking and gameCool story bro… | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?10k approaches? How long have you been cold approaching? What was the most amount of women you approached in 1 day? | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 12:19 PM |
| -2 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….There’s obviously a difference between sexual attraction and basic attraction. You can find a man attractive and not be sexually attracted to him and vice versa. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….I didn’t pay the dating coach. I watched his video. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:41 PM |
| -12 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….But you said that you would have to be comfortable enough to sleep with a man. If you’re sexually attracted to a man that means you would automatically be comfortable. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:04 PM |
| -1 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….So you’ve never had a one night stand or had sex on the first date? | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 10:51 PM |
| -2 | I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic….I completely agree with this. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 10:51 PM |
| 9 | Where in the US is there a decent scene but low obesity ratesThat’s why you need Game to deal with those women. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Yeah but you have to realize something. A woman already knows within the first few minutes of interacting with you if she would have sex with you. Why waste more time than you have to? You don’t have to build rapport. The more attracted a woman is to you, the more comfortable she already is. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 03:20 PM |
| 11 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Ok. That’s good. Give her genuine compliments during the date. You want to see how she responds to your compliments/flirting. If it’s a positive response keep it going. Pay attention to their body language and how they are responding to you. If there sexually attracted to you women will then start touching you either on the arm, knee, or leg. You would then proceed to touch them back in one of those places. And of course you would move on to kissing. Also I would cut my dates shorter than 2-3 ho… | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 02:21 PM |
| 20 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Do you flirt within the first few minutes of the date? Like do you imply with something that would let them know that you are sexually attracted to them? It doesn’t have to be anything overly sexual, it can just be something light like you look good tonight. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 12:40 PM |
| 40 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?I have 3 important questions. 1. How long do these dates usually last? 2. Do you flirt within the first few minutes of the date? 3. What kind of dates do you do? Drink dates, coffee dates, or restaurants? | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Bro that is very rare. Most of the guys you come across have had someone who was good with women teach them the game at a young age. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Help plsYou already know she likes you so this is easy. Just be yourself. Give her a few compliments and see how she responds. It can be anything from her smile to her eyes. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?What do you struggle with in closing? | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:19 PM |
| 18 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?Why aren’t you dating other women outside of work? Stop Work Mackin. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?Horrible advice | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching as a 33m worth it?This you should always approach with no expectations. Your only expectation should be to become better at it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:00 PM |
| 20 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?It’s because some guys figure it out really young. They either have a father, uncle, older cousin, or someone who is good with women teach them the game at a young age. Most guys aren’t natural, they just had a head start. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:55 AM |
| 2 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?Not only that, but I think it’s also due to the pandemic. A lot of the younger generation were never taught how to develop their social skills. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:51 AM |
| 2 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?What? That’s crazy…. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Why do my dates feel great conversationally but not romantically?You have to learn how to flirt and build sexual tension during the date. That’s what’s going to bridge the gap. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:48 AM |
| 3 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?Nah homie. I love approaching women. I get a rush from it. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 11:43 PM |
| 3 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?Most of the women will be in groups or will be by themselves. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren'tI absolutely disagree with this. Cold approaching is easily one of the best ways to develop your social skills and also a great way to pick up women. It’s a numbers game either way you look at it. Most women won’t be into you, that’s great imo. I like to get rejected quickly and right away. That way I can keep talking and eventually find the women who are for me. Cold approaching is a win win situation. You’re developing your social skills and gaining experience dealing with women. The risk vs t… | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?Yeah but you know what I mean. You’re way more likely to get laid at a bar at night than in a park. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 8 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?My issue is that you can be way more direct in nightgame the bar/lounge. Women go to these places to get laid. That’s where most one night stands happen. During day game, I would have to lead with a insta date or schedule a date. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?Damn you make some great points. You just gave me a different perspective. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?Yeah that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 08:36 PM |
| 8 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?Night game is very easy. I usually go to bars/lounges and approach women who are by themselves. Those women are usually more receptive to making something happen. What’s your secret for day game? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 08:15 PM |
| 4 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?This!!!!! Flirting is nothing but subtle sexual innuendo mixed with light touching. For example if you’re out with a woman getting a drink and she sucks on her straw. You would say something like “Whew The way you keep sucking that straw is turning me on” You basically want to say something witty or whimsical. If she responds in a positive matter keep it going. You would then proceed to lightly touch her. You could touch her knee, leg, or hand. Remember touching is also apart of flirting. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety (toxic internal monologue)Are you a real pimp? | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Help me turn on my wife.How long did it take you to smash when you first met her? | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:09 PM |
| -2 | So Basically Everyone is Playing The Numbers Game When It Comes To Dating?The workload is definitely similar. Think about it. 95% of the guys that women date just want to smash and don’t want anything serious. Which leaves 5%. The 5 percent who want something serious with the woman are the guys who the women aren’t sexually attracted to. Let’s not forget about the other 85 percent of the guys shes not attracted to as well. We all know that women want that top sexual alpha guy. They have to compete for that guy. Ask me how I know. They want the sexually attractive alph… | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 02:56 AM |
| -30 | So Basically Everyone is Playing The Numbers Game When It Comes To Dating?It’s not. Women have an easier time getting dick but a hard time finding a guy who’s serious about wifing them up. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Between October 2023 and June 2024, I got over 40 numbers and since then I've gotten over 100. Every single one has ghosted me. I'm starting to think there is a problem with ME.I see why you keep getting ghosted. Never offer a woman a first date to a restaurant or a movie!!! It’s either a drink or a coffee date. The first date should be a low investment date. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 7 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?Yes having game is being able to find and recognize the women who are automatically into you. I’m pretty sure you have had women interested in you in the past. You just didn’t have enough game to recognize it. Every men has a certain type of subset of women he naturally attracts. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 02:34 PM |
| 52 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?Why would you waste time on a woman who clearly isn’t interested? You could’ve spent that time talking to women who would’ve been more receptive to your approach. If a woman is negatively responding to your flirting move on! | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?It depends. A lot of women will approach a guy and sleep with him with the hope of it developing into a relationship. Women always have an agenda in mind… That’s why as a man it’s important to always lead the interaction | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:43 AM |
| 4 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Yes I agree that women get horny. I just don’t believe that he’s had hundreds of women approach him for one night stands. Most women aren’t that direct. Come on hundreds? | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 09:38 AM |
| 7 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?I know women are horny. That’s why one nights stands exist. Your mate is lying to you. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 09:20 AM |
| 11 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Never. If a woman approaches you, she obviously has an agenda. She might want a relationship or money. It would very rarely be strictly for sex…. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Y'all boys im going to the club for 2nd time, give me some advice on how to get a hookupApproach a lot of women. You’ll better you chances if you approach the women who are checking you out first. Walk up and introduce yourself. Tell them something that caught your attention that caused you to approach. Flirt and build sexual tension, her response will tell you everything you need to know. Go for the kiss and pull her out of the spot. That’s it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….I never thought about it that way. That makes a lot of sense. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 01:55 AM |
| 32 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….I don’t think that she is naturally shy. She’s a bartender/teacher so she has to have an outgoing personality due to her career/job. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 01:08 AM |
| 8 | How have the shorter guys dealt with the height issue?I’m 5’9 and honestly have never had women who have had an issue with my height. The last woman I dated was 6’1. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 12:58 AM |
| 7 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItNo it’s not lmao. U understand that the same guys they swipe left on tinder, it would be a different situation if they met those guys in person. Women are way more picky on dating apps than they are in real life. Due to the sheer amount of men they attract on dating apps. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 12:20 PM |
| 19 | How do I get over my fear of approaching women and false SA?Why do you guys do this to yourself? Most women aren’t just accusing men of SA in the masses. If you get rejected just keep it pushing. The only time that women accuse guys of being thirsty on Social Media is when the guys keep pursuing after they get rejected. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Just want to understand….A good rule of thumb is: If you have to ask if a particular woman is interested you, then that means that she probably isn’t interested in you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do.I don’t think that it would take 6-12 months for a guy to get good at cold approach. If a guy went out and talked to 10 women a day for a month, he would naturally become better in a short amount of time due to sheer volume and exposure. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedGet ready for your meeting with HR Monday morning. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I listened to yall but need more adviceJust start going out by yourself. I go out by myself all the time. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Genuine desire is overrated?How does the guy pulling medium interest women have more game? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:59 AM |
| 5 | a question for guys who cold approachTo answer your original question, it is both a numbers game and you also need game to better your chances. It’s a numbers game in a sense of the more women/volume you approach the better chance you have of closing. But it takes game to be able to gauge a woman’s interest level and escalate the situation. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 04:37 AM |
| 1 | a question for guys who cold approachWhy did you limit it to day game, instead of night game? It would have improved your chances of getting laid. Or were you just doing daygame for experience? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 04:32 AM |
| 10 | This Needs To Be Said!!!!Exactly!!!! | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:37 AM |
| 3 | a question for guys who cold approachI just looked at your stats. So you approached 400+ women and only got laid once in your beginner phase? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to get the most out of this communityFailing is a part of the process. It helps you learn through your mistakes and improve on what you are failing at. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?If you don’t respect your own time, she won’t respect you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Please help a 40 years old virginHave you ever approached a woman in your life? What is the age range of the women that you are interested in? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Why women don't chase men?Women do chase men. They just don’t chase the men they aren’t attracted to. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Like To Push Through Resistance With Women. Why do You Do It?Yup. I’ve been there a few times myself. I’m glad it happened though, it gave me a chance to end the date early. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:00 PM |
| 8 | To The Guys Who Like To Push Through Resistance With Women. Why do You Do It?I agree with you, but I’m not talking about playful resistance. I’m talking about actual resistance. Like if you try to kiss a woman and she moves her face and says I’m not that type of girl. A guy with experience would be able to tell the difference. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Im 18m (M4f)and I'm boredd and horny come pick me up in sc 843 Hartsville area!(freeuse) !Go outside and cold approach 100 women. At least 1 of them will be interested in you. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 07:50 AM |
| 2 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…That just means that you weren’t the woman’s first choice and she settled for you | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 09:16 PM |
| 0 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…Sexual attraction doesn’t develop overtime. It’s either there or it’s not. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 1 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…It it true. I’ve heard women say he could get it. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…So a woman can see a guy and instantly know that she would never sleep with him? But the opposite can’t also be true? That doesn’t make any sense | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…Exactly | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?Ted Bundy didn’t lift Bro | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?What ended up happening? Lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?Thanks | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?That’s considered stalking. That’s like waiting for her in the parking lot | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?I flirt everywhere I go. I’m a natural flirt. I usually just go to the gym do my workout and mind my business. But every once in a a while someone catches my eye. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:37 AM |
| 3 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?It’s a mix. But it’s mostly people in their 20s-30s | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 02:14 AM |
| 5 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?You see, it’s nice to get a woman’s perspective on this. The gym is that one place where you have to be careful to approach. I’ve never approached a woman at the gym, even though I’ve had quite a few women checking me out. People are busy with their workouts and wouldn’t want to be interrupted. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 02:04 AM |
| 2 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:49 AM |
| 1 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?I go yo planet fitness | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 3 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?I’m not gonna follow a woman around the parking lot. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?I’ve always hated that double standard. Society has always made it acceptable for women to use men for their time and emotional validation, but they make it seem like it’s bad if men use women for sex. Even though the woman wanted it just as bad | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?So are you against cold approach in general and more in favor of choosing signals? | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?You’re right | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?It’s not an unhelpful fact. Women already know this and understand what’s going on. Women fuck around with the really attractive guy and settle for the guy who they don’t really want. Women are just too lazy and don’t want to compete with other women for the same guy, so they end up settling for the guy who’s just good enough. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:41 AM |
| 2 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?It’s not only about looks. I think it’s a combination of things. Women look at the entire package when they’re dealing with men. Your looks, vibe, appearance, etc…. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:26 AM |
| 6 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?I’m just saying if a guy went out one week and made it his mission to approach 1000 women. I’m pretty sure he would find a few who really liked him no matter what he looks like. It just proves that that guy would have to work harder and put in more work. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:23 AM |
| 7 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?Exactly. Most of the guys complaining about not being able to find someone, are guys who have never even approached women or put in work. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:21 AM |
| 11 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?Women only have options for Dick. They don’t have options for relationships with guys they really want. Women don’t have enough game to keep the really attractive guys around. That’s where people get confused. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 03:46 AM |
| 7 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?No homo, but I’ve seen some of the most physically unattractive dudes in full blown relationships. I think any man can pull if he works on his overall appearance and grooms himself properly. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 03:38 AM |
| 11 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?💯!!! This is what I am currently learning myself. You have to put yourself first and put what you want out there. It’s ok to be selfish sometimes to get what you want. Women gravitate towards guys who put themselves first. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 03:34 AM |
| 0 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?Do you believe that or not? I personally believe that to be true. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I seduced my superiorThese guys are lost out here. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I seduced my superior4 Hours= 4 Dates Spending 4 hours with a woman is the equivalent of going on 4 dates. You’re moving backwards in the situation. Why would you suggest a date to a woman who was DTF that same night? It doesn’t make any sense. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 07:06 PM |
| -4 | Just A Little Tip For Anyone Who Doesn’t Know…..So you just approach a woman and assume that she didn’t come to the spot with anyone. Ok buddy. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not?When you make definite plans/date with someone ahead of time, so that your schedules align and they decide they don’t want to see you at the last minute. Or make excuses to not see you. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not?That’s the best strategy in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 07:19 PM |
| 11 | Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not?You can’t stop women from flaking. I’m more talking about meeting women online, than cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 07:18 PM |
| 10 | Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not?That’s absolutely true if you’re pursuing a relationship with them. But you shouldn’t get into a serious relationship with a woman who flakes on you or who shows a lack of interest. You just smash them and don’t take them seriously. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not?I definitely agree with this. If they flake they should move all the way down to plan z. Instead of meeting at the bar, make them meet you at your place. That’s some good game right there.💪 | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 07:06 PM |
| -41 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!It’s ok to be in the friend zone. She needs a guy like you to help her move, because the guy she really wants ain’t doing it. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!He does have options. He just chooses to stay and not walk away. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:19 AM |
| -68 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Huh? | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Yup you’re basically the friend without the sexual benefits. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:18 AM |
| -28 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!It’s ok if you don’t value your time. You can Keep going on 3 or 4 dates. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:13 AM |
| -6 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Found him. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Exactly. I don’t get it. It’s ok for a woman to use a man for money, time, and attention. But if a man just wants sex he’s automatically labeled a bad guy. I don’t get that logic. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:07 AM |
| 8 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Yup. It’s the most important thing and you can’t get it back. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:06 AM |
| -10 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!I agree | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:04 AM |
| -12 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Ok. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:03 AM |
| -36 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!So you shouldn’t bring up sex at anytime while dating? | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:00 AM |
| -8 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!Why? | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Exactly and if you do decide to wait, just understand that she’s settling for you and that will dictate the tone of the relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Should I chase her.Remember what my guy /RogueSpaghetti said. “It’s either a Hell Yes! Or No”. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Does it feel like a loss when you’re dating a woman and she wants to break up with you and you never had sex with her?You can’t be serious…. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!That’s understandable. Notice I said if You Choose to wait that’s ok. You guys have to read and comprehend what I wrote. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?I agree. Being direct saves you a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?I think it’s mainly because of rejection. A lot of guys are simply afraid of being rejected. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?That’s because these guys know their tribe and the women who naturally gravitate towards them. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?It really shocks me that guys don’t think that women are cool with just having sex without the commitment. There are a lot of women out here who would be ok with just having fun with nsa. OP has to realize that it’s a numbers game and most of the women who he interacts with will reject him. He has to find the women who are sexually attracted to him. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Ok. I understand what you’re saying. I’m just telling guys not to waste a lot of time and energy on women who aren’t sexually attracted to them. It doesn’t take a woman a long time to know if she is sexually attracted to you, she makes that decision in no time. If a guy moves on quickly, he is saving his and her time. She can find someone who she is sexually attracted to and he can find someone who is sexually attracted to him. It’s a win win situation for both people involved. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Exactly. Why wait for it, just to find out if we’re not sexually compatible? It makes no sense. We can find that out in the beginning and save each other a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!That’s understandable, if that’s the type of women You Are Attracted to. You still have to make sure that the women are sexually attracted to you though. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!But this comment doesn’t make any sense. Wouldn’t an incel be telling guys that promiscuous women are dirty and don’t deserve marriage? I’m promoting guys to wife up promiscuous women. That’s the complete opposite of an incel. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!I agree with you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Sure Women practice sexual discipline all the time on guys they aren’t Sexually or physically attracted to. But when she comes across “That Guy” that makes her feel a certain way, she’s gonna give it up with no hesitation. There is always that one guy who ticks all of her boxes. Ask me how I know lol. You’re forgetting about Nature. Nature is a motherf*cker. Nature doesn’t give a f about your morals, values, or standards. Nature just needs us to procreate and populate the earth. That’s why sexua… | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!That’s not true all the time. Women don’t have a lot of options like you think they do. Women already know that the majority of the guys they deal with only want to f*ck. So they don’t take a lot of guys seriously. If women have so many options, then why are there so many “Single” women out here? | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:50 AM |
| 9 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!You have to remember that women treat men differently. Just because she made Bob wait 6 months, doesn’t mean that she will make Kevin wait 6 months. She made you wait 7 months because she wasn’t sexually attracted to you, and was probably f*cking other guys during the time you were waiting. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!There is a difference between a woman being physically attracted and sexually attracted to a man. Just because a woman has an itch that needs to be scratched doesn’t mean that she doesn’t respect herself. Let’s not act like women aren’t out here having ons on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!You’re absolutely right, but you’re forgetting one thing though. Women don’t like the majority of the guys on the dating apps. Most of those guys in her inbox are invisible to her, so they don’t even matter. A woman can have 100 guys in her inbox. Out of those 100 guys, she would only be interested in about 10 and out of that 10 she would probably go on a date with 5, and out of that 5 she would only smash 2 or 3. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!It’s not about the woman being down bad. It’s about her being sexually attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Exactly. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!!Exactly!!!! You’re one of the few people in the comments who got it. It’s not about the sex, it’s about her level of interest. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?I think this is the best way to look at approaching. | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?Damn u make a great point. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?Damn. This was some great advice. After reading this, I still have a lot of work to do. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 08:58 AM |
| 0 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?Stop the fear mongering | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 8 | Why Do Women Put “Looking For Friends Only” on Dating Apps?That’s why you never listen to what women say lol. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Why Do Women Put “Looking For Friends Only” on Dating Apps?But if a woman only wants to be your friend. She doesn’t want to f*ck you. There is no sexual attraction. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:55 PM |
| 14 | Why Do Women Put “Looking For Friends Only” on Dating Apps?Why would a guy go along with that? | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | second date inviting straight over?What’s your success rate with that? | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How to pivot initial negative response and continue the conversation to change it to a YES?Just walk away | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Where would you go on a solo "vacation" if you had roughly one week (first week of November) and your goal was to give yourself the best chances for success in applying the strategies discussed here?Just remember you can be successful with women anywhere in the world. You’re the common denominator. It doesn’t matter what country you’re in. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationExactly. Life is too short for regrets. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 04:57 PM |
| 10 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win Situation💀 | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationThat’s a good mindset to have. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:59 PM |
| 4 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationNo you’re not. Cold approaching women is like telling a woman I might be interested in you, but the way you’re responding to me will let me make the final decision. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationExactly you can basically see how a woman is responding to you through her body language, if she is interested or not. I’ve been noticing this. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationHow so? | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce a Indian Mature Women (30-45)What country do you live in? | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 08:34 AM |
| 9 | How to seduce a Indian Mature Women (30-45)I don’t know where you live at, but you have to go where the mature women hang out at. Go to bars and lounges. Just start going and approaching older women. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Responding to "not sure if you're my type"I’ve been that guy too. Please stop looking at sex as a reward. That’s your first problem. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Responding to "not sure if you're my type"You see it’s all about context. If she smiles and says it of course that could be her way of flirting. That’s common sense. Now that is different. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Responding to "not sure if you're my type"Yes it is that simple. If a woman says you’re not my type, just say ok and start walking. She’s giving you resistance from the start, so that’s letting you know you’re not the guy in her eyes. Why waste time with a woman who doesn’t want you? | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 05:15 PM |
| 14 | Responding to "not sure if you're my type"Exactly. Just walk away. It’s that simple. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Point of Seduction?Exactly. I agree with this. More men should focus on high interest women. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Point of Seduction?Yes they do. They might not act on it, but they definitely want to do it. You don’t have to seduce high interest girls. They already want to fuck you. You just have to talk to them a little bit and they’re ready are ready to go back to your place ASAP. That was my auto correct lol. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Point of Seduction?I disagree with that. A woman can be sexually attracted to a man who is lower “status” than her. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 05:45 AM |
| -5 | What’s The Point of Seduction?That makes sense, but just remember that woman will always think that she settled for you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How to approach religious girls? (Christian)By learning how to flirt and build sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 07:35 PM |
| 5 | How to approach religious girls? (Christian)Why is it so hard for guys to understand this? Just because a woman is religious or has a certain job title doesn’t make her immune to strong sexual desires. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateIt’s that simple. Either a woman likes you or she doesn’t. A woman knows if she wants to sleep with you when she first interacts with you. It’s either a yes, no, or a maybe. If it’s a yes that means she’s very sexually attracted to you. Women don’t treat all men they deal with the same way. Just because she makes Bob wait 3 dates, doesn’t mean that she won’t sleep with Tony on the first date. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:30 PM |
| -1 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateThat’s because they aren’t really sexually attracted to you. If a woman can wait to have sex with you, you’re not her first choice. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Fuck dating apps we gotta learn cold approaches and build confidenceI definitely agree with this. I get really good results on dating apps, but cold approach is still King. You develop your social skills and mouthpiece. Dating apps make you lazy. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateU have to remember that a lot of guys on this sub are delusional. Don’t worry about the downvotes. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateExactly Bro. He just doesn’t get it. Those women never really liked him. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateHe’s actually right. If it takes 5 or 6 dates for a woman to sleep with you, that means that she doesn’t really like you. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:34 PM |
| 10 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateA woman who is sexually attracted to you is gonna want to have sex with you with little to no resistance. Women value non sexual attention from men more than they value sex imo. A woman will use you for your non sexual attention and string you along with the promise of sex. The only way to know that a woman is sexually attracted to you is by having sex. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 05:49 PM |
| 23 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateSmashing on the first or second date isn’t about bragging rights. It’s about seeing if the woman is sexually attracted to you. Why would you deal with a woman who isn’t sexually attracted to you? You would be wasting both you and her’s time. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?That was the point of my post. I’ve experienced women with high interest in the past, but now I’m only running into women with medium to low interest | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | An active sex life with 2 FWB’s Thanx to this sub!👍 | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 08:04 AM |
| 3 | How big are u?What’s up with all these 🏳️🌈 posts? You are very insecure and need help. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Why do one night stands exist? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?OLD- Online Dating ONS- One Night Stand | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 12:58 AM |
| 14 | People with success first of all how big is your ppNigha U Gay | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?I agree. You don’t need seduction for high interest women. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Horrible advice | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?How does one achieve that? | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 10:45 PM |
| 7 | An active sex life with 2 FWB’s Thanx to this sub!He probably Black pilled. Your height has nothing to do with attracting women. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Damn I never thought about it like that | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Well I can’t argue with that. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What Does It Mean if a Woman Says That She Doesn’t Feel A Connection?Damn u make a great point. I never thought about that. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 02:04 PM |
| 4 | What Does It Mean if a Woman Says That She Doesn’t Feel A Connection?Yup. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….I’ve experienced girls who aren’t comfortable with PDA. The best thing to do is to pull them out the spot. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 11:46 PM |
| 2 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….You know what this might actually make sense. You can build sexual tension by flirting and holding out on the kiss. I think I’m gonna try this. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Does women only sleep with you if they trust you or what??I don’t know why people are downvoting you. Sexual attraction has nothing to do with trust. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:27 PM |
| 5 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….I completely agree with this. I’m just saying within that date, you have to let it known that you are sexually attracted to her as well. If you don’t flirt, kiss or touch her in anyway she will take that as rejection. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….So you go from flirting straight to let’s go back to my place? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 2 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….So how do you know if the woman is sexually attracted to you? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….By flirting. You can either do it verbally or through touch. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 04:07 PM |
| 0 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Exactly. This doesn’t make any sense. You have to let the woman know that you interested in her sexually. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Ok. That’s understandable. You can flirt through touch. You will know she is open to going back to your place by how she responds to your touching. I get that. This guy was saying that he Doesn’t Flirt or kiss. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 04:02 PM |
| 5 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….So women don’t make decisions based on how they feel in the moment aka(energy)? Yes women will sleep with a guy if they like how he looks, or if he is their physical type. Most of what women do is based on how they “Feel” in that moment. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 5 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….I understand that, but flirting isn’t just about seducing a woman. Flirting is also about seeing if a woman is interested in you sexually. How she responds to your flirting would tell you her level of attraction. Of course you would also need to give her a compliance/cooperation test to see how she responds to that. Also women just don’t go based off of looks, they go based off of your energy and how You Make Them Feel in the situation. That’s also a good reason to flirt. You want to make her fe… | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?That makes a lot of sense | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 12:33 AM |
| 4 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?I’m glad you commented. So you’re basically saying that your feelings are still strong for him, regardless of what he did to you. I guess You can’t help who you love. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?Boy you broke that down to a T. I’m gonna go check out that song. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?That’s good that you are working on yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?I understand that, but you have to be careful. You’ll lose out on a lot of good guys playing hard to get. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?Come on bro. I’ve heard some whoppers in my life, but that takes the cake 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?I’m confused. What does a lifestyle have to do with sex appeal? I know guys who are bums sleeping on air mattresses smashing women left and right. Those guys don’t have anything to offer the women they sleep with except D*ck and bubblegum. How would you explain that? | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?I know, but you said that sex appeal is based on a particular lifestyle which isn’t true. Sex appeal is based purely on sexual attraction and desirability.A woman being sexually attracted to a man has nothing to do with his finances or what he can provide. It’s based on pure unadulterated lust. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?Those guys are leading with money. Leading with money and leading with sex appeal are 2 different things. Money only attracts women who don’t really like you for you. Sex appeal attracts women who really like for you, not what you have to offer. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?Ok. I get it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain What Sex Appeal Is?That makes sense. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?Ok I got it | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?Damn Thank You For This!!!! You really broke it down to a T. So basically when you flirt with words, you want to express to her how she makes you feel. You basically include yourself in the compliment that you give her. You should mix it up sexually and non sexually. I think I get it. You really just opened up my mind!! | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?Yeah that totally makes sense. The problem is that I have trouble flirting to get to the kissing part. I usually kiss in the second date. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 11:54 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?Ok | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 11:36 PM |
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