In a nutshell, after a year or two of approaching the women I can, and talking to them, any woman just to break the anxiety and then eventually moving onto ones I found attractive, I noticed something. Not a single one is flirting back. Which last I checked, is sorta kinda important.

Here's the thing, I can go up to a girl confidently and start up a conversation, she'll seem interested, but when I start to flirt, commenting her, teasing her, she doesn't send those messages back.

I tried this at a party yesterday (lucky enough to get to one, 1st one this year). It was an ABC party, so plenty to talk about, I went up to a girl, asked her name, teased her about her costumes, sexual innuendo's, held her hand, made her laugh. ETC. But no IOI's except holding her hand and laughing.

Had a friend who has the magic ability to get a new girl every week since the beggining of our first year, I told him of the problems I had and asked him to be my wingman. He tried to do things similar to what I did, however after 5-10 minutes of talking, they were making out. He stopped her, pointed to me and said "Okay, now he just came up and flirted with you, even tried to kiss you, I did the same thing, what is it he could do better", she had a confused look on her face. It was pretty funny. But she couldn't give an answer.

My guess is that I am not building enough attraction, I'm not an interesting enough person (have NO clue on how to fix that) so I don't have much to say, or I am just ugly.

I think it is the first two, what did I miss?