Im 25, about to move back into nyc. I had a 3.5 yr relationship, followed quickly by a 5.5 yr one that recently ended. I like to think im a pretty good looking dude, last gf was super cute and threw herself at me. Problem is ive never initiated a pickup in a social situation, ever.

So I was wondering where to start. I read The Game which seems to get a bad rep here, and have started to listen to the Tyler Durden lectures. I have confidence in my looks and job, but no confidence in my social skills. Appreciate the recommendations.