I see a lot of guys defining themselves late bloomers. Let me tell you a secret. Every woman desires an Alpha Badass Charming guy, leader of men, blessing of women, that for some obscure reason decides to ignore the other thousands of women wanting him and to be faithful to her only. When the woman ages up, she realizes this dream is delusional: she probably managed to get into the sheets of the ABC guy, but surprise! he's having sex with lots of women! How rude of him. So the woman gets burned, and lower her standards to find emotional security, and she suddenly notices there are many more men on the earth than she had ever thought. So no my friend, you're not blooming, it's her standards that are withering. Wake up.