So to explain better I have what I describe as an over friendly problem. I know that simply asking for what I want and explaining what I want is the way to go. And hey I can only do this half the time. For a better example last week at a bar I flirted and kissed a woman took her home with no fear with full confidence. But today a cute girl that was clearly interested in me in a sex club and would have been a pretty easy lay if I just asked her or told her we should fuck I didn’t do it. And my worst fear happened and someone else did and got to sleep with her. I felt so humiliated…. Like why the hell do on some days I’ll take a girl home no problem and other days it’s like I have no confidence despite being an attractive man?! I was literally screaming inside my own head, just be sexual and ask her to fuck and yet I didn’t do it. And this happens in all my other encounters, where half the time I’m asking for numbers and other times I’m stuck in friendly conversation despite being interested. Has anyone ever had this problem?